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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so firstly I apologise if my query is due to sheer ignorance.... But.... What is the difference between bisexual and bi-curious?

I assume bisexual women know they like both and that bi-curious are willing to try?

If so... Why do so many couples have the woman as bi-curious yet they are only looking for females (F) or female couples (FF)? Surely these women are deemed as bisexual?

P.s - bet those who know me saw my name and this title thread and thought I was dipping my toe out of a closet luckily I mastered door handles as a kid and haven't been trapped in a closet since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd class myself as bi playfull lol.but when you put bi curious on your profile you get cpls just assuming youl play with the fem? I like fems with a foursome but hate the whole put on a show for the fellas crap.2 fems at it does nothing for jas anyway unless the both on him that is lol.x, auds xx.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd class myself as bi playfull lol.but when you put bi curious on your profile you get cpls just assuming youl play with the fem? I like fems with a foursome but hate the whole put on a show for the fellas crap.2 fems at it does nothing for jas anyway unless the both on him that is lol.x, auds xx."

Am the same Auds.... am not a spectator... its only a good show if they are warming up for me I much prefer the hands on action... porn is there if you wanna just watch.... i do love ffm as long as its fmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it kind of baffles us too....mrs was bi curious, as in would love a girl.....had 6 now!!!!!! so is she now bisexual???? lol mr was bi curious, tried cock and now its been tried im no longer curious,,,,or bi......i know, need to change pro.......will sumday.....promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once told that the 1st time is curious if you try again you are bi

Kay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like most i dont like to look on i like to join in and please all and lots of bi fun

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Tbh, even though i have Bi sexual on my profile, i seriously see myself as straight and its how i like it to be honest, yes i had a 121 with a woman yrs ago twice, but also had a few 3sums also, so would i be what bi-confused lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once told that the 1st time is curious if you try again you are bi

Kay "

Reckon thats about right

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

If i held another blokes mickey and guided it back into a lass in a contortionist position just to help out like would i be non straight ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put bi curious as Mrs Two is quite happy to play with a fem in the context of a 4some but is not interested in pure fem on fem fun. Bi playfull as stated above would probably be a better option. Bi curious for a lot just means they can take it or leave it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels I think are never a good thing - well unless its Versace or Prada etc (hint hit boys - lol)

Seriously though, I would say that bisexual would - generally - would imply a man or woman who has an equal sexual attraction to both men and women.

Whereas bi-curious would be a straight person who occasionally plays with his/her own sex.

This being said, I have heard bi-curious applied to gay men/women who occasionally play with the opposite sex.

So i think bicurious is generally occasional whereas bisexual is full time - if that makes sense

But again i accept the view that your curious until your first time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Labels I think are never a good thing - well unless its Versace or Prada etc (hint hit boys - lol)

Seriously though, I would say that bisexual would - generally - would imply a man or woman who has an equal sexual attraction to both men and women.

Whereas bi-curious would be a straight person who occasionally plays with his/her own sex.

This being said, I have heard bi-curious applied to gay men/women who occasionally play with the opposite sex.

So i think bicurious is generally occasional whereas bisexual is full time - if that makes sense

But again i accept the view that your curious until your first time.

"

Very apt explanation... thanks to all for your views...

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I was once told that the 1st time is curious if you try again you are bi

Kay "

Id say your right Kay i'am way past the curious stage, i would never have a relationship with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been in relationships with both men and women, and deffo hanker after a bit of lady loving compared to man loving about 40/60......i think i was curious before I tried it???? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely hate labels but this is something that has always confused me (Mrs).

Definately consider ourselves as straight BUT happy to have a little fun with the same sex if the mood and circumstances are right BUT would never consider a relationship with the same sex nor is it really something we look for when meeting.

Maybe we are (as said previously) bi playful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like a lot of you, I would imagine that curiosity is bred from the unknown... So there should be bi-playful in between curious and bi... I understand that alot of women will indeed engage with the female in a group situation, but wouldn't really fancy a 1on1 with a girl, which is cool but if the couple are specifically only seeking females surely said lady knows she likes it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time my gut feeling when we have met other couples in the female ain't really bi atall but doing it for a cpl of reasons... 1 being a show for the men and 2 being its popular and trendy to be bi in the swinging scene.... To me I can tell if a woman is bi or not by the way the react to touch etc..

Again no offence intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely hate labels but this is something that has always confused me (Mrs).

Definately consider ourselves as straight BUT happy to have a little fun with the same sex if the mood and circumstances are right BUT would never consider a relationship with the same sex nor is it really something we look for when meeting.

Maybe we are (as said previously) bi playful. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Labels I think are never a good thing - well unless its Versace or Prada etc (hint hit boys - lol)

Seriously though, I would say that bisexual would - generally - would imply a man or woman who has an equal sexual attraction to both men and women.

Whereas bi-curious would be a straight person who occasionally plays with his/her own sex.

This being said, I have heard bi-curious applied to gay men/women who occasionally play with the opposite sex.

So i think bicurious is generally occasional whereas bisexual is full time - if that makes sense

But again i accept the view that your curious until your first time.

Very apt explanation... thanks to all for your views... "

I am very Bi and agree with above, I like both equaly , and if playing with a lady its for us, not for any show ,

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Fab should add a new sexuality option

GREEDY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just sexual lol...With men and women I find the female body more beautiful but I do love a bit of man too. I past curious when I was 18...I thought i was gay but turns out i'm just a greedy bitch. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab should add a new sexuality option

GREEDY "

Hahahaha well that would certainly be apt for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just sexual lol...With men and women I find the female body more beautiful but I do love a bit of man too. I past curious when I was 18...I thought i was gay but turns out i'm just a greedy bitch. xxx"

So the categories now run:- bi curious, bi playful, bi sexual and greedy bassas!!

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Greedy girls need to stick together DD fancy being our glue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just sexual lol...With men and women I find the female body more beautiful but I do love a bit of man too. I past curious when I was 18...I thought i was gay but turns out i'm just a greedy bitch. xxx

So the categories now run:- bi curious, bi playful, bi sexual and greedy bassas!!

"

I'm all of them lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Greedy girls need to stick together DD fancy being our glue x "

Hmmmm sticky lol xx

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Greedy girls need to stick together DD fancy being our glue x

Hmmmm sticky lol xx"

getting some utterly filthy images in my mind at the minute

L xx

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

Star i doubt they can be as filthy as the images in mine and DD's Head when we were chatting about you last night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fookin lesbians... mumble mumble...wont let me watch...

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Star i doubt they can be as filthy as the images in mine and DD's Head when we were chatting about you last night x"

you have to spill at least a wee bit after saying something like that!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Greedy girls need to stick together DD fancy being our glue x

Hmmmm sticky lol xx

getting some utterly filthy images in my mind at the minute

L xx "

Grrrr me too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm try-sexual ...... no confusion there, if I like it I'll try it if I don't then I wont.

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm try-sexual ...... no confusion there, if I like it I'll try it if I don't then I wont. "

brilliant!!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Greedy girls need to stick together DD fancy being our glue x

Hmmmm sticky lol xx

getting some utterly filthy images in my mind at the minute

L xx

Grrrr me too xx"

Oh I reckon I could provide enough glue to get you all very sticky indeed

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

The Thoughts that are going through my head right now!!! Imagine.... DD and Star with Wet and Me all playing and Lavishing DD with attention....... WOW! xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The Thoughts that are going through my head right now!!! Imagine.... DD and Star with Wet and Me all playing and Lavishing DD with attention....... WOW! xxx"

Ok it'd official! I am now walking around work with a raging horn

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

mmmmmmmmmmmm Imagine having that raging horn tended to by 3 ladies all of them doing the things you love to do.... hehehe! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"mmmmmmmmmmmm Imagine having that raging horn tended to by 3 ladies all of them doing the things you love to do.... hehehe! x"

I thought I was the evil one xx

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

hehehe! You are.. I just learned from the Best and i am going to whisper very dirty things in your ear later see how hot i can get you thinking about those ladies that you have taken a shine too... x

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I can take it or leave it, so I guess I'm not bisexual? X

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I'm just sexual lol...With men and women I find the female body more beautiful but I do love a bit of man too. I past curious when I was 18...I thought i was gay but turns out i'm just a greedy bitch. xxx"

Lol, very well said and that make's two of us!

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'm just sexual lol...With men and women I find the female body more beautiful but I do love a bit of man too. I past curious when I was 18...I thought i was gay but turns out i'm just a greedy bitch. xxx"

Im greedy too, well past the curious stage, and like you I love the female form, but enjoy a cock too.

Having never tried a strapon, dunno if that would be the ultimate fuck???? But dont see myself having a proper relationship with a female tho;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi-playful is a better term. I wouldnt want to put bisexual, as its not as if i could have a relationship with a woman, i like the male form. But i wouldnt want to be any womans first time. I won't play with any woman either, so its bi-curious for me.

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By *olly Gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

Glenrothes

So to summarise - are we saying we are either over-sexual or asexual? Lol

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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago

The Kingdom


"I was once told that the 1st time is curious if you try again you are bi

Kay "

ohh...better change my profile then...lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahm fooking confused...

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