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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

So, with 2020 hindsight, what are our biggest regrets from last year? Or further back if you had a cracking year?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Hindsight is a wonderful thing.

I’ve learned I shouldn’t block friends completely even after a fall out. Possibly my biggest regret over the last couple of years was not being there for a really good friend when they went through one of the worst times of their life. Happily we’re back to being friends and I’m now part of the happiest time of their life.

Do you have any regrets Danny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. You live and learn.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"None. You live and learn."

This

Every experience is a learning curve.

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I regret not making a funnier 2020 thread

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I regret not making a funnier 2020 thread "

It’s ok you’ll see clearer in 2020

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

It's like a pinball machine. Get thrown about, not knowing where you will go, ups and downs, knocked by bumpers and flippers. Occasionally get another chance ... On the whole, just take the gamble and maybe you'll get a jackpot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a few errors of judgment but I've also learnt a lot. No regrets.

Going into 2020 with lots of goals to achieve so I can leave it feeling proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2019 marked the end of several years with the wrong partner, put myself through hell for her and in the end was discarded like a pair of worn out shoes.... took such out of me the person!!

But I've came through it all and looking forward to many new things in my life and learning to do for Me!!

Hopefully meet my partner in crime in 2020

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

Per Angusta Ad Augusta

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By *ongue FuckerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

My biggest regret was hiring a Skoda when my car was getting sorted.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Regrets, I've had a few

But then again, too few to mention - oh no wait that’s a song!

No regrets just learning curves which teach me how to do it better next time

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"2019 marked the end of several years with the wrong partner, put myself through hell for her and in the end was discarded like a pair of worn out shoes.... took such out of me the person!!

But I've came through it all and looking forward to many new things in my life and learning to do for Me!!

Hopefully meet my partner in crime in 2020"

All part of life - I spent nearly half my life with the wrong partner but no regrets as such you learn and move on and now at an age where relationships should be fun and if not end it

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

No regrets only learnings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. You live and learn.

This

Every experience is a learning curve."

Live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regret not making a funnier 2020 thread "

I regret us not organising that world comedy domination tour but we still have time lol just need to make sure no blondes are harmed by motorbikes to make the dream happen ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret missing the johnny cash road show last year so iv bought a ticket again for this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all who say no regrets only learning. Regrets waste energy and bring potential bitterness which can spoil the here and now, learning brings positivity, growth, wisdom and experience (hopefully )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2019 taught me to say yes to everything, even if it seems a little scary, so I'm rolling that attitude into 2020

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.

no idea which road 2020 will take me

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By *anny77 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

My take on it is it’s possible to regret something and then learn and grow and move on from it.

I think it’s almost impossible to not regret stuff - even if it’s brief. And regret usually leads to learning something about yourself or others and moving on and changing.

Wallowing in regret is different

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"My take on it is it’s possible to regret something and then learn and grow and move on from it.

I think it’s almost impossible to not regret stuff - even if it’s brief. And regret usually leads to learning something about yourself or others and moving on and changing.

Wallowing in regret is different "

Very true. No point in wasting time on regrets. You can’t change the past. You can change the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets but lessons learned, no putting up with shit in 2020.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"My take on it is it’s possible to regret something and then learn and grow and move on from it.

I think it’s almost impossible to not regret stuff - even if it’s brief. And regret usually leads to learning something about yourself or others and moving on and changing.

Wallowing in regret is different "
spot on but for many they are incapible of moving on or changing.

Of course we all have regrets about one thing or another but its how you move on from the regrets that make all the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret eating way too much lol

So many experiences and people to be thankful for in 2019, in 2020 my aim is to continuing listening to myself and not people please like I used to and try be more active

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