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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats peoples view on the Winks system on the site .

Are they there for people to show there interested and would like you to take the first step and message them or would you say a way off apprecating your profile + pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can be an icebreaker but some people don't use it like them. Seen ladies say they ignore the winks completely

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik

Easier to send a wink than a message initially. Both are equally ignored usually. the winks a one click go to button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I receive a wink from someone I'm interested in il message ..if not il delete.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"If I receive a wink from someone I'm interested in il message ..if not il delete."

Same

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By *erberaWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Rarely look at winks or friend requests tbh

I only add people I've actually met as friends so will send my own request

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"If I receive a wink from someone I'm interested in il message ..if not il delete."

Same as us, if someone doesn’t message or wink back we just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One wink is fair enough but I think if your that interested just message!

The same guy winked me every weekend for months never said a word no messsges nothing so I blocked

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By *ast RolloMan
over a year ago

glasgow west

for some winks actually work , if i see some one new when on my phone ill send a wink ( they normally dont stay on site long) if they have been on the site for a while then ill mail when i get back to my keyboard, since alot of messages are cut and paste going by some of the comments previously a wink is an ice breaker and if the other folk want to look at a profile and see if there is any thing that catches their eye then they can either wink back or mail. if they wink me i normally mail them with a thanks

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I wink because im sure im not everyones cup of tea

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Quite like getting winks although alot come from hundreds of miles away. Never actually sent one myself though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw a few status updates stating winking is just being lazy, I don't see it like that. I'll send winks to test the water, I also recieve winks & see them as the person showing an interest.

Too many wankers on here so happy to be a winker

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

We gladly welcome winks and when we send a wink it's showing that we like what we have seen so far and if they wink back we then send a message to them and then go from there X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at them and don't use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wink because im sure im not everyones cup of tea "
totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One wink is fair enough but I think if your that interested just message!

The same guy winked me every weekend for months never said a word no messsges nothing so I blocked "

You can only wink a person every 30 days, system doesnt allow you to do more.

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By *ering SeaMan
over a year ago

Penicuik


"One wink is fair enough but I think if your that interested just message!

The same guy winked me every weekend for months never said a word no messsges nothing so I blocked

You can only wink a person every 30 days, system doesnt allow you to do more. "

Aye same with pal invites

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"One wink is fair enough but I think if your that interested just message!

The same guy winked me every weekend for months never said a word no messsges nothing so I blocked "

anything stopping you messaging him?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Whats peoples view on the Winks system on the site .

Are they there for people to show there interested and would like you to take the first step and message them or would you say a way off apprecating your profile + pics . "
if I get a wink il check out the profile if I like the look of it il either wink back or message .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really bother with winks x i do send some and if i get one i always reply back with a wink or text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One wink is fair enough but I think if your that interested just message!

The same guy winked me every weekend for months never said a word no messsges nothing so I blocked "

Think if you dont delete the wink it stops repeat ones for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer messaging someone. But if their profile has ,very little written about themselves or what they are looking for, I'll send a wink.

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By *DelilahWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't wink. Hardly ever check it.

When I first signed up, it was good few months before I even noticed"winks"

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I've never winked at anyone & don't pay much attention to the winks I have received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I like a good wink now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I like a good wink now and again. "

Oooo eye (see what I did there)

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By *aughter guyMan
over a year ago

renfrew

Handy tool the auld wink i think. Saves someone sending a message that was getting deleted anyway . At least the winked at person is interested they can wink back and it let's the guy know that a message would be welcomed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One wink is fair enough but I think if your that interested just message!

The same guy winked me every weekend for months never said a word no messsges nothing so I blocked

Think if you dont delete the wink it stops repeat ones for a while."

Maybe that’s where I went wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One wink is fair enough but I think if your that interested just message!

The same guy winked me every weekend for months never said a word no messsges nothing so I blocked

anything stopping you messaging him?"

I wasn’t interested

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