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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When do you decide to block? What's the criteria? Wife says I block too often.

My usual approach is if I send a message and it's been read but not replied to within 48 hours it's an auto block from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you decide to block? What's the criteria? Wife says I block too often.

My usual approach is if I send a message and it's been read but not replied to within 48 hours it's an auto block from me."

I don't block... I find others do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s personal preference I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you decide to block? What's the criteria? Wife says I block too often.

My usual approach is if I send a message and it's been read but not replied to within 48 hours it's an auto block from me."

I block immediately if the message is disrespectful. I also block when I receive multiple messages from the same user when I haven’t replied or already said “no thanks”.

Just makes life easier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you decide to block? What's the criteria? Wife says I block too often.

My usual approach is if I send a message and it's been read but not replied to within 48 hours it's an auto block from me.

I block immediately if the message is ??disrespectful. I also block when I receive multiple messages from the same user when I haven’t replied or already said “no thanks”.

Just makes life easier! "

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Only if someone is aggressive, rude or trying to be a smart arse do I block.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"When do you decide to block? What's the criteria? Wife says I block too often.

My usual approach is if I send a message and it's been read but not replied to within 48 hours it's an auto block from me."
if people are just being idiots I block.

If they are abusive I block.

If they are not people I wish to be associated with I block.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

We auto block any males with 5 miles of us/more if they keep looking at our profile.

If anyone sends a message out of line, after we’ve told them it’s not on we block as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you decide to block? What's the criteria? Wife says I block too often.

My usual approach is if I send a message and it's been read but not replied to within 48 hours it's an auto block from me."

Pretty much the same as me. I understand women and couples receive masses of mail but usually a 72hr limit then I block. If my considered message with face pic attached isn't worthy of a reply in a sea of one line messages with dick pics then it's never going to progress. I also block when it's a thanks but no thanks from either party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you decide to block? What's the criteria? Wife says I block too often.

My usual approach is if I send a message and it's been read but not replied to within 48 hours it's an auto block from me."
block one for calling me a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are being knobheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only really block people if they're being rude, creepy or overly persistent.

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

If obvious they haven't read our profile.

If they are barebackers.

If they are just arseholes.

Many reasons for doing so and never regret any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We blocked one last night that never had a single pic on their profile after sending us a message asking for a pic of us. Accused us of being pic collectors because we asked them to send theirs first! Unbelievable.

We normally block gobby, pushy types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby blocked a couple last night who messaged months ago wanting to Skype and told them no we don't do Skype or cam , they don't do pics only Skype and cam but wanting pics of us I said no as they've been on a year no veris, no pictures, anyway messaged again last night asking if we do Skype, I said I've already told you few months ago numerous times, firstly the wife is never on chatting and secondly no to Skype and cam, 3 thirdly no veris no pics to prove u nit fake. Sound fishy to have him come back saying but would u consider just to see we are real. I said no!! . I stated We share pic with couples with pic then chose to meet for social or at cjs that's it. " he came back are you sure. So hubby blocked, some people just can't respect peoples answers. Was probably a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unblocked a few folk who were blocked too hastily when we first joined.

Now I block for being obnoxious, talking shite and boring or if I don't trust them.

One guy made a "joke" about me sleeping with my son in our bed when he was ill. On what planet does anyone think that's going to be interpreted as humorous in any way?

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By *ilarx2Couple
over a year ago

paisley

Rude,obnoxious people get blocked also ones that cant take no for an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our block list is getting bigger by the day rude aggressive messages and unable to read a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda surprising there is no limit on how many you block,

I no of a site if you block ten your gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God my block list is huge.

I block for various reasons including if someone is rude, offensive, obnoxious, arrogant and/or cocky. The list goes on.

Or

If cock pics are all you’ve got going for you.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Kinda surprising there is no limit on how many you block,

I no of a site if you block ten your gone "

Are you serious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda surprising there is no limit on how many you block,

I no of a site if you block ten your gone

Are you serious?"

I know...that's a bit shite eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God my block list is huge.

I block for various reasons including if someone is rude, offensive, obnoxious, arrogant and/or cocky. The list goes on.

Or

If cock pics are all you’ve got going for you. "

Same! It's quite satisfying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda surprising there is no limit on how many you block,

I no of a site if you block ten your gone

Are you serious?"
nope in not serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block when guys dont take no for an answer, are rude or down right disgusting. And it takes alot to disgust me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I realllly try not to block, if I do... it’s deserved for one or all of the above

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We have absolutely nobody blocked.

Never get bad messages either.

Think we are just of the radar.

Or plain scary!!!

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Hardly ever used it but if we have, it's for a bloody good reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby blocked a couple last night who messaged months ago wanting to Skype and told them no we don't do Skype or cam , they don't do pics only Skype and cam but wanting pics of us I said no as they've been on a year no veris, no pictures, anyway messaged again last night asking if we do Skype, I said I've already told you few months ago numerous times, firstly the wife is never on chatting and secondly no to Skype and cam, 3 thirdly no veris no pics to prove u nit fake. Sound fishy to have him come back saying but would u consider just to see we are real. I said no!! . I stated We share pic with couples with pic then chose to meet for social or at cjs that's it. " he came back are you sure. So hubby blocked, some people just can't respect peoples answers. Was probably a guy. "

Lol we just noticed weve been blocked and have never even messaged you guys

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

First lesson that you need to learn...is that people are fucking wankers, either online or d*unk, but especially online. Miscommunication/misunderstandings happen-but if someone is clearly a bell end, use the bye bye button.

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By *sgrantedMan
over a year ago

dundee

I think it’s only reasonable to block people if they are being abusive or harassing. Otherwise to block someone without any real justification is both rude and insensitive. Hardly an attractive trait. However, the types that are likely to behave like this are more often than not, doing someone else a favour by severing contact. I’m sure it all gets very Jeremy Kyle on here on a minute to minute basis.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Most common block is to those that go on about looking for "snuff" or any other daft name for drugs on their status. Not our cup of tea so highly likely we wouldn't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I block for so many reasons. Just because I can, really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if people are rude or persistent after being told no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked by someone after sending my photo

We were chatting away fine as well, never said anything untoward then blocked after my photo. I never thought I was that bad

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I got blocked by someone after sending my photo

We were chatting away fine as well, never said anything untoward then blocked after my photo. I never thought I was that bad "

What was it a photo of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got blocked by someone after sending my photo

We were chatting away fine as well, never said anything untoward then blocked after my photo. I never thought I was that bad

What was it a photo of?"

My face. I wont be sending any cock pics. It’s not happening

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’ve just been blocked by someone who only joined last week, my second message told him I had a date this evening with someone outside of fab and he replied

Dont bullshit u absolute tramp - then blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve just been blocked by someone who only joined last week, my second message told him I had a date this evening with someone outside of fab and he replied

Dont bullshit u absolute tramp - then blocked me "
sounds like a nutcase

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I’ve just been blocked by someone who only joined last week, my second message told him I had a date this evening with someone outside of fab and he replied

Dont bullshit u absolute tramp - then blocked me sounds like a nutcase "

Ha ha definitely at least it saved me blocking him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually block if anyone is rude or being aggressive and not even reading our profile !!!

But others do block us aswell unknown reason why but hey hoo doesn’t bother us everyone has likes and dislikes

S xx

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I got blocked by someone after sending my photo

We were chatting away fine as well, never said anything untoward then blocked after my photo. I never thought I was that bad "

You're not alone there. Got as far as leaving to meet up too!

Probably because i was clean shaven in that photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got blocked by someone after sending my photo

We were chatting away fine as well, never said anything untoward then blocked after my photo. I never thought I was that bad

You're not alone there. Got as far as leaving to meet up too!

Probably because i was clean shaven in that photo "

Genuinely never said anything out of order, wasn’t going to send it and they said “just send it” - BLOCKED.

If they said no, it wouldn’t have been a big deal. I would have moved on. Not to worry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block all who cross boundaries. Simple.

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