FabSwingers.com forum: Profiles

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a mixed bag but it keeps things from getting boring.

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By *wisted VinylMan
over a year ago

Fife

well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we like the attention as its what we have stated on our profile that draws in what we are looking for even if it's slightly out of our preference it doesn't hurt to be NICE and doesn't hurt to explain things, like last minute meets, we can't do it due to family/ work etc.. but we will get offered or invited to events at short notice, this is just offers and its nice to be asked if it falls on our time off from kids sure thing if not, that's explained .

BUT If I unblock men for sake of face pic Fridays then I warrant unwanted attention as some not all take it that the door is open and offer their services even if its not what we are looking for just now but that's my fault and suppose "if they don't ask they won't get so they will never know"

love a trier so I do

But it's nice to be nice and explain and to date not had any nasty messages unless it's forum bitching related which pisses me off as not sure what part of don't want drama people don't get. Apart from that all cool

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

My profile is faulty.

I get no attention..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think my profile gets any attention. Boo hoo for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

Might just need to unblock the blokes to try fix the problem

Have you not heard, quite a few woman into MM

just a thought

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

When i first joined i did not realise i had blocked single men by mistake and wondered why i only got messages from couples.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

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I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

expecting chivalry maybe? spoilt for choice?

or is it that whatever a woman writes in her message is interpreted in the male brain as "want to come over now and fuck me" ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

expecting chivalry maybe? spoilt for choice?

or is it that whatever a woman writes in her message is interpreted in the male brain as "want to come over now and fuck me" ?"
possibly or maybe fear of rejection lol

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

expecting chivalry maybe? spoilt for choice?

or is it that whatever a woman writes in her message is interpreted in the male brain as "want to come over now and fuck me" ?possibly or maybe fear of rejection lol"

lol. those kind of guys just need to grow a pair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

expecting chivalry maybe? spoilt for choice?

or is it that whatever a woman writes in her message is interpreted in the male brain as "want to come over now and fuck me" ?possibly or maybe fear of rejection lol"

Rejection?? What’s that???

Oh yeah I remember now

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Profile views upto a hundred a week .

99% are straight male .

Messages maybe a hundred a year .

99% are straight male .

Actual meets where not just a social two folk I’ve met a few times .

So not a lot of return in eight years or so I’ve met or chatted to folk and had a laugh all in all I think I’ve enjoyed my time being here .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Its social expectation and what we are taught is the problem.

We are told its men who chase and lust after woman so for the majority they play along with the construct.

Just as the women's movement has saught to change this it also attempts to keep parts ie those who bleat on about chivalry.

There is also a big mens movement of guys tired of the two faced nature of the social construct who will take nothing to do with females unless they conform to equality in all aspects

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

expecting chivalry maybe? spoilt for choice?

or is it that whatever a woman writes in her message is interpreted in the male brain as "want to come over now and fuck me" ?possibly or maybe fear of rejection lol

Rejection?? What’s that???

Oh yeah I remember now

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lol

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By *wisted VinylMan
over a year ago

Fife

"Its social expectation and what we are taught is the problem.

We are told its men who chase and lust after woman so for the majority they play along with the construct.

Just as the women's movement has saught to change this it also attempts to keep parts ie those who bleat on about chivalry.

There is also a big mens movement of guys tired of the two faced nature of the social construct who will take nothing to do with females unless they conform to equality in all aspects "

Yep the funny crazy old world of human peer bonding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

expecting chivalry maybe? spoilt for choice?

or is it that whatever a woman writes in her message is interpreted in the male brain as "want to come over now and fuck me" ?"

A bit off both and I agree with you on how guys interpret the initial contact from a woman.

Take my hat off to you miss dynamite

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

expecting chivalry maybe? spoilt for choice?

or is it that whatever a woman writes in her message is interpreted in the male brain as "want to come over now and fuck me" ?

A bit off both and I agree with you on how guys interpret the initial contact from a woman.

Take my hat off to you miss dynamite"

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

Might just need to unblock the blokes to try fix the problem

Have you not heard, quite a few woman into MM

just a thought

2% according to surveys done for naked attraction TV prog...

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By *ilbert4450Man
over a year ago

paisley

All i seem to get is guys viewing my profile. No idea why. Lol

But they are not harming anyone so i am not bothered

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By *ink-KameraMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Right now, Any attention would be good

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I think my profile is flawed and needs revamped but do get some attention and it comes in waves and intermittent but i do not ever want to be like the females here and get inundated lol but dont think i have to worry

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By *orny harrycoolMan
over a year ago

fife

Don’t get much attention so happy for some advice or help improving my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Very little attention. They don’t know what they are missing

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

We get about 900-1000+ views a day, about 1 or 2 messages since we updated our bio, we get between 5 and ten friend requests on a normal day. I don't really pay attention to anything else. One day I noticed we had 60 winks sitting lol. Not sure if Mr checks winks and stuff but i defo don't. I love to get some attention from people who have common interests, but I'm not sure if they exist? I never really look through others profiles unless they have posted on the forums. We just aren't actively looking for something right now, we are super happy just popping off to clubs and things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Very little attention. They don’t know what they are missing

Its thier lose. If other couples are anything like us we prefer meeting guys face to face at socials or cjs in fact we do same for all, we don't meet anywhere other than socials and cjs . Maybe head there lol If we unblocked men we would be inundated with loads of messages trying to get me on my own even though we have stated we never meet alone so all guys get blocked. It's a shame really that all guys get tarred under the same brush and the decent ones loose out

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Very little attention. They don’t know what they are missing

Yeah it's rubbish that all the guys get the same stick, so many people we have actually met have been single guys, but on here is a minefield

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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *mudg3rMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"well the most attention ive had thus far is from single guys until i blocked single males and im looking for women and couples so id say ive had a malfunction somewhere

I've blocked single guys but I think the site thinks I've blocked single woman

I dont know why 99% of women dont make the 1st move.

If I like a profile enough il mail them

expecting chivalry maybe? spoilt for choice?

or is it that whatever a woman writes in her message is interpreted in the male brain as "want to come over now and fuck me" ?

A bit off both and I agree with you on how guys interpret the initial contact from a woman.

Take my hat off to you miss dynamite

I also take my hat off to you, Ms D. And any other item of clothing you may request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the attention I was getting was from gay guys, had to block them. Not for me but I suppose I should take it as a compliment? Haha

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’ve got my filters set pretty tight, but that’s personal preference so it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really thought about it.

My profile is really just me and that's it.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We still get messages from couples wanting full swap despite being clear we don’t want that. It doesn’t matter what you write on your profile, majority of the time it never gets read.

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By *unseekers87Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

"Yes, we like the attention as its what we have stated on our profile that draws in what we are looking for even if it's slightly out of our preference it doesn't hurt to be NICE and doesn't hurt to explain things, like last minute meets, we can't do it due to family/ work etc.. but we will get offered or invited to events at short notice, this is just offers and its nice to be asked if it falls on our time off from kids sure thing if not, that's explained .

love a trier so I do

Awww we know you love a "trier"

, lol xx

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Wrong kind I think, but then again some is better than none.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well feel free to read my profile and tell me if it catches your attention- I’m always looking for feedback and to improve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Today alone I got told my profile is like a Facebook life story, I have too high expectations, I think I am too special for fab and I am delusional in my requirements

Wasn't the reaction I wanted but I guess it's working great as a filter tool.

Who cares, it clearly says what I want and what p****s me off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get about 900-1000+ views a day, about 1 or 2 messages since we updated our bio, we get between 5 and ten friend requests on a normal day. I don't really pay attention to anything else. One day I noticed we had 60 winks sitting lol. Not sure if Mr checks winks and stuff but i defo don't. I love to get some attention from people who have common interests, but I'm not sure if they exist? I never really look through others profiles unless they have posted on the forums. We just aren't actively looking for something right now, we are super happy just popping off to clubs and things "

Wow your popular.

I get a handful of views, a wink now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Today alone I got told my profile is like a Facebook life story, I have too high expectations, I think I am too special for fab and I am delusional in my requirements

Wasn't the reaction I wanted but I guess it's working great as a filter tool.

Who cares, it clearly says what I want and what p****s me off x"

Sadly I don’t match what you’re after but I just want to say I think you’re gorgeous

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By *laveBoy2019Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Ha ha I'm not getting any attention what so ever lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Today alone I got told my profile is like a Facebook life story, I have too high expectations, I think I am too special for fab and I am delusional in my requirements

Wasn't the reaction I wanted but I guess it's working great as a filter tool.

Who cares, it clearly says what I want and what p****s me off x

Sadly I don’t match what you’re after but I just want to say I think you’re gorgeous

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the attention I was getting was from gay guys, had to block them. Not for me but I suppose I should take it as a compliment? Haha "

My hubby gets alot of likes and fabs from bisexual and straight guys, he wasn't sure about it at first but now he's cool it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love a trier so I do

Awww we know you love a "trier"

, lol xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't get me any but I knew that would be the case lol

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

About time I blew the cobwebs off mine and updated it...... thanks for the prompt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.

I have most filters on and I think that saves alot of unwanted messages as when i turn them off for fpf it's basically a free for all.

Hopefully my profile sets out who i am and what I'm looking for.

Mostly folk just look at the pictures tho

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

About time I blew the cobwebs off mine and updated it...... thanks for the prompt

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Hello stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a massive 5 views today, nope dont think my profile works

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

About time I blew the cobwebs off mine and updated it...... thanks for the prompt

Hello stranger

Hope all is well with you

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

About time I blew the cobwebs off mine and updated it...... thanks for the prompt

Hello stranger

Hope all is well with you

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yes thanks & you too

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

Too much to do, not enough time to do it

still making Money for Daz so some things never change

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Too much to do, not enough time to do it

still making Money for Daz so some things never change

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hahaha indeed good old daz lol

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Some female attention would be nice.

Despite stating I'm straight I regularly get guys messaging. It doesn't bother me that much tbh, a polite decline takes a second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty much a mixed bag for us. We just recognise that not everyone will read the entire contents of a profile, to which the block button comes in quite handy.

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By *cotscouple85Couple
over a year ago

Dumfries

We get a huge amount of the usual time wasters and people searching for the gory details. But we're on the site to get things that are almost impossible to organise in real world scenarios. You just have to take the good with the bad and adjust your profile time to time.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

Quite happy with the messages i get as most are very respectful. The few who are crude i just ignore. Its easy to tell who has read my profile and its always good to know they have taken time to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seams like my profile is a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Your profile gets my attention every time I see you on the forums!

Mine on the other hand gets me barely any attention

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Your profile gets my attention every time I see you on the forums!

Mine on the other hand gets me barely any attention

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Thanks ! ...perhaps some pics on your profile might help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

Don't feel ours gets us much but then you put out what you get in so.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stated on my profile no under 30s and no over 60s still get them daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've managed to get 74 views on mines today.

That's never happened. Tho only got a sympathy wink from a friend lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to know why mine doesn't attract anyone? Any pointers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clearly state I only attend clubs and fab socials but still get the odd message asking if I want to fuck with a dick pic attached so clearly dont read profiles

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By *ittle Miss FabWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does your profile get you the kind of attention you are seeking or do you think its getting you the wrong kind of attention ?

I think Im getting the right attention as per my profile

I continually get smokers messaging me which is one of my pet hates. Disgusting habit in which I would not change my standards to meet regardless how hot you are !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's just hard for guys full stop, as lots of time waisters and fake profiles, lots of folk up there self's including guys, girls and couples, so it is a truly mixed bag o tricks, so we would love to review our profiles but it probably would not make much difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I clearly state I only attend clubs and fab socials but still get the odd message asking if I want to fuck with a dick pic attached so clearly dont read profiles

We are same however it's not so much guys but other couples (not all but some) who don't read our profile. We prefer to meet face to face without the pressure and state we do social group meets and cjs but alot prefer to try persuade us to meet outwith our preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've realised there are far more hidden profiles out there.

My most enjoyable contacts have been from those, perhaps because they are more discreet and discerning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like to social at clubs it's a good way to meet folk

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Not too bad here, the odd tv/gay guy ,...single males blocked understandably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is set the way it is on purpose, it puts off the majority like I want and attracts the few its meant to.

When I get a bland as fuck profile telling me how I come across I know its

working.

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