FabSwingers.com forum: Little rant

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why would a guy message a woman saying I recognise those tattoos when that woman doesn't know many people in Scotland.

Was his intentions to freak her out or genuinely know from somewhere and can't explain where from or to work his way in discuss and be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked the guy that did it, why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes but no straight answer I'm not scared of who he will tell or anything just puzzled as to what his motives were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to weird you out.block him and dont give it another thought.

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By *magine all the peopleCouple
over a year ago

Perth

"Just to weird you out.block him and dont give it another thought."

Good advice. Just twat him and forget it. You could spend a lot of time wondering 'why?' on fab.

Not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a control thing.

Hes looking to have a little bit of control in the situation.

Hes also an arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would a guy message a woman saying I recognise those tattoos when that woman doesn't know many people in Scotland.

Was his intentions to freak her out or genuinely know from somewhere and can't explain where from or to work his way in discuss and be nice "

He’s probably talking shite. I get that all the time, “ I think I see you on the train”, “you live near me”, “ I recognise you from work”

It’s just people trying to get a response. Block and don’t give it a second thought! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks folks I will forget it now I have some peace of mind I did block him straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with all the others, you shouldnt waste your time giving him another thought.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Had a few of those. Arseholes for the block list x

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By *NN23Woman
over a year ago

Scotland

I've had this in the past. Guy told me he saw me every morning on the way to work, it had me panicked for a bit until he eventually admitted he only said it to be a reply out of me. Swiftly blocked after that

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Along the same lines but with a slightly different outcome. Guy said he thought he recognised me out and about in Grangemoutb....I tood him I try not to speak/meet anyone local as I like to keep my Fab life private...his profile said Stirling....two days later while out walking in the park I was confronted by the very same guy. To say I was slightly freaked out would be an understatement.

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By *atureshywifeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

all bull shit dont think any more about it its just a creep who says things like he did all bull shit head up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let him get into your head. Sounds creepy to me when someone says something like that. He's looking for a reaction, don't give him it. Block and move on honey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Along the same lines but with a slightly different outcome. Guy said he thought he recognised me out and about in Grangemoutb....I tood him I try not to speak/meet anyone local as I like to keep my Fab life private...his profile said Stirling....two days later while out walking in the park I was confronted by the very same guy. To say I was slightly freaked out would be an understatement.

Wow that's hella creepy I've been lucky and not had that in the 8 years I've been on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks again folks he's not in my head I did block I was just curious as to why people think it's ok to say things like that to ladies and be so blasê about it.

People are so weird at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is abuse. Report it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn't class that as abuse at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd defo report it tbh

I've had it before folk recognising me I just say and what? If I'm not interested in you outside of fab what makes you think I'm interested on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd defo report it tbh

I've had it before folk recognising me I just say and what? If I'm not interested in you outside of fab what makes you think I'm interested on it

I did block and he's gone from my block list so it's too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess now you av your answer just an Arse , these characters give us genuine nice single guys a bad fookin name and we dont need them here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess now you av your answer just an Arse , these characters give us genuine nice single guys a bad fookin name and we dont need them here

Yeah I figured it out pretty quick that,that's what he was glad he's away but he could come back :/

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