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Are curvy girls leas drama?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I deleted my message oops ha. So I'v never posted before. But I'm just wondering if any other curvy/bigger girls and guys have been told they are less drama than slimmer girls/guys X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all some are worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's to do with someone's size but more to do with their past history, experiences and insecurities that will determine if someone is more or less a drama queen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been told twice in one day that us curvy girls are less drama and dont expect much. Makes you feel like you cant be sexy and curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say weight is irrelevant in my experience, but height is another matter... I totally crush on short girls. They tend to be so much more chilled and fun. Tall girls seem to have had a harder life...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's to do with someone's size but more to do with their past history, experiences and insecurities that will determine if someone is more or less a drama queen.

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Yeah that is a very good point actually. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told twice in one day that us curvy girls are less drama and dont expect much. Makes you feel like you cant be sexy and curvy "

Ofcorse woman can be curvy and sexy. I don't like that statement though "curvy girls are less drama and DON'T EXPECT MUCH" to me that would imply they saying curvy girls don't have expectations and don't think highly of themselves. how rude

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I don't think it's to do with someone's size but more to do with their past history, experiences and insecurities that will determine if someone is more or less a drama queen.

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No clue about this think it's to do with the actual individual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been told twice in one day that us curvy girls are less drama and dont expect much. Makes you feel like you cant be sexy and curvy

Ofcorse woman can be curvy and sexy. I don't like that statement though "curvy girls are less drama and DON'T EXPECT MUCH" to me that would imply they saying curvy girls don't have expectations and don't think highly of themselves. how rude "

Yeah I didnt take to kindly to it either, that is exactly how i thought that I'm not good enough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said individuals may have nany reasons to be what might be termed "dramatic", some that haven't been mentioned, the way a person chooses to use the site and knowing what they want and being confident enough to take time to find out if the person can give them that could be labeled as such..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told twice in one day that us curvy girls are less drama and dont expect much. Makes you feel like you cant be sexy and curvy

Ofcorse woman can be curvy and sexy. I don't like that statement though "curvy girls are less drama and DON'T EXPECT MUCH" to me that would imply they saying curvy girls don't have expectations and don't think highly of themselves. how rude

Yeah I didnt take to kindly to it either, that is exactly how i thought that I'm not good enough x"

Cheeky bugger lol, I do get some people say things not meaning for it to come out the way it comes across and they meaning well but the don't expect much I would take it to be cheeky and in return I would reply with everything I expected of that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I deleted my message oops ha. So I'v never posted before. But I'm just wondering if any other curvy/bigger girls and guys have been told they are less drama than slimmer girls/guys X"

Love curvy girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope....we all have the potential to be batshit crazy.

As a side note, how come these pish stereotypes (no dig at you OP) are only applied to women on here?

Do guys who are hung like gerbils have better oral skills? Discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, why would they be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope....we all have the potential to be batshit crazy.

As a side note, how come these pish stereotypes (no dig at you OP) are only applied to women on here?

Do guys who are hung like gerbils have better oral skills? Discuss."

No.. Guys with tongues like lizards are. (or so i have been told many times. )

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"I have been told twice in one day that us curvy girls are less drama and dont expect much. Makes you feel like you cant be sexy and curvy "

Comments like that seriously piss me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I deleted my message oops ha. So I'v never posted before. But I'm just wondering if any other curvy/bigger girls and guys have been told they are less drama than slimmer girls/guys X"

Less drama? No idea. Much sexier? Hell yes. I much prefer curvy girls to thinner girls. Maybe because I have some curves of my own. lol. But it's a about the person. Not their shape. I for one, love your shape. Gorgeous tattoos as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's to do with someone's size but more to do with their past history, experiences and insecurities that will determine if someone is more or less a drama queen.

This "

Definitely this, including if they are triggered by partners behaviour!!

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By *cotscouple85Couple
over a year ago

Dumfries

Who needs drama, it's the last thing you need when enjoying the naughty things in life. In our experience though....people who love themselves are drama, whether skinny, natural or curvy! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who needs drama, it's the last thing you need when enjoying the naughty things in life. In our experience though....people who love themselves are drama, whether skinny, natural or curvy! x"

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Yeah totally. Just like blondes are more fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is meant to be a fun time in people's life and enjoying thier experience whether new and old, last thing anyone wants is to feel less of a person, to be threaten, afraid to be themselves . Everyone has flaws and that's a fact, even skinny bilikinky models so before people judge anyone or comment on someone's appearance they should look in the mirror first and think how they would feel if that comment or opinion bounced back and smacked them in the face .

Its fine to have a laugh, banter and opinions but as long as it's that and not a direct insult as no one knows how the other person/s will handle things, some people take things very personal and to heart and that's not what this is all about.

Wouldn't it be great if everyone was nice, respectful and just wanted fun. Live laugh and have fun doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah totally. Just like blondes are more fun x"

I'm going to dye my hair blonde and see if this is true

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

We live in a society that dictates that we should eat this, do that and so on and there's 1001 stick thin, gym body perfect people out there & we have been looked up and down because we are a bit more (shall we say) on the cuddly side however we personally don't give a flying fek & yea we have loads of fun and have seen people in our company in clubs that are stuck thin and have a face on them like somebody has shat in there kettle.

We believe in you only have one chance in life so do what you will with it, love yourself for who you are & if people don't like it then that's there loss.

I absolutely love Holly's curves & am definitely a lover of a fuller figured, bbw, chubby whatever you wish to call yourself Kind of woman.

Darren X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a particular fan of ladies with curves tbh. But the hard work part I'd say was down personality and previous experiences or relationships.

But I'd say curvy ladies are much more grounded for sure which is a nice trait.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow


"Yeah totally. Just like blondes are more fun x

I'm going to dye my hair blonde and see if this is true "

Get a wig it’s quicker then easier to change back again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an old work colleague used to say to me.

If it's got tits or tyres its gonna cause you problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As an old work colleague used to say to me.

If it's got tits or tyres its gonna cause you problems "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair few guys think us fatties are desperate and would sleep with anything not the case at all

I don't think size comes into how a woman acts when it comes to drama I think it comes from life in general

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Yeah totally. Just like blondes are more fun x

I'm going to dye my hair blonde and see if this is true "

Just as big a load of shite as curvy people being less drama imo. Really can't picture you blond.... Ever actually tried it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah totally. Just like blondes are more fun x

I'm going to dye my hair blonde and see if this is true

Just as big a load of shite as curvy people being less drama imo. Really can't picture you blond.... Ever actually tried it? "

I have tried it but it went yellow, not exactly the look I was going for but my natural colour is dark brown but I like the plum colour I have easier to hide the grey but never seen anything baout people wanting to fuck plums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah totally. Just like blondes are more fun x

I'm going to dye my hair blonde and see if this is true

Just as big a load of shite as curvy people being less drama imo. Really can't picture you blond.... Ever actually tried it?

I have tried it but it went yellow, not exactly the look I was going for but my natural colour is dark brown but I like the plum colour I have easier to hide the grey but never seen anything baout people wanting to fuck plums "

Little Jack horner liked thumbing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah totally. Just like blondes are more fun x

I'm going to dye my hair blonde and see if this is true

Just as big a load of shite as curvy people being less drama imo. Really can't picture you blond.... Ever actually tried it?

I have tried it but it went yellow, not exactly the look I was going for but my natural colour is dark brown but I like the plum colour I have easier to hide the grey but never seen anything baout people wanting to fuck plums "

You'd wreck it going blonde if you're that dark naturally....been bleaching mine for years...sure it's frazzled my brain cells

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Simple formula.

All hot women are crazy.

Not all crazy women are hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah totally. Just like blondes are more fun x

I'm going to dye my hair blonde and see if this is true

Just as big a load of shite as curvy people being less drama imo. Really can't picture you blond.... Ever actually tried it?

I have tried it but it went yellow, not exactly the look I was going for but my natural colour is dark brown but I like the plum colour I have easier to hide the grey but never seen anything baout people wanting to fuck plums

You'd wreck it going blonde if you're that dark naturally....been bleaching mine for years...sure it's frazzled my brain cells "

Yeh when I attempted the blonde I had to strip hair twice and even that didn't strip colour completely but it didn't look right on me even at the yellow/white stage I felt it made me look awfully old so ditched the Ash blonde dye for natural light brown to work it back up, Plus my hair is very long (real hair) so wouldn't risk demaging it anymore. A wee hair dye every now and then, when the grey grows in is OK lol

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'd say weight is irrelevant in my experience, but height is another matter... I totally crush on short girls. They tend to be so much more chilled and fun. Tall girls seem to have had a harder life..."

What?

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"I'd say weight is irrelevant in my experience, but height is another matter... I totally crush on short girls. They tend to be so much more chilled and fun. Tall girls seem to have had a harder life...

What?

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Yeah, I wasn't even going to bother asking about this one

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd say weight is irrelevant in my experience, but height is another matter... I totally crush on short girls. They tend to be so much more chilled and fun. Tall girls seem to have had a harder life...

What?

Yeah, I wasn't even going to bother asking about this one "

Tall girls are just a pain in the neck.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"I'd say weight is irrelevant in my experience, but height is another matter... I totally crush on short girls. They tend to be so much more chilled and fun. Tall girls seem to have had a harder life...

What?

Yeah, I wasn't even going to bother asking about this one

Tall girls are just a pain in the neck. "

Watch it, I'll come and steal your toblerone

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’m dramatic as fuck. Not cos I’m fat though. I’d still be dramatic if I was a size 10, just in smaller clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be very dramatic at times and I'm far from slim!

I think it's just rude individuals who have had their egos dented

Use it as a filter, block and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just home from work and my wifi was off so could not reply or message in my own discussion . X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is meant to be a fun time in people's life and enjoying thier experience whether new and old, last thing anyone wants is to feel less of a person, to be threaten, afraid to be themselves . Everyone has flaws and that's a fact, even skinny bilikinky models so before people judge anyone or comment on someone's appearance they should look in the mirror first and think how they would feel if that comment or opinion bounced back and smacked them in the face .

Its fine to have a laugh, banter and opinions but as long as it's that and not a direct insult as no one knows how the other person/s will handle things, some people take things very personal and to heart and that's not what this is all about.

Wouldn't it be great if everyone was nice, respectful and just wanted fun. Live laugh and have fun doing it. "

Exactly! Well said x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who needs drama, it's the last thing you need when enjoying the naughty things in life. In our experience though....people who love themselves are drama, whether skinny, natural or curvy! x"

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry I deleted my message oops ha. So I'v never posted before. But I'm just wondering if any other curvy/bigger girls and guys have been told they are less drama than slimmer girls/guys X

Less drama? No idea. Much sexier? Hell yes. I much prefer curvy girls to thinner girls. Maybe because I have some curves of my own. lol. But it's a about the person. Not their shape. I for one, love your shape. Gorgeous tattoos as well. "

Thank you and exactly it's them not there shape. X

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Last time I checked my personality didn't change according to my dress size. I've fluctuated a lot in size over the years but I've always been the same person.

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Size has nothing to do with it, right?

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By *ncognito!Woman
over a year ago

falkirk


"I'd say weight is irrelevant in my experience, but height is another matter... I totally crush on short girls. They tend to be so much more chilled and fun. Tall girls seem to have had a harder life..."

Tosh .. just saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Size has nothing to do with it, right?"

Well you would think so, but to some I guess it does x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last time I checked my personality didn't change according to my dress size. I've fluctuated a lot in size over the years but I've always been the same person. "

Yeah mine either, I'm me regardless of my dress size. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually find after having fun best way forward without drama is make them a meal so to busy to create drama Joking apart I usually find the ones who spend all night putting make up on and wanting admired are the drama ones so I avoid now , Fat, skinny average etc does not matter as long as they can hold a stimulant conversation is good and laugh at life as opposed with a chip on their shoulder is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your shape is gorgeous. Never mind the haters.

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By *xperiencedSwingerMan
over a year ago

Stonehaven

Weight is totally irrelevant. Personally, I find curvy ladies to be very sexy, but that's my personal preference. I'd say that your own confidence in yourself is more important. Be happy as you are and be sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your shape is gorgeous. Never mind the haters. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weight is totally irrelevant. Personally, I find curvy ladies to be very sexy, but that's my personal preference. I'd say that your own confidence in yourself is more important. Be happy as you are and be sexy!! "

Very true, but you can have your confidence knocked when people say such things. X

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By *ebmarMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You will find that you cannot predict if someone is more prone to drama or easy going based on any body feature. It's personality and that is influenced a lot by each one's life experience.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Sorry I deleted my message oops ha. So I'v never posted before. But I'm just wondering if any other curvy/bigger girls and guys have been told they are less drama than slimmer girls/guys X"

I think thats a strange thing for a man to say to any woman on here and would take it as an insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t say that as everyone is different

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