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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are You guys checking verifications of person/people You're interested in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I even check the ones of those I'm not interested in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I even check the ones of those I'm not interested in "

Nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't read them as some can turn me off. They are only really there to prove someone's real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm chatting to someone with the view to meeting them dam right I'm looking at their veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check everyones veri's, then the veri's veri's and so on but starting to notice some people say the same about everyone they've been with,or they use similar wording to the veri's above or the veri is very misleading to what a person looks like etc but then again their likes are probably not the same as mine (ours) . Just my opinion. Mrs L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are You guys checking verifications of person/people You're interested in? "

Veri”s can be a good way of narrowing down possible meets. If you’ve been verified by a well known local slag who bare backs everything that moves you ain’t for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So does everyone believe trip advisor ......surely it’s better to form your own opinion ....

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Are You guys checking verifications of person/people You're interested in?

Veri”s can be a good way of narrowing down possible meets. If you’ve been verified by a well known local slag who bare backs everything that moves you ain’t for me "

Same, we check and see if they’ve got loads of veris from various people and what’s mentioned etc.

A load of veris don’t put us off as some people get plenty from one club visit if they’ve talked to lots of people

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Have to admit I do like playing verification roulette

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So did You guys turn someone down because of verifications? I don't even mean someone who's verified by fabs bike.

I've recieved a message once that she won't meet me as people who verified me look like photo models.

Would You rather hide your verifications and leave your verification summary only?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"So does everyone believe trip advisor ......surely it’s better to form your own opinion ...."
spot on this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't tend to go by verifications although I check them out and notice few discrepancies etc. We prefer to meet people socially and decide for ourselves. I think a lot of people are the same. Everyone has different preferences to the next so one veri could say a couple was amazing blah blah and when u meet that might not be the case for you. Just depends on the situation and the meet I suppose.

I see the point if a woman u had contacted was maybe put off by your veri's if they are hotties, great bodies as maybe she isn't feeling she meets that standard or she has insecurities that don't match your previous meets. That I can understand. The people you meet and verify you set a standard of what your are looking for. If that makes sense.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

We don’t show our veris as they are nobody’s business other than ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t show our veris as they are nobody’s business other than ours "

Same here even though people have called me fake for not showing them haha

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By *ainyDaySunshineMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"We don’t show our veris as they are nobody’s business other than ours "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris to me really mean nothing as peoples view about one person can seriously differ from another persons view . Only thing the 2 views have in common is the person who gets them aint going to show a bad one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a hypocrite as I dont show mine but i do show my history from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always check the verification but I make my own mind up as been told how some people are not nice etc but I actually like them cos I make my own mind up

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Always check the verification but I make my own mind up as been told how some people are not nice etc but I actually like them cos I make my own mind up"

Me too. Once met a guy at CJs after he’d been given a hard time on the forums. He was lovely and explained a few things when he didn’t have to. People jump to conclusions and make the wrong assumptions at times.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Always check the verification but I make my own mind up as been told how some people are not nice etc but I actually like them cos I make my own mind up

Me too. Once met a guy at CJs after he’d been given a hard time on the forums. He was lovely and explained a few things when he didn’t have to. People jump to conclusions and make the wrong assumptions at times.

"
^^^ agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about people without verifications? Would most people not consider that at all? Asking because a lot of my messages never get opened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are complete nonsense...no one ever seems to have had a snide ride on here!

Apart from mine of course. .they're 100% accurate

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"What about people without verifications? Would most people not consider that at all? Asking because a lot of my messages never get opened."

My reg fb had no verifications. I met him for a coffee after talking for weeks and still meet him 3 years later. I make my own mind up about someone x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"What about people without verifications? Would most people not consider that at all? Asking because a lot of my messages never get opened."

I meet folk without veris although would not travel to see them whereas i travel to meet those who have bn verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat with couples with no verifis if they are new but not ones who have been on for 10 years and no veris. That's a no go for us

And I haven't come across any bad veri's either, everyone is sexy or hot, great sookers, great divers, no shite sookers or guys who don't like to dive. So doesn't seem realistic. We choose to find out for ourselves rather than rely on veri's.

The one sentence I see a lot is " don't let this couple pass you by" I think one of mines says that. I think well if we passed you by you weren't for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty as charged although I usually do try to form my own opinions

I was Contacted by someone a while back, brand new profile verified by someone, at the same when I was getting some aggro from said verification, roll on a cpl Months later coincidentally when someone's fishing for gossip guy messages me again, no new veris since joining so I politely said I wasn't interested in conversing, he asked why I explained I wasn't convinced he was genuine and his timing impeccable and low and behold all fab hell broke loose lol so yeah some verifications are perhaps best left private

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Guilty as charged although I usually do try to form my own opinions

I was Contacted by someone a while back, brand new profile verified by someone, at the same when I was getting some aggro from said verification, roll on a cpl Months later coincidentally when someone's fishing for gossip guy messages me again, no new veris since joining so I politely said I wasn't interested in conversing, he asked why I explained I wasn't convinced he was genuine and his timing impeccable and low and behold all fab hell broke loose lol so yeah some verifications are perhaps best left private "
This sounds all too familar but they always slip up somewhere and get found out .

One messaged me calling me a name that only one other person calls me so wasnt too hard to figure it out lol

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"We don’t show our veris as they are nobody’s business other than ours "

This

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Guilty as charged although I usually do try to form my own opinions

I was Contacted by someone a while back, brand new profile verified by someone, at the same when I was getting some aggro from said verification, roll on a cpl Months later coincidentally when someone's fishing for gossip guy messages me again, no new veris since joining so I politely said I wasn't interested in conversing, he asked why I explained I wasn't convinced he was genuine and his timing impeccable and low and behold all fab hell broke loose lol so yeah some verifications are perhaps best left private "

Cant believe we have met and youve not given me a veri E lol

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"Most are complete nonsense...no one ever seems to have had a snide ride on here!

Apart from mine of course. .they're 100% accurate "

One concurs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most are complete nonsense...no one ever seems to have had a snide ride on here!

Apart from mine of course. .they're 100% accurate

One concurs "

Most.....not all

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Good to know what people have written, but i don't think add much.. Proof is in the pudding/pie/melons

I don't have mine displayed, so does that mean I'm fake or not to be trusted?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Good to know what people have written, but i don't think add much.. Proof is in the pudding/pie/melons

I don't have mine displayed, so does that mean I'm fake or not to be trusted?"
I dont show mind but couldnt care less if someone thinks Im fake or anything else for that matter lol

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Anyone I've met I've asked them to be brutally honest with any verifications. She never left one. Her ma' obviously taught her well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the verification trail amusing sometimes.

I don't show mine often . I don't care if that makes people doubt I'm real.

What I get up to and who with is my business

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

We look at them if there but as our profile says. Everybody has to start somewhere. So we try to see the good in everybody. Not been hampered too much with fake people

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there


"What about people without verifications? Would most people not consider that at all? Asking because a lot of my messages never get opened."

Think it depends on what ppl have said; we do prefer those with veris esp single males and if there’s a wide range of folk that have verified you (within a decent time frame; eg been on site 3 years plus but 2 solo veris?) rather than the same playmates etc; just reassures (mostly me as F) that you’re not some random whose going to give me hassle.

That said, if those without veris/are newbies agree to social meet, then we’re happy to chat and learn more about them. :D

M

Millie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get invited to meet for fun although I state I dont but because I have a few verification people assume I actually do lol but if you read the verification you'll see they are all social, maybe with a naughty kiss now and again but I find very few people actually read my verifications

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