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"I would always prefer to be upfront and honest and would hope anyone else would be the same with me. A polite thanks but no thanks is always better than a white lie in my eyes! " I agree - no point keeping folk hanging on | |||
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"I would always prefer to be upfront and honest and would hope anyone else would be the same with me. A polite thanks but no thanks is always better than a white lie in my eyes! I agree - no point keeping folk hanging on " Exactly my views. Would much rather be rejected/declined than lied to! | |||
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"I would always prefer to be upfront and honest and would hope anyone else would be the same with me. A polite thanks but no thanks is always better than a white lie in my eyes! I agree - no point keeping folk hanging on Exactly my views. Would much rather be rejected/declined than lied to! " Me too - we are all supposed to be adults after all | |||
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"I always reply no thanks. Its manners " It is... Just polite | |||
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"I always reply no thanks. Its manners " Spot on, it's manners! Treat people how you wish to be treated and so on | |||
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"I always reply no thanks. Its manners Spot on, it's manners! Treat people how you wish to be treated and so on " You reading my mind? Lol | |||
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"I always reply no thanks. Its manners Spot on, it's manners! Treat people how you wish to be treated and so on You reading my mind? Lol" I wish I could say I was but sadly I'm not that talented! | |||
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"I always think honesty is the best policy - if someone doesnt float your boat or if you're just after one offs etc. Just say Do you find it easier to just tell someone what they want to hear or be honest? " Always be up front with people no point in wasting there time or yours | |||
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"I just ignore the messages. I've found replying can sometimes lead to more messages or abuse. I ocassionsllly challenge myself to reply to unread messages if they have made an effort to write more than a few words " That I can totally understand too. With the amount of messages women get on here it must take hours if you want to individually reply no thanks to everyone you aren't interested in and wouldn't be feasible. But once you're actually chatting away to someone, honesty is always the best policy | |||
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"I always think honesty is the best policy - if someone doesnt float your boat or if you're just after one offs etc. Just say Do you find it easier to just tell someone what they want to hear or be honest? Always be up front with people no point in wasting there time or yours " I totally agree | |||
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"Surely on a site like this where people seem to know exactly what they want it can’t be rude to just be really direct. " You wouldnt have thought so but sadly some are incapable of it | |||
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"I just ignore the messages. I've found replying can sometimes lead to more messages or abuse. I ocassionsllly challenge myself to reply to unread messages if they have made an effort to write more than a few words " I do try to reply as its one of my pet hates not having someone reply... It can be difficult at times though to keep up | |||
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"Good manners cost nothing, treat people with respect as we all want to be respected." So very true | |||
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"Honesty is the best policy I think. It’s difficult sometimes though if you’ve been chatting to someone for a bit, as maybe you get on socially really well, but sexually the compatibility isn’t there. Or sometimes people don’t want to hear no, so choose to ignore the tell tale signs. Initial messages though, it does pay to lay your cards on the table! " There could be that too.. I always do lay my cards on the table | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 19/01/20 22:13:26]" Normally too inundated to reply no | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 19/01/20 22:13:26] Normally too inundated to reply no " There is that sometimes yes | |||
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"I always think honesty is the best policy - if someone doesnt float your boat or if you're just after one offs etc. Just say Do you find it easier to just tell someone what they want to hear or be honest? " It's always going to be easier to tell someone what they want to hear, especially if you have already struck up a rapport with them. Honesty is the best policy though and I'm sure is always appreciated. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 19/01/20 22:13:26] Normally too inundated to reply no There is that sometimes yes" Haha - the males don’t get that many l would always reply - nice to be nice! | |||
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"I always think honesty is the best policy - if someone doesnt float your boat or if you're just after one offs etc. Just say Do you find it easier to just tell someone what they want to hear or be honest? It's always going to be easier to tell someone what they want to hear, especially if you have already struck up a rapport with them. Honesty is the best policy though and I'm sure is always appreciated. " This | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 19/01/20 22:13:26] Normally too inundated to reply no There is that sometimes yes Haha - the males don’t get that many l would always reply - nice to be nice! " It is nice to be nice | |||
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"I always think honesty is the best policy - if someone doesnt float your boat or if you're just after one offs etc. Just say Do you find it easier to just tell someone what they want to hear or be honest? It's always going to be easier to tell someone what they want to hear, especially if you have already struck up a rapport with them. Honesty is the best policy though and I'm sure is always appreciated. " It is.. And better sooner rather than later otherwise they're waiting for something thats never gonna happen | |||
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"I always think honesty is the best policy - if someone doesnt float your boat or if you're just after one offs etc. Just say Do you find it easier to just tell someone what they want to hear or be honest? It's always going to be easier to tell someone what they want to hear, especially if you have already struck up a rapport with them. Honesty is the best policy though and I'm sure is always appreciated. It is.. And better sooner rather than later otherwise they're waiting for something thats never gonna happen " Agree | |||
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"I would always prefer to be upfront and honest and would hope anyone else would be the same with me. A polite thanks but no thanks is always better than a white lie in my eyes! I agree - no point keeping folk hanging on Exactly my views. Would much rather be rejected/declined than lied to! " Couldn’t of said it any better myself hun x Kay x | |||
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"I totally get why woman dont reply though. 1. the amount of messages you get 2. the abuse that follows from saying no thanks. " | |||
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"Not that I get many "1st messages" but I would reply with a no thanks if I wasnt keen. Myst be harder for women to keep up with their messages though. Surprised you dont need a PA?!" I knew a girl met her a few times she showed me her mails over 600 in 2 days and that's with some filters I'm so glad I don't get that amount! | |||
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"Being polite is fine but it’s when the “why?” Comes after then several messages later they are still at it " then apply the block button | |||
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"The ones that spit the dummy and call you ugly, fat or whatever are not worth it they were clearly desperate and would shag anything. Now I don't k ow about anyone else but I'd rather someone be attracted to me to bed me " There has to be mutual attraction | |||
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"unfortunately telling folk the truth can upset their snowflake mentality some times. I find blunt honesty tho hard is the easiest why to be. an old saying don't polish a turd" Much better to just be honest and upfront | |||
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"Always best to tell and be honest! Nobody is too busy not to be nice! " Well said | |||
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"I'd rather be honest just like I prefer people to be honest with me " Me too | |||
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"Not that I get many "1st messages" but I would reply with a no thanks if I wasnt keen. Myst be harder for women to keep up with their messages though. Surprised you dont need a PA?!" Shall I send you an application form :p | |||
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