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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.

Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?

Does such a message ever actually work?

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

He can’t take rejection. He psychologically wants to make it look like he cane out of that situation better... like he wasn’t even trying with you of course you’re not interested.

He should just learn to take rejection. Practice makes perfect. I’m getting really good at it now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He can’t take rejection. He psychologically wants to make it look like he cane out of that situation better... like he wasn’t even trying with you of course you’re not interested.

He should just learn to take rejection. Practice makes perfect. I’m getting really good at it now."

That’s a great way of looking at it. I bet he’s getting more practice at rejection than most!

It’s fair to say that not everyone will be attracted to everyone else, and that’s not a problem if everyone behaves like an adult.

When you don’t get rejected, try not to look too shocked

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I’ve been practicing my nonchalant face

That wasn’t it

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik

I rarely initiate contact but if so it’s usually a wink just.

Unread deleted, read deleted avoided.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely initiate contact but if so it’s usually a wink just.

Unread deleted, read deleted avoided. "

A wink as as good as a nod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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A wink as as good as a nod "

To a blind man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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A wink as as good as a nod

To a blind man?"

Lol

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Have had several guys send repeat copy & paste messages. I generally just ignore to be honest, if they can't be bothered sending a personalised message then why should I bother with a response?

I think they just fire the same messages out to anyone who is nearby in the hope that they will eventually get a response from someone.

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik


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A wink as as good as a nod

To a blind man?"

To a rocking horse was my dads theory

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.

Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?

Does such a message ever actually work? "

I always put energy into messaging folk I have no interest of meeting, makes so much sense.....maybe he just gets off on rejection, that’s his kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.

Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?

Does such a message ever actually work? "

Nope. Would only message people I want to meet or find out more about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.

Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?

Does such a message ever actually work? "
why bother n moan about it.. Just block n move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a few messages from the same guy now who seems to think it’s ok to send copy and paste messages, he got abusive when he was called out for it, saying he only uses these type of messages for people he doesn’t really want to meet.

Would anyone here send a message to someone you don’t want to meet?

Does such a message ever actually work? why bother n moan about it.. Just block n move on"

Oh we do block and move on, and it wasn’t a moan, it just got me wondering what goes through some peoples minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv replied to folk I dont want to meet lol

Is that the same?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Iv replied to folk I dont want to meet lol

Is that the same? "

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Iv replied to folk I dont want to meet lol

Is that the same? "

I only reply to people I don’t wanna meet. I’m too shy to answer messages from people I do like the look of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv replied to folk I dont want to meet lol

Is that the same?

I only reply to people I don’t wanna meet. I’m too shy to answer messages from people I do like the look of "

We have an early winner for lie of the year! You? Shy?

And I’m a virgin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to message as polite as possable and always include something so the person knows I've taken the time to read and understand what there after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iv replied to folk I dont want to meet lol

Is that the same? "

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Iv replied to folk I dont want to meet lol

Is that the same?

I only reply to people I don’t wanna meet. I’m too shy to answer messages from people I do like the look of

We have an early winner for lie of the year! You? Shy?

And I’m a virgin!"

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I seldom msg folk as not many interest me.

I wont try to gain favour by striding across anothers approach in an attempt to make myself look good surely that's a far greater sin

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

On the flip side, many women/couples profiles are bare or just have the same rant of "dont send us dick pics bla bla", so how can you expect a personalised message?

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However, you could just send a copy/pasted standard Rejection message

...and then block. Good workout for the fingers pressing Ctrl-V repeatedly!

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Happens all the time!!!

Love it when I get the “your photos are amazing, love them all” messages they usually get a bit coy when I point out there is actually no photos they can look at on my profile lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happens all the time!!!

Love it when I get the “your photos are amazing, love them all” messages they usually get a bit coy when I point out there is actually no photos they can look at on my profile lol "

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