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"Count us in. Xx" Well it wouldn't be happening without you guys | |||
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"I really wanna say yes but last time has left me a little apprehensive if I'm totally honest" Can you explain why? | |||
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"Please let us know what is making you apprehensive as we would like the opportunity to put your mind at ease. Thanks K & G x" Just the expense of the last one I had hotel and childcare etc all booked for months in advance and coming from Greenock was a fair trek and it was a bit last minute to cancel, don't get me wrong was great that someone organised a last minute get together but when you've really been looking forward to. Something for months the while weekend ended up being a total letdown for me | |||
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"Please let us know what is making you apprehensive as we would like the opportunity to put your mind at ease. Thanks K & G x Just the expense of the last one I had hotel and childcare etc all booked for months in advance and coming from Greenock was a fair trek and it was a bit last minute to cancel, don't get me wrong was great that someone organised a last minute get together but when you've really been looking forward to. Something for months the while weekend ended up being a total letdown for me " You won’t be in Scotland this weekend anyway you’re away to the nw200 for the week | |||
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"Please let us know what is making you apprehensive as we would like the opportunity to put your mind at ease. Thanks K & G x Just the expense of the last one I had hotel and childcare etc all booked for months in advance and coming from Greenock was a fair trek and it was a bit last minute to cancel, don't get me wrong was great that someone organised a last minute get together but when you've really been looking forward to. Something for months the while weekend ended up being a total letdown for me " Thank you for getting back to us and we're really sorry this happened to you and we couldn't go ahead with the previous social. On reflection it looks like our Halloween Social thread wasn't clear enough, it was meant to be a gauging interest thread because at no point had we ever booked a venue or confirmed the event or asked anyone for payment. Yes it was a late decision not to go ahead but we couldn't because we didn't have a venue. Sorry we didn't realise you had made such detailed plans, we wouldn't ask anyone for payment or to make plans unless we have confirmed it's going ahead. On this occasion we are happy to confirm we do have a venue booked and the social will be going ahead, payment messages are going out to those putting their names down and quite a few people have paid and are confirmed on the guest list already. We hope this reassures you this is definitely going ahead and we're sorry for your previous experience. K & G x | |||
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"Please let us know what is making you apprehensive as we would like the opportunity to put your mind at ease. Thanks K & G x Just the expense of the last one I had hotel and childcare etc all booked for months in advance and coming from Greenock was a fair trek and it was a bit last minute to cancel, don't get me wrong was great that someone organised a last minute get together but when you've really been looking forward to. Something for months the while weekend ended up being a total letdown for me Thank you for getting back to us and we're really sorry this happened to you and we couldn't go ahead with the previous social. On reflection it looks like our Halloween Social thread wasn't clear enough, it was meant to be a gauging interest thread because at no point had we ever booked a venue or confirmed the event or asked anyone for payment. Yes it was a late decision not to go ahead but we couldn't because we didn't have a venue. Sorry we didn't realise you had made such detailed plans, we wouldn't ask anyone for payment or to make plans unless we have confirmed it's going ahead. On this occasion we are happy to confirm we do have a venue booked and the social will be going ahead, payment messages are going out to those putting their names down and quite a few people have paid and are confirmed on the guest list already. We hope this reassures you this is definitely going ahead and we're sorry for your previous experience. K & G x" I did pay deposit for it along with others and my deposit was returned on the day before you cancelled it on the forum | |||
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"Deposit paid, first social so bit nervous and wondering if anyone up for meeting socially before the day or earlier on that night before going along so don’t have to walk in myself or be sitting at bar myself?? " I always arrange a presocial drinks just for this very reason. I will put info in here a bit closer to the time. | |||
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"Please let us know what is making you apprehensive as we would like the opportunity to put your mind at ease. Thanks K & G x Just the expense of the last one I had hotel and childcare etc all booked for months in advance and coming from Greenock was a fair trek and it was a bit last minute to cancel, don't get me wrong was great that someone organised a last minute get together but when you've really been looking forward to. Something for months the while weekend ended up being a total letdown for me Thank you for getting back to us and we're really sorry this happened to you and we couldn't go ahead with the previous social. On reflection it looks like our Halloween Social thread wasn't clear enough, it was meant to be a gauging interest thread because at no point had we ever booked a venue or confirmed the event or asked anyone for payment. Yes it was a late decision not to go ahead but we couldn't because we didn't have a venue. Sorry we didn't realise you had made such detailed plans, we wouldn't ask anyone for payment or to make plans unless we have confirmed it's going ahead. On this occasion we are happy to confirm we do have a venue booked and the social will be going ahead, payment messages are going out to those putting their names down and quite a few people have paid and are confirmed on the guest list already. We hope this reassures you this is definitely going ahead and we're sorry for your previous experience. K & G x" To be fair you did take deposits and also stated in a forum post a month or so beforehand that even although you were still working on a venue people should get prepared for it to go ahead then didn’t post up for a while. | |||
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"Please let us know what is making you apprehensive as we would like the opportunity to put your mind at ease. Thanks K & G x Just the expense of the last one I had hotel and childcare etc all booked for months in advance and coming from Greenock was a fair trek and it was a bit last minute to cancel, don't get me wrong was great that someone organised a last minute get together but when you've really been looking forward to. Something for months the while weekend ended up being a total letdown for me Thank you for getting back to us and we're really sorry this happened to you and we couldn't go ahead with the previous social. On reflection it looks like our Halloween Social thread wasn't clear enough, it was meant to be a gauging interest thread because at no point had we ever booked a venue or confirmed the event or asked anyone for payment. Yes it was a late decision not to go ahead but we couldn't because we didn't have a venue. Sorry we didn't realise you had made such detailed plans, we wouldn't ask anyone for payment or to make plans unless we have confirmed it's going ahead. On this occasion we are happy to confirm we do have a venue booked and the social will be going ahead, payment messages are going out to those putting their names down and quite a few people have paid and are confirmed on the guest list already. We hope this reassures you this is definitely going ahead and we're sorry for your previous experience. K & G x To be fair you did take deposits and also stated in a forum post a month or so beforehand that even although you were still working on a venue people should get prepared for it to go ahead then didn’t post up for a while. " This was indeed the case Tands the OP then disappeared for weeks giving no information until the event was cancelled very last minute after people had booked time off, accommodation etc etc | |||
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"I've paid my deposit and I'm very much looking forward to my first ever social. I'm a little nervous but I'm sure once im there my nerves will go quickly. X" If you feel nervous about going into social alone i will be organising my usual presocial drinks. Give you chance to meet a few folks before hand. | |||
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"I've paid my deposit and I'm very much looking forward to my first ever social. I'm a little nervous but I'm sure once im there my nerves will go quickly. X If you feel nervous about going into social alone i will be organising my usual presocial drinks. Give you chance to meet a few folks before hand." We get nervous too | |||
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"I've paid my deposit and I'm very much looking forward to my first ever social. I'm a little nervous but I'm sure once im there my nerves will go quickly. X If you feel nervous about going into social alone i will be organising my usual presocial drinks. Give you chance to meet a few folks before hand. We get nervous too " I guess most people will get nervous, good nerves though and yeah if there is away for me to meet up for pre drinks first then I'm in for that too. X | |||
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"Will get my payment sent over next week when I get paid." That's absolutely fine. We know you're good for it! | |||
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"Will get my payment sent over next week when I get paid. That's absolutely fine. We know you're good for it! " What about my payment though lol | |||
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"Investigating the logistics off this, would love to come along " You are welcome to join us but you will need to message us so that we can send you the payment details as we are out of your age range and can't message you. | |||
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"Investigating the logistics off this, would love to come along You are welcome to join us but you will need to message us so that we can send you the payment details as we are out of your age range and can't message you. " I will message once I have checked out if I can realistically attend due hotel/ travel costs and confidence, lol | |||
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"I went to my first social on my own and was also very optimistic. 8 met some lovely people and everyone was so welcoming! I'd reccomended just coming along! xx " This is lovely to hear and great of you to say so. Everyone who attends is just so friendly and welcoming. And there's always pre-social drinks organised by Dundee Single, for those that want to get together before hand xxx | |||
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"I went to my first social on my own and was also very optimistic. 8 met some lovely people and everyone was so welcoming! I'd reccomended just coming along! xx This is lovely to hear and great of you to say so. Everyone who attends is just so friendly and welcoming. And there's always pre-social drinks organised by Dundee Single, for those that want to get together before hand xxx " The last social was the very first one I’d been to. I was really scared, almost to the point I didn’t go. But I went to the pre drinks and everyone made me feel welcome and it turned out a good night. | |||
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"I went to my first social on my own and was also very optimistic. 8 met some lovely people and everyone was so welcoming! I'd reccomended just coming along! xx This is lovely to hear and great of you to say so. Everyone who attends is just so friendly and welcoming. And there's always pre-social drinks organised by Dundee Single, for those that want to get together before hand xxx " Yeah I will be organising the normal pre-drinks. Closer to event i will start up a thread for this. | |||
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"I went to my first social on my own and was also very optimistic. 8 met some lovely people and everyone was so welcoming! I'd reccomended just coming along! xx This is lovely to hear and great of you to say so. Everyone who attends is just so friendly and welcoming. And there's always pre-social drinks organised by Dundee Single, for those that want to get together before hand xxx The last social was the very first one I’d been to. I was really scared, almost to the point I didn’t go. But I went to the pre drinks and everyone made me feel welcome and it turned out a good night. " Except for trying to knock yourself out with a bottle of wine. | |||
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"I went to my first social on my own and was also very optimistic. 8 met some lovely people and everyone was so welcoming! I'd reccomended just coming along! xx This is lovely to hear and great of you to say so. Everyone who attends is just so friendly and welcoming. And there's always pre-social drinks organised by Dundee Single, for those that want to get together before hand xxx The last social was the very first one I’d been to. I was really scared, almost to the point I didn’t go. But I went to the pre drinks and everyone made me feel welcome and it turned out a good night. Except for trying to knock yourself out with a bottle of wine." Haha, yeas that was rather awkward, was really sore too. But saved the wine and didn’t get a black eye. I’ll just hold onto you the next time | |||
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"cannot confirm until mid March.." That's fine. Plenty of time and we'll let you know when we get near capacity for the venue. | |||
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"We would be interested depending on the date " The date is the post at the top. | |||
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"Hi we are interested. Can you put our names down please? X" Absolutely! We'll send the payment details shortly. | |||
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"Can you please send us the payment details ??" Absolutely! We'll be sending another batch out shortly. | |||
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"Is there still spaces for single guys as I'd love to attend" Just to add, if theres any single ladies going that like me hasnt been to a social and wants someone to meet and go in with then I'd be happy to do that. Be easier for both so to speak. | |||
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"Is there still spaces for single guys as I'd love to attend Just to add, if theres any single ladies going that like me hasnt been to a social and wants someone to meet and go in with then I'd be happy to do that. Be easier for both so to speak." There will be predrinks open to all for this very reason. | |||
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"Is there still spaces for single guys as I'd love to attend Just to add, if theres any single ladies going that like me hasnt been to a social and wants someone to meet and go in with then I'd be happy to do that. Be easier for both so to speak. There will be predrinks open to all for this very reason." Perfect thankyou!! Payment sent and looking forward | |||
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"Interested single guy here was at one about a year ago loved it. Please let me know " We've sent you the payment details. | |||
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"3 months until this event and the guest list is filling up nicely! " Heres looking to a fun evening then. Will there be discounted entry to Kudos afterwards? | |||
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"Anyone got their outfit sorted yet xx " Yeah, we have something in mind x | |||
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"Anyone got their outfit sorted yet xx " Have a couple ideas in mind. | |||
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"Anyone got their outfit sorted yet xx " We've got ours. Just got to get a couple of extras | |||
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"Hi there I’d be interested in coming along if you’re still taking names. I will send a PM due to filters I’m in uniform every day at work so don’t think me turning up in mine will be much fun for me lol Will be coming myself from Aberdeen so would be good to maybe meet up beforehand as I don’t know Dundee very well xx " A regular ‘friend’ of mine organises pre drinks before hand in a local bar. Info of that will be posted nearer time. It’s good for breaking ice before heading to the social | |||
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"Thanks for the p date i was going to book a hotel at the end of this month but not to sure ifi would get my money back if the event didnt take place so i will just wait and see " I’ve booked mine to pay on arrival as I’m not 100% sure yet that I’ve got the nerve to come on my own so that way I don’t lose out xx | |||
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"Thanks for the p date i was going to book a hotel at the end of this month but not to sure ifi would get my money back if the event didnt take place so i will just wait and see I’ve booked mine to pay on arrival as I’m not 100% sure yet that I’ve got the nerve to come on my own so that way I don’t lose out xx " If you join us for predrinks you wont be on your own. | |||
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"Like everyone else in the UK right now, we are unsure what the next few months will bring and hope that all of our fab friends are safe and well at this difficult time. It looks highly unlikely that any of us will be meeting or socialising anytime soon and the social event planned for Saturday 16 May will NOT be going ahead. We are facing the possibility of limited movement across the UK for several months and think the earliest that we should consider for an alternative date is September. Another Halloween Social in October is probably the best option. We are hoping that the venue will allow us to move the date, rather than cancel the booking, so that we don't lose the deposit. In the meantime, we can either refund your payment or hold it as your payment for the next event. If you have already paid, please let us know if you would like a refund and we'll get it to you as soon as we can. Thanks for your support and understanding and we hope that we are in a position to announce an alternative date in the near future. Stay safe! Kat & Geo xx " | |||
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"Things looking for the social ?? Pubs opening on Wednesday " That doesn't mean that mass gatherings can go ahead | |||
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"Hi Everyone Firstly we hope you have all been keeping safe and well! We have taken the decision to not go ahead with Social. We don't see it being likely that large events will be able to go ahead any time soon and with social distancing measurements required it would be impossible to hold a safe social. Today we have refunded everyone's payment, as we don't want to hold on to it with no date for the future. For the time being we are not thinking of organising any events until circumstances improve regarding covid, and goodness knows when that will be. If you have any questions or there are any issues with your refund please pm us. We've not been on fab much lately because we are not meeting but we will be keeping an eye out for your messages. We've absolutely cherished your support for the event and do hope we can all meet up sometime next year! Take care and stay safe Kat & Geo Xxx" Magic, received and thanks. Sad it's not going ahead but the sensible decision given the circumstances. Looking forward to the next one! | |||
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