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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

As above only really seem to find fakes on this site. Looking in glasgow area. Have face pictures but wait till strike up a convo before swapping x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

"

Comments like that quite often put real women off

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

There are loads of single women especially in the Glasgow area.

As said above my friend is on here and she can get tons of messages a day.

Have you tried going to a social or possibly a club.

There are a few that run in the Glasgow area and are normally posted on here.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

"

You have probably done yourself no favours posting this if that's what you think of single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

"

In the valley of the blind, the one eyed man is King...innit.

Some would argue having one eye would be advantageous round here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

"

I'm probably one of those women. I never get a second look in the real world. However it's not really a compliment or an ego boost when the attention comes from men who either can't string a sentence together or have their own delusions of grandeur.

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I would like to get to know people on this first before committing to a social meet thing. I’ve only ever met one person on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

"

Haud my chubby wee 3/10 self back. Charmer like you must be inundated with all the 9/10 wids on here!

I’ve no delusions that I’ve probably fucked guys from here that wouldn’t give me second look elsewhere. But none of them have ever been anything other then polite and up for a laugh. Our shared interest being straight forward good sex.

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

So what’s best way to start talking to someone on this then? Do people even look at this forum bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to get to know people on this first before committing to a social meet thing. I’ve only ever met one person on this "

Coming back to your original comment, you're probably best trying one of the bigger organised socials if you're wanting to avoid "fake" women. Get to meet people in person but not feel as much pressure as meeting one on one perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what’s best way to start talking to someone on this then? Do people even look at this forum bit? "

Yes, they do. Reputations can be ruined on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what’s best way to start talking to someone on this then? Do people even look at this forum bit? "

First and foremost update ur profile. Your an instance no with being on here over a year but profile states your still new . Just take few minutes to say a few things about what floats your boat, what your looking for, what kinks your into or not. It's easy. Men might not look at woman's profiles but woman will look at a guys before even opening a message.

Couple more pics but doesn't have to be nudies but show your fun side too. Pic with hat in front of your boabie to pull the ladies in.

Element of surprise isn't something I'm good at but gojng by what others have said in other post I thought I'd pass it on lol

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So what’s best way to start talking to someone on this then? Do people even look at this forum bit?

Yes, they do. Reputations can be ruined on here "

Not assuming that women who don't respond are fakes or up themselves is a good starting point. From what I've read, socials are a good start.

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

How are you finding this site do you get far to many messages? And have u been to socials I see ur single female. Most people’s seem to be couples x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Your profile says very little. Women read profiles, often before deciding whether to reply to a message. You need to look at your profile as being your shop window & make sure it shows who you are and what you are like & makes you stand out amongst the hundreds of other guys messaging the same women.

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"How are you finding this site do you get far to many messages? And have u been to socials I see ur single female. Most people’s seem to be couples x"

I've had a reasonable number of messages, and chatted to a fair few people - not all would lead to meeting. I've also deleted quite a few because they were rude / abusive, but most are nice.

I'd like to think that I have a fairly pragmatic view of where I am in the hotness line-up, so I'm realistic. Although I don't say I'm interested in single men, I don't block messages from them. I'll look at a message and their profile and decide from there if I want to chat. I've done a couple of social meets and signed up for another at least. It's nerve-wracking whether you're male, female or a couple. Reading the forums have given me a new insight into what it's like for single guys, and I can see why it's easy to get disheartened. I guess it's just a case of taking things slowly.

As someone said further up, we're all here for the same thing - showing that you're a reasonable human being is a good step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define real

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"As above only really seem to find fakes on this site. Looking in glasgow area. Have face pictures but wait till strike up a convo before swapping x"

Plenty "real women" on here

A lot of guys seem to find them so if you're only finding fakes maybe look at what you're doing wrong

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Define real "

Someone who’s an actual female and not just on this site for a perv if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define real

Someone who’s an actual female and not just on this site for a perv if that makes sense "

I think the problem is that some women get inundated with messages so often they go unread or ignored if you don't appear to be what they are looking for. It's a numbers game for men.

That said it's no picnic for women either.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I personally find it is the males on here that do not know how to conduct themselves! They have extremely poor profiles, pretty shite pictures if they have any at all, expect women on here to be free whores who will meet for guaranteed sex without a social meet first, have absolutely no idea how to speak to women in the real world, never mind the internet, but are far too scared to go to socials or clubs on their own!

I've been to socials and clubs up and down the country on my own from Inverness down to London, if I can do it then so can others with no excuses!

Time to put you big boy pants on guys and learn what respect is all about!

That is what most women on here expect in the slightest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally find it is the males on here that do not know how to conduct themselves! They have extremely poor profiles, pretty shite pictures if they have any at all, expect women on here to be free whores who will meet for guaranteed sex without a social meet first, have absolutely no idea how to speak to women in the real world, never mind the internet, but are far too scared to go to socials or clubs on their own!

I've been to socials and clubs up and down the country on my own from Inverness down to London, if I can do it then so can others with no excuses!

Time to put you big boy pants on guys and learn what respect is all about!

That is what most women on here expect in the slightest! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about being patient for a guy. Also learning not to take it personel when you either get no reply or if they do a no thanks.

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By *ncognito!Woman
over a year ago

falkirk

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"I personally find it is the males on here that do not know how to conduct themselves! They have extremely poor profiles, pretty shite pictures if they have any at all, expect women on here to be free whores who will meet for guaranteed sex without a social meet first, have absolutely no idea how to speak to women in the real world, never mind the internet, but are far too scared to go to socials or clubs on their own!

I've been to socials and clubs up and down the country on my own from Inverness down to London, if I can do it then so can others with no excuses!

Time to put you big boy pants on guys and learn what respect is all about!

That is what most women on here expect in the slightest! "

Say it as you see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds of forum posts on this same subject and same answers there's loads of us but alas trying to find decent men is like finding a needle in a haystack and no offence I'm not going to go through a haystack to find a needle, so I tend to ignore most of the mail and go to socials and clubs to meet folk as let's face it actions speak louder than words and face to face conversations are far easier to judge sincerity etc than the written word with zero personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking true though

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Fucking true though "

What is? Care to elaborate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Comments like that quite often put real women off"

FUCKING TRUE THOUGH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking true though

What is? Care to elaborate? "

Look Above

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Fucking true though

What is? Care to elaborate?

Look Above "

So yet another elitist man who thinks he is entitled to what ever he wants yet does not have the skills to earn? But still expects the same results? Oh how men weep how the tides have turned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fake as feck me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just going to refer people back to this... https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/907115

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

You have probably done yourself no favours posting this if that's what you think of single women.

"

This...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Comments like that quite often put real women off

FUCKING TRUE THOUGH"

Hahaha I now have pretty boy pretentious wank hangs out in pretentious bars trying to pull all the skinny airbrushed beauties who will undoubtedly realise when he's old fat and unwanted that it's personality that counts and he's been overlooked because he's so vacant inside and lacks any personality no one is attracted to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in the interest of fairness

This

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/907132

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby


"

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Comments like that quite often put real women off"

I guess you haven’t read the book ‘How to win Friends and Influence People’

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

So how’s everyone’s Sunday going? Feel we are all getting off track now sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smashing thanks

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Smashing thanks "

Nice one thanks for all the help. Will need to take time and actually do my profile properly x

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As above only really seem to find fakes on this site. Looking in glasgow area. Have face pictures but wait till strike up a convo before swapping x"

Define fakes please ?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Smashing thanks

Nice one thanks for all the help. Will need to take time and actually do my profile properly x"

Correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a fair few real women.. I don't have the lungs to blow up the fake ones.

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I've met a fair few real women.. I don't have the lungs to blow up the fake ones. "

Hahahah brilliant

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth


"I personally find it is the males on here that do not know how to conduct themselves! They have extremely poor profiles, pretty shite pictures if they have any at all, expect women on here to be free whores who will meet for guaranteed sex without a social meet first, have absolutely no idea how to speak to women in the real world, never mind the internet, but are far too scared to go to socials or clubs on their own!

I've been to socials and clubs up and down the country on my own from Inverness down to London, if I can do it then so can others with no excuses!

Time to put you big boy pants on guys and learn what respect is all about!

That is what most women on here expect in the slightest! "

I couldn't have said it better myself

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

So let's pop this into perspective,this is a swinging website. It was originally designed for couples as is what swinging is. Obviously now it's used for lots of single and committeed people. There are loads of women on here looking for nice respectful guys, but this isn't a hook-up site for the most part. If you're looking to get your hole quickly I'd try the more average dating app. I'd also say that your profile is incredibly uninspiring and if I'd read your bio as someone who was interested id immediately be turned off.

I'd say that look at the forums, who's online in your area etc. Send messages to people but only after you've read their profiles. Have fun, don't be so judgemental and uptight.

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By *lasgow19861986 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"So let's pop this into perspective,this is a swinging website. It was originally designed for couples as is what swinging is. Obviously now it's used for lots of single and committeed people. There are loads of women on here looking for nice respectful guys, but this isn't a hook-up site for the most part. If you're looking to get your hole quickly I'd try the more average dating app. I'd also say that your profile is incredibly uninspiring and if I'd read your bio as someone who was interested id immediately be turned off.

I'd say that look at the forums, who's online in your area etc. Send messages to people but only after you've read their profiles. Have fun, don't be so judgemental and uptight."

Thank you just off putting when females don’t reply on this. Obv need to leave some stuff to the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So let's pop this into perspective,this is a swinging website. It was originally designed for couples as is what swinging is. Obviously now it's used for lots of single and committeed people. There are loads of women on here looking for nice respectful guys, but this isn't a hook-up site for the most part. If you're looking to get your hole quickly I'd try the more average dating app. I'd also say that your profile is incredibly uninspiring and if I'd read your bio as someone who was interested id immediately be turned off.

I'd say that look at the forums, who's online in your area etc. Send messages to people but only after you've read their profiles. Have fun, don't be so judgemental and uptight."

So swinging is or should be exclusively for couples? Well that's not true is it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So let's pop this into perspective,this is a swinging website. It was originally designed for couples as is what swinging is. Obviously now it's used for lots of single and committeed people. There are loads of women on here looking for nice respectful guys, but this isn't a hook-up site for the most part. If you're looking to get your hole quickly I'd try the more average dating app. I'd also say that your profile is incredibly uninspiring and if I'd read your bio as someone who was interested id immediately be turned off.

I'd say that look at the forums, who's online in your area etc. Send messages to people but only after you've read their profiles. Have fun, don't be so judgemental and uptight.

So swinging is or should be exclusively for couples? Well that's not true is it??

"

That's not what she's saying she's saying it was intended to be that before it is what it is now. Swinging means people who swing both ways thus the reason it was called swinging.

Now if you think for one minute a couple decided to take the leap into the swinging world, finds a swinging site and it's not what's it was intended in fact its an all dating, fetish fuck site so then comes the long profiles, picky selectors and blockers and problems that go along with it . It's enough to put some couples off but it is what it is but it has its positives, like minded people wanting fun, socializing and a good laugh if the drama stays in the forums

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By *nglishRose79Woman
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I personally find it is the males on here that do not know how to conduct themselves! They have extremely poor profiles, pretty shite pictures if they have any at all, expect women on here to be free whores who will meet for guaranteed sex without a social meet first, have absolutely no idea how to speak to women in the real world, never mind the internet, but are far too scared to go to socials or clubs on their own!

I've been to socials and clubs up and down the country on my own from Inverness down to London, if I can do it then so can others with no excuses!

Time to put you big boy pants on guys and learn what respect is all about!

That is what most women on here expect in the slightest! "

Most definitely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

Agree "

I as a woman actually agree with what was said about "Some " woman (not all so don't all jump on) being up themselves and in high demand so think they have all the power and don't think they should waste thier time being nice. To be beautiful is to be beautiful inside and out!!! , well here woman do have power so it seems . In real world woman have fought for power & equality for years, so now they have the upper hand and fuck equality. as someone says "as the tides will turn" .so I would say it could be the same thought process for some woman on here who tar all men with the same brush and treat all men how they've been treated previously.it isnt right but it happens.

Comments like men are only good for one thing, or dick pics not what woman want to see (speak for yourself) is not exactly a nice thing to say ? Way to go to pull guys right down, then get their back up when a guy has an opinion on how he thinks woman are on here or comment on saggy boobs or fake boobs then all hell breaks loose its laughable. He did state some woman so wasn't referring to all, so not sure why so many got defensive? .

Just saying, I hate how one person's opinion which everyone is entitled to. Gets slated. Everyone got to look on both side

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh


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Most of the women on here are so up themselves "

Wow statements like that are really gonna help

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By *aughty_Nat69Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Real

Just don’t have time to read through the crappy same messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what’s best way to start talking to someone on this then? Do people even look at this forum bit? "

I do

I often prefer just to chat and engage in forum threads, some can be of interest

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

Agree

I as a woman actually agree with what was said about "Some " woman (not all so don't all jump on) being up themselves and in high demand so think they have all the power and don't think they should waste thier time being nice. To be beautiful is to be beautiful inside and out!!! , well here woman do have power so it seems . In real world woman have fought for power & equality for years, so now they have the upper hand and fuck equality. as someone says "as the tides will turn" .so I would say it could be the same thought process for some woman on here who tar all men with the same brush and treat all men how they've been treated previously.it isnt right but it happens.

Comments like men are only good for one thing, or dick pics not what woman want to see (speak for yourself) is not exactly a nice thing to say ? Way to go to pull guys right down, then get their back up when a guy has an opinion on how he thinks woman are on here or comment on saggy boobs or fake boobs then all hell breaks loose its laughable. He did state some woman so wasn't referring to all, so not sure why so many got defensive? .

Just saying, I hate how one person's opinion which everyone is entitled to. Gets slated. Everyone got to look on both side "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

Agree

I as a woman actually agree with what was said about "Some " woman (not all so don't all jump on) being up themselves and in high demand so think they have all the power and don't think they should waste thier time being nice. To be beautiful is to be beautiful inside and out!!! , well here woman do have power so it seems . In real world woman have fought for power & equality for years, so now they have the upper hand and fuck equality. as someone says "as the tides will turn" .so I would say it could be the same thought process for some woman on here who tar all men with the same brush and treat all men how they've been treated previously.it isnt right but it happens.

Comments like men are only good for one thing, or dick pics not what woman want to see (speak for yourself) is not exactly a nice thing to say ? Way to go to pull guys right down, then get their back up when a guy has an opinion on how he thinks woman are on here or comment on saggy boobs or fake boobs then all hell breaks loose its laughable. He did state some woman so wasn't referring to all, so not sure why so many got defensive? .

Just saying, I hate how one person's opinion which everyone is entitled to. Gets slated. Everyone got to look on both side "

Mr actually agreed with the "some" comment too and he rarely comments on stuff on here.

Anybody got any cardboard boxes I can borrow to put his belongings in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So let's pop this into perspective,this is a swinging website. It was originally designed for couples as is what swinging is. Obviously now it's used for lots of single and committeed people. There are loads of women on here looking for nice respectful guys, but this isn't a hook-up site for the most part. If you're looking to get your hole quickly I'd try the more average dating app. I'd also say that your profile is incredibly uninspiring and if I'd read your bio as someone who was interested id immediately be turned off.

I'd say that look at the forums, who's online in your area etc. Send messages to people but only after you've read their profiles. Have fun, don't be so judgemental and uptight.

So swinging is or should be exclusively for couples? Well that's not true is it??

That's not what she's saying she's saying it was intended to be that before it is what it is now. Swinging means people who swing both ways thus the reason it was called swinging.

Now if you think for one minute a couple decided to take the leap into the swinging world, finds a swinging site and it's not what's it was intended in fact its an all dating, fetish fuck site so then comes the long profiles, picky selectors and blockers and problems that go along with it . It's enough to put some couples off but it is what it is but it has its positives, like minded people wanting fun, socializing and a good laugh if the drama stays in the forums"

Again absolutely not what “swinging” is.

So what about Swinging couples who enjoy having a third person join either Male or female. Is it just the couple that a classed as Swingers??

I have used this site for over 5 years and can assure you “swingers” are more than just couples looking to swap with other couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking true though

What is? Care to elaborate?

Look Above

So yet another elitist man who thinks he is entitled to what ever he wants yet does not have the skills to earn? But still expects the same results? Oh how men weep how the tides have turned! "

If you read the the whole comment rather than just certain parts you’ll see that I said there are some lovely people on this site, it’s just finding them!

But obv I hit a nerve with you....

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Comments like that quite often put real women off"

Exactly ! If a woman is confident in herself and knocks you back, she must be full of herself ?

And single guys wonder why they never get any meets with attitude like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking true though

What is? Care to elaborate?

Look Above

So yet another elitist man who thinks he is entitled to what ever he wants yet does not have the skills to earn? But still expects the same results? Oh how men weep how the tides have turned!

If you read the the whole comment rather than just certain parts you’ll see that I said there are some lovely people on this site, it’s just finding them!

But obv I hit a nerve with you.... "

That's the thing "some" people start reading and come across something they don't like and it's straight on the defensive without reading it all, if people took time to actually read coz it is a forum after all where we all entitled to have our own opinions and how they see things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking true though

What is? Care to elaborate?

Look Above

So yet another elitist man who thinks he is entitled to what ever he wants yet does not have the skills to earn? But still expects the same results? Oh how men weep how the tides have turned!

If you read the the whole comment rather than just certain parts you’ll see that I said there are some lovely people on this site, it’s just finding them!

But obv I hit a nerve with you....

That's the thing "some" people start reading and come across something they don't like and it's straight on the defensive without reading it all, if people took time to actually read coz it is a forum after all where we all entitled to have our own opinions and how they see things. "

Thank you!

Some guys on here agreeing with the woman - trying the get brownie points!

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yeah, cause that's so much easier than considering whether things could have been phrased in a less confrontational, insulting way.

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By *rinthiaMan
over a year ago

dundee


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

I'm probably one of those women. I never get a second look in the real world. However it's not really a compliment or an ego boost when the attention comes from men who either can't string a sentence together or have their own delusions of grandeur.

"

I find I’d difficult to believe that no one would look at you in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately the ladies are here looking for something which isn’t the norm, something that stands out, surely you understand this, patience is a virtue, instead of asking to meet straight away, try getting to know them, I’m not exactly an Adonis, but being honest and having manners goes a long way, I’m in Livingston tonight at a hotel looking for a laugh and a social, drinks and meal included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone learns from there mistakes and you don’t get do’overs in life, expect to be treated, how you treat others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone learns from there mistakes and you don’t get do’overs in life, expect to be treated, how you treat others."

On a positive point, electricians have been voted most polite and kindest people in the uk, I’m happy about that as I have always been a decent guy, nice to get recognised for that at last.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"As above only really seem to find fakes on this site. Looking in glasgow area. Have face pictures but wait till strike up a convo before swapping x"
For a lot of men (not all) but for a lot they jump in feet 1st and rush to meet resulting in them engaging with people who turn out to be horrible people carrying too much drama or fake accounts.

Uses the filters the site has given you and slow down and get to know people.

Perhaps go to a social and get a to know people face to face then hopefully the fun will follow

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By *un Couple 6969 xxCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"There’s thousands of “Real” women.

The problem is finding decent ones.

Most of the women on here are so up themselves because they’re in so much demand but in reality a high percentage of these women wouldn’t even get a second look in a club.

Don’t get me wrong though. There are some beautiful and lovely woman on here. Finding them is the difficult part.

I have a female friend in here and she can easily get 500 messages a day from guys.

Good luck

I guess you just need to stand out from the crowd

Agree

I as a woman actually agree with what was said about "Some " woman (not all so don't all jump on) being up themselves and in high demand so think they have all the power and don't think they should waste thier time being nice. To be beautiful is to be beautiful inside and out!!! , well here woman do have power so it seems . In real world woman have fought for power & equality for years, so now they have the upper hand and fuck equality. as someone says "as the tides will turn" .so I would say it could be the same thought process for some woman on here who tar all men with the same brush and treat all men how they've been treated previously.it isnt right but it happens.

Comments like men are only good for one thing, or dick pics not what woman want to see (speak for yourself) is not exactly a nice thing to say ? Way to go to pull guys right down, then get their back up when a guy has an opinion on how he thinks woman are on here or comment on saggy boobs or fake boobs then all hell breaks loose its laughable. He did state some woman so wasn't referring to all, so not sure why so many got defensive? .

Just saying, I hate how one person's opinion which everyone is entitled to. Gets slated. Everyone got to look on both side "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"As above only really seem to find fakes on this site. Looking in glasgow area. Have face pictures but wait till strike up a convo before swapping xFor a lot of men (not all) but for a lot they jump in feet 1st and rush to meet resulting in them engaging with people who turn out to be horrible people carrying too much drama or fake accounts.

Uses the filters the site has given you and slow down and get to know people.

Perhaps go to a social and get a to know people face to face then hopefully the fun will follow "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As above only really seem to find fakes on this site. Looking in glasgow area. Have face pictures but wait till strike up a convo before swapping x"
fakes?

Just because they don't contact you don't mean there fakes

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