FabSwingers.com forum: Is there ever

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?

Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope... I only message those i am interested in meeting. The one exception is the fab bar and serving drinks.

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By *arymore1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

never, it seems a very sad thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only message people who peak my interest, I would never message anyone to voice my opinion regarding morale high ground..

What does that achieve, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

But I have received messages from folk slagging other folk off for no reason.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Thanks guys though it was only me who thought this way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys though it was only me who thought this way .

Your welcome

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Thanks guys though it was only me who thought this way .

Your welcome"

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely not to have a go.

But I did message a guy once I didn’t even know. His profile text was so badly written and punctuated but based on his verifications seemed a good sort. So I edited his profile text and messaged him with it. No idea if he used it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...and only a fanny with too much time on their hands would do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not to have a go.

S'awfy nice of you!

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By *ebmarMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?

Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?"
No sane people would waste time doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?

Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ? No sane people would waste time doing it

That's your first mistake on here....assuming folk are sane!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

People can be so unkind on here and i have no idea what kicks they get from being that way. I ignore but often report as they do not deserve to be on Fab.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?

That's your first mistake on here....assuming folk are sane!"
this^

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"People can be so unkind on here and i have no idea what kicks they get from being that way. I ignore but often report as they do not deserve to be on Fab."
this^

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Have occasionally had messages after a forum post.

Usually where I have revealed my marital status.

I then get various messages, none of which I would describe as complimentary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you hell, everyoe is here for their own personal pleasure (whatever it may be) if married/attached dont interest you that's your discretion and definitely shouldnt be judge for it, x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Would you hell, everyoe is here for their own personal pleasure (whatever it may be) if married/attached dont interest you that's your discretion and definitely shouldnt be judge for it, x"
who people choose to meet and their reasons for doing so should be no ones business other than the two people meeting in my opinion .

If people dont like or have any interest in a certain group then move onto the next profile its really that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is never a good time or right time to have a go at someone just cause they said no thanks

Some people can't take the idea that they aren't gods gift and every person they message will instantly demand to meet lol

Everyone has their tastes, type, kinks and in this modern age people should be respectful for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio.

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By *attooed gentMan
over a year ago

anywhere everywhere

"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?

Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?"

I would never do this as the way I see it if there on here it’s none of my business as it doesn’t effect me in any way.

It’s them who have to live with it if there cheating or married or whatever other reason there on here it’s there choice not mine.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I've sat in judgement from the other side of my phone....I'm sure we all have at something someone has said or done on here. But I wouldn't take the time to tell someone I've had no other dealings with that I disapproved of their behaviour. If they're going to fuck about they'll fuck about....none of my business unless it's Mr Doggy. In which case I'll be calling on my online friends to help me dig up the patio."
lmao

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!"

"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!

"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"

Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!

"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"

Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part

Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Nope.....though sometimes you really would like to send an informative msg to a two faced rat

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Nope.....though sometimes you really would like to send an informative msg to a two faced rat"
true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Nope but there are a lot that have wayyyy too much time on their hands!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or folk messaging agreeing with you about a status or forum post but are too cowardly to do it in public

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Or folk messaging agreeing with you about a status or forum post but are too cowardly to do it in public

some of us don’t mind the odd ban or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or folk messaging agreeing with you about a status or forum post but are too cowardly to do it in public

some of us don’t mind the odd ban or two

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try 5 or 6

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Or folk messaging agreeing with you about a status or forum post but are too cowardly to do it in public

I agree with this. Hang on, I disagree! Wait, maybe I’m on the fence. Oh well, least my indecisiveness is public.

However, I’ve decided on whipped cream btw oldie. Better PM you about that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message all sorts of people for all sorts of reasons

It's a soul destroying place pretty quickly if messages are only limited to those you're interested in meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can be so unkind on here and i have no idea what kicks they get from being that way. I ignore but often report as they do not deserve to be on Fab."

My thoughts too. A guy mailed me yesterday just to call me fatso, didn't bother me in the slightest; deleted and blocked. It did make me wonder what people get out of doing stuff like that though? Must be sad times indeed if that's the only way they can try and get attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I message all sorts of people for all sorts of reasons

It's a soul destroying place pretty quickly if messages are only limited to those you're interested in meeting "

I can vouch for you on this, but your weren't being nasty or rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to annoy someone who has offended, annoyed or been nasty in a message is don't reply, delete message and block . That would piss them off more than you replying as thats just playing into thier hands and giving them the attention they seek, for some people any attention is better than none. I've seen that alot.

I've had a few messages, one message to let me know they had seen me at cjs but didn't approached as I looked too snobby and stuck up

, I said OK cool

( me snobby or stuck up hahaha.)

Then few messages from different people questioning what I've said on forum whether it's true or not

and why would I mentioned it? But clearly was part of the discussion topic and if its something I can relate to or have experienced I'm an honest enough person to share but I'm OK with giving people answers and proof when questioned,I don't have to but no skin off my back, if they really interested in my life so be it .

Or commenting on a post in general and before I knew it, there messages from someone telling their side of story and trying to draw me into the fab bitching drama and take side , to which I replied. "I commented on a post in general, I don't know these ladies and unsure why I need to know this as I don't do drama regardless of who it is about", I'm here for fun that's it.

I do think the forums are good, some fun with great banter but some Bitchy and some damn right nasty but I just put it down to people being sexually frustrated, why else be on a site like this and have a bad attitude or be grumpy. Only explanation I can come up with

Keep it to the forums not private messages unless you want to get jiggy with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People can be so unkind on here and i have no idea what kicks they get from being that way. I ignore but often report as they do not deserve to be on Fab.

Really sad bastard lol

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby

"Best way to annoy someone who has offended, annoyed or been nasty in a message is don't reply, delete message and block . That would piss them off more than you replying as thats just playing into thier hands and giving them the attention they seek, for some people any attention is better than none. I've seen that alot.

I've had a few messages, one message to let me know they had seen me at cjs but didn't approached as I looked too snobby and stuck up

, I said OK cool

( me snobby or stuck up hahaha.)

Then few messages from different people questioning what I've said on forum whether it's true or not

Keep it to the forums not private messages unless you want to get jiggy with it

Lions don’t concern themselves about the opinions of sheep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?

Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?"

Why would you mail someone if your not interested in them just to berate them. that just seems a bit thunder cuntish.lol

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By *lasgow19861986Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Honestly don’t get why someone would mail someone on this just to give them abuse. Seems pretty pointless. Don’t waste time on people not interstate instead start messaging and replying to like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly don’t get why someone would mail someone on this just to give them abuse. Seems pretty pointless. Don’t waste time on people not interstate instead start messaging and replying to like minded people "

Its bitter bored people who get off on drama, people need to learn to have fun, life would be so much better for them if they just knew how lol

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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

There is never a good time or a good enough reason to simply message someone to berate them.

Especially if you have no interest in them.

If someone says something very objectionable or offensive then they may expect criticism but not abuse.

As to the reason the abuser does it, I believe after the past year of my life that there are positive and negative people.

The latter get their pleasure from dragging other people down and they feed off the pain and misery they inflict.

Most of us have ups and downs and sometimes get a bit snappy but we know when we have overstepped the mark and apologise and make amends.

The abuser doesn't, they are sociopaths and don't believe they have done or are every in the wrong.

They are in all walks of life and therefore on Fab unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're best asking the female who messaged me just to say that.myself and anybody else who plays within a dom/sub aspect is "damaged"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"You're best asking the female who messaged me just to say that.myself and anybody else who plays within a dom/sub aspect is "damaged"

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oh dear

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!

"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"

Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part

Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme.

“Here lies Jim and his Dogg; RIP”

Millie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An acceptable time to mail someone you have no interest in just to have ago at them for no reason other than they are not what you are looking for?

Ie if you have no interest in meeting bi people,tvs or married/attatched people would you ever consider mailing them from your moral high horse to lecture them for being here ?"

Absolutely not. Although it's a nice easy block

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Never. I know loads of people on here do find it necessary though. They're for my block list x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Definitely not to have a go.

Couldn't check it, after he put you on the block list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not at all... but i've had some abuse on here.. the only consolation is i'll never meet these guys and they won't find me for real... pretty sad stuff really

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Definitely not to have a go.

Couldn't check it, after he put you on the block list?

Quite possibly. But never checked tbh. A “take it or leave it” scenario. My nose still has skin on it.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!

"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"

Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part

Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme.

“Here lies Jim and his Dogg; RIP”

Millie "

Offt. That’s a little dark.

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!

"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"

Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part

Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme.

“Here lies Jim and his Dogg; RIP”

Millie

Offt. That’s a little dark. "

Blame Jack & Mrs Doggy

M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would indeed be one of the strangest Fab meets ever!

"Get yer spade Jimbo...you've pulled!"

Aww. Knowing my luck I’d throw my back out with the digging part

Knowing doggy you'd end up in there with him...no loose ends or witnesses You can take the girl oot the scheme.

“Here lies Jim and his Dogg; RIP”

Millie

Offt. That’s a little dark.

Blame Jack & Mrs Doggy

M x"

M - are u causing grief again ??????

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