FabSwingers.com forum: When your face pics ends a conservation

By *ighland gentleman OP Man
over a year ago

Ardgay

In the last week, have had 2 conversations with different fabbers both appeared to be going well as had got to the face pic stage.

In both cases, sending a face pic resulted in silence and no reply.

Neither have blocked me though.

Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They didn't like your face

What is there to wonder about

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Quite rude just to ignore and stop conversations. I always say not for me but will happily continue to chat when possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Howling sorry lol some folk are just plain rude

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Some don’t know how to say sorry, not for me.

I’ve seen instances where people have really thrown their toys out of their prams over it. I don’t know why, if you’re not what someone wants then so be it.

Either that or it’s the lady from the corner shop

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By *ighland gentleman OP Man
over a year ago

Ardgay

"They didn't like your face

What is there to wonder about "

There us that, just unusual twice in a week.

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By *ighland gentleman OP Man
over a year ago

Ardgay

"Some don’t know how to say sorry, not for me.

I’ve seen instances where people have really thrown their toys out of their prams over it. I don’t know why, if you’re not what someone wants then so be it.

Either that or it’s the lady from the corner shop

No toys from pram here, just a wee rant to get frustration off my chest!

Off to corner shop to see who's near by!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously take it as a no attraction.

Yes rude but prob just didnt want to tell you they didnt fancy you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you broke their phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm chatting to someone I send it very quickly. That way it's easier to say I'm not what they are looking for or they aren't for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you broke their phone

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oi you..I was trying to be diplomatic and you come in trample all over with your size 10 boots!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you broke their phone

oi you..I was trying to be diplomatic and you come in trample all over with your size 10 boots!!

Och...you know me...Charm School Drop Out

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Thats why its best to get face pics out of the way quickly to save both their time and yours .

Btw I take it you ment conversation lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Maybe you broke their phone

oi you..I was trying to be diplomatic and you come in trample all over with your size 10 boots!!

Och...you know me...Charm School Drop Out

I though that was very diplomatic for Doggy

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Some don’t know how to say sorry, not for me.

I’ve seen instances where people have really thrown their toys out of their prams over it. I don’t know why, if you’re not what someone wants then so be it.

Either that or it’s the lady from the corner shop

No toys from pram here, just a wee rant to get frustration off my chest!

Off to corner shop to see who's near by!"

Oh, I didn’t mean you lol. I know you take it in your stride

Now then...who was down the corner shop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the last week, have had 2 conversations with different fabbers both appeared to be going well as had got to the face pic stage.

In both cases, sending a face pic resulted in silence and no reply.

Neither have blocked me though.

Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!"

Happened to me twice - one blocked, one didn’t. The last time however we continued chat and they were spot on

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Don't let it get you down and stay positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let it get you down and stay positive."

It’s no problem, not everyone wants to meet or chat further. Looks wise , you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

However I suppose trying to see it from the other point of view, knocking some back maybe has resulted in abusive messages - maybe they think that will happen all the time. Who knows!

Anyway, just going to send you my face pic just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let it get you down and stay positive.

It’s no problem, not everyone wants to meet or chat further. Looks wise , you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

However I suppose trying to see it from the other point of view, knocking some back maybe has resulted in abusive messages - maybe they think that will happen all the time. Who knows!

Anyway, just going to send you my face pic just now

I’m not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to myself alot, it's just one off those things I suppose xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happens to myself alot, it's just one off those things I suppose xx"

You are one of my best friends behave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip. This happens a lot.. I can't understand it.. I thought everyone liked shrek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone has posted on his status that I’m a man because I said he wasn’t my type ! X

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By *ighland gentleman OP Man
over a year ago

Ardgay

"Someone has posted on his status that I’m a man because I said he wasn’t my type ! X"

That's some set of moobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this. That must be gut wrenching. I tell everyone I think they are handsome, even if I’m not sexually attracted to them and then I just leave it there and slowly fade away. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

story of my life.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"In the last week, have had 2 conversations with different fabbers both appeared to be going well as had got to the face pic stage.

In both cases, sending a face pic resulted in silence and no reply.

Neither have blocked me though.

Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!"

perhaps the key is give a face picture sooner in the conversation. Attraction is key to alot of people..

Without chemistry there really is no point in prolonging conversation.

It does mean it isn't rude to not reply. But Maybe a face picture quicker will give you a quicker answer rather than waiting and being disappointed with no response after prolonged long conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t poke the fire without looking at the mantle piece lol

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Maybe you know each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send it with first messsage to avoid disappointment problem solved

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By *ighland gentleman OP Man
over a year ago

Ardgay

"Maybe you know each other"

I would thought that would have earned a block.

As has happened in past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently been accused of being a time waster after chatting then replying that wasnt attracted to someone after a little bit.

Some face pics arent very flattering so sometimes give the benefit of doubt and then if no connection with chat too its a no from me in a polite way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the guys if not all of them have had the same treatment. just say to yourself that its their loss and move on

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

A saying I've never understood how is it their loss if they dont want it ?

I think that saying actually means pfft I'm a legend in my own lunchbox and the worlds crazy for not seeing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You either get on with it or come off Fab. Fab has just become a place where guys jump through hoops for females and then most of the time don't even get a face picture in return after you send one. Happened many a times for me. I've just carried on with it and have spoken to a lot of genuine beautiful women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....

OK little one, simmer down

Past experience has put me off showing common decency!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just send it with first messsage to avoid disappointment problem solved "

Exactly. No point in talking if there's no attraction. Unless you are happy just just to chat and gain a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....

OK little one, simmer down

Past experience has put me off showing common decency!

Yeah. These guys are absolute tits too. No one should experience this. If someone says no thanks to me then that's cool. We aren't all suited for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete all the messages and move on.

I tend to send a face pic on first message and I've learned to just delete it from sent messages immediately. It's extremely rare for couples or ladies to ever reply and that way I'm not left wondering if they've even read it. When I click a profile that says I've mailed them more than a month ago I block the profile as I obviously wasn't what they were after so I might as well not come up on their local update feed or who's near list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatly, we can't be liked by everyone! I have sent messages and got 0 reply but I just move on. we're all adults!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....

OK little one, simmer down

Past experience has put me off showing common decency!

Think the last nasty comment I got was from a guy calling me an absolute tramp because I didn’t want to chat, it dies out you off responding when it’s less hassle to ignore or block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!"

That’s a bit harsh

It’s all about preferences.

Some like some don’t.

Block and move on.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Some people aren’t photogenic and are better looking in person.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"In the last week, have had 2 conversations with different fabbers both appeared to be going well as had got to the face pic stage.

In both cases, sending a face pic resulted in silence and no reply.

Neither have blocked me though.

Just left wondering if I have suddenly become too ugly for fab!"

Get used to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A saying I've never understood how is it their loss if they dont want it ?

I think that saying actually means pfft I'm a legend in my own lunchbox and the worlds crazy for not seeing it "

Nah you're right myself and the others should say we don't fit in with the desired image the beautiful people of fab demand and stop wasting the others air.

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By *andy KTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Don’t worry about op as people are saying be positive and move on ..I’m not everyones cup of tea or even coffee come to think of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re not always going to be to someone’s liking.

But a thanks but no thanks reply would’ve gone along way!

I’ve always been brought up to treat people the way I’d like to be treated. Unfortunately not everyone shares that.

My advice would be to forget about it, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....

OK little one, simmer down

Past experience has put me off showing common decency!

Think the last nasty comment I got was from a guy calling me an absolute tramp because I didn’t want to chat, it dies out you off responding when it’s less hassle to ignore or block "

Same here I’ve had horrible messages back after a polite no thanks but still try to just give a no thanks.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Unpopular opinion but I just end a conversation. I have, at the beginning, said a polite "no thanks" and been hit by a tyrant of abuse. Xxxl cow, rasist, fat, wouldn't anyway....

OK little one, simmer down

Past experience has put me off showing common decency!

Think the last nasty comment I got was from a guy calling me an absolute tramp because I didn’t want to chat, it dies out you off responding when it’s less hassle to ignore or block

Same here I’ve had horrible messages back after a polite no thanks but still try to just give a no thanks.

Still better saying no thanks. Just cause other people are dicks no need for everyone else to be.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

There’s no problem I’m not liking a face pic of course, but a polite no thanks would do, wouldn’t it! Hardly too much to ask is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people aren’t photogenic and are better looking in person. "

I'm going to use that line...'I'm not ugly, I'm just not photogenic"

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