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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

me, mr cam thinks the social meet is like a selection process, dull. u spend a few hours or.so to decide if we are good enuf...surely cam our pics n chatting should be enough.......meeting ppl in public could cause the other ppl to be nervous in that situation.....making u think, nah, not for us......but in a more private setting they could be the best ppl uve ever met...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally for me i dont think chatting on here and seeing on cam can determine if i want to meet anyone or not.. with a social meet then you get to see the real person.. find out what they like in the flesh... our social meets always lead to flirting if we all get along.... this then makes it all the more hornier.. and wanting waiting for the "real" meet as in fun...

If you are finding your social meets dull and boring then maybe you need to change the way you go about them... make them fun and nobody should be nervous!! Not saying every social meet is the same.. there have been some where it has been a no-no for a playing meet.. but all in all they are a good build up to what will happen next time

Just my take on it Mrs H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Our time is busy with work n family so don't have time to meet for drinks and a wee chat.we do all our chatting swapping face pics on here to decide if we are going to take you to the bedroom lol. auds xx

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By *dultfunscotland2000Man
over a year ago

Scotland and beyond

Prefer to sort out the preliminaries on here, then get down to the fun when we meet. So I remember anyway.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Prefer to sort out the preliminaries on here, then get down to the fun when we meet. So I remember anyway."

Social meeting (flirting) adds to the fun of what may lie ahead i think... had to many surprises where people are so flirty and outgoing on here but stone dead when ive met them in the flesh so social meeting works for me and il continue to do so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"personally for me i dont think chatting on here and seeing on cam can determine if i want to meet anyone or not.. with a social meet then you get to see the real person.. find out what they like in the flesh... our social meets always lead to flirting if we all get along.... this then makes it all the more hornier.. and wanting waiting for the "real" meet as in fun...lol....no, ours aint boring....its a general questuon put out there......i do think they are dull to a certain aspect, we are more into random,.gambling spontanious get out there.....we have only had 3 socials n 2 paid off. my point is that we suss ppl out via chst cam etc....if we click then its on.....if not,,,then I dont want yer starbucks.....lol it takes all sorts xxx I just like a wee stir....lol x

If you are finding your social meets dull and boring then maybe you need to change the way you go about them... make them fun and nobody should be nervous!! Not saying every social meet is the same.. there have been some where it has been a no-no for a playing meet.. but all in all they are a good build up to what will happen next time

Just my take on it Mrs H "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

all good points....things I nevef thought on.....but will now.....all our meets have been ace.....lucky I guess......but we only met wen totally sure....we g

have donee it.both ways...and all goid.....just like to stir a little.....lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im on here as i dont have a lot of spare time for sociallising! hence, would rather chat and get to know the person on here then straight down to bedroom fun! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont have lots of time either for socialising.. but sometimes it has to be done.. had some spur of the moment meets that have turned out to be great.. and also ones where it s been a no-no... so if we can meet socially first even for a quick chat then we try... if not then we take it at our own pace when chatting on here... just our way of doing things, and everyone will have different opinions Mrs H xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we Prefer to meet for drinks and a chat first but have just jumped in before xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most times I like to meet in a public place, have a coffee and a chat and suss if we get on or not ... only occasionally have a play meet immediately after meeting for the first time.

I think being a single female on my own it's safer that way.

I've been on lunch dates that have turned out like wrestling an octopus or have discovered they are married so I'd prefer not to have any surprises like that before a swing meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so wat we can gather from the replies is that both have advantages.....i can totaly see the point of a single girl wantin a,meet publicly, but doesnt stop the guy or cpl from being freaky nxt time.......we judt havnt got time to meet then say right, nxt free night ure gettin it......wud rather have it

, only after we have hit it off here.....but fair play to all......xx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Prefer to sort out the preliminaries on here, then get down to the fun when we meet. So I remember anyway.

Social meeting (flirting) adds to the fun of what may lie ahead i think... had to many surprises where people are so flirty and outgoing on here but stone dead when ive met them in the flesh so social meeting works for me and il continue to do so "
am sorry jacs i cant help being a little shy boy around fems

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Prefer to sort out the preliminaries on here, then get down to the fun when we meet. So I remember anyway.

Social meeting (flirting) adds to the fun of what may lie ahead i think... had to many surprises where people are so flirty and outgoing on here but stone dead when ive met them in the flesh so social meeting works for me and il continue to do so am sorry jacs i cant help being a little shy boy around fems "

I know kola but ur a great dancer so il let u off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends a lot on how long you have been chatting to the person.

Sometimes both feel ready to meet and other times a social meet is more appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the chemistry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

bunsen burner

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always insist on meeting people in the flesh first, and that is usually in a public place. That way, me and Cookies can decide if we both like what we see. If one of us is unsure - Im the choosy one - then we say our goodbyes. - thankfully this doesnt happen often.

As Cookies and I work different shifts, we tend to login separately in chat, email and in the forums, then we discuss who we've been chatting to and then the other can see the message trail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

very much the same as us......we do have socials....but our preferance is last minute with ppl we have saw, chatted too and feel happy with....x

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Prefer a social meet. A night out on the town with some fun at the end of it works for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lins....thats cool.....but the socials where its,,,,,,yep, we wud fuck u, how about tuesday at 4???? oh, thats good for us....ok, see u then,,,bye.....wit......l ol

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Yeah that's not really the way we do it. We just kinda meet up for a night out and go with the flow if it all feels right (Which it always has up till now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've got to meet first. You can play message tennis on here for ages but until you actually meet in person you don't know if there's that connection or not.

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I usually have a social meet first its a lot safer for a single wumman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah thats wat i do _eather much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually have a social meet first its a lot safer for a single wumman "

Defo _eather, there's a lot of nasty peeps out there and u can't be to careful, besides u can't beat a bit of banter and some flirting. All adds to the fun if or when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think also people can look very different to what they look like on cam and in pics sometimes on a good way sometimes in a bad way....also people can act very different in person.... A social meet is a good way to find out what people are like before committing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we love spur o the moment.....if we turned up and they wet eejits, we wud just say....no way ya bams, n whoosh....turn right round...lol next...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we love spur o the moment.....if we turned up and they wet eejits, we wud just say....no way ya bams, n whoosh....turn right round...lol next...lol"

Way easier to walk away from a social drink as you ain't committed to anything

We did have 1 social meet with a cpl long before we were on here and it was like being at a job interview.... Literally was dead funny looking back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well untill it goes tits up.....watever works fir ppl, them they should continue to do as.....lol

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