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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its been an interesting time. I was expecting a bit more from it but ive still to arrange anything with anyone

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Hi, what were you expecting? Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my little pad wan you have so much to learn in the ways of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More replies tbh lol, ive not been pushy or immediately starting off with a dick pic. Just seems like a rarity that someone replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any pointers? Lol

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By *attooed gentMan
over a year ago

anywhere everywhere

Try attending a social or clubs let people meet you more than trying to come across on here best bet

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

If you read the site faqs you’ll see that no response means no thanks.

This is a swingers site so your best bet is to attend socials and clubs. You’ll get to know people that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob your age is a problem but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now i fully understand the concept off socials + clubs but if we where all going to meet people there what is the point of the site, as this is the gateway for people to get into the swinging scene as they could be for starters shy and want to keep there identity known to only a few so why do people keep advising them about these things and not just reply give it time , dont expect too much and try sell urself to people better than the next guy is trying too , only my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well by going to clubs and socials you are meeting people who will then in return verifi you as being a real gueniune person, get to see what it's all about, chat with like minded people in person.

New profiles, no veris not many would entertain.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"Any pointers? Lol"
some sort of profile pic ,not a dick ,doesnt have to be face either ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any pointers? Lol"

Patience.

Male female ratio outweighs females massively. Therefore the ladies are always in a better position than guys. They can be picky. And the will be picky. Nothing is guaranteed.

Took over a year to get my first social meet. Then things seemed to move a wee bit better once I received that all important first verification. It proves you're genuine to a certain extent.

Nothing is a given.

Have no expectations.

Manners cost nothing. Don't throw the dolly out the pram at everyone or anyone cause they don't reply. There's lots of networking goes on on here. People chat to people. So if you treat someone badly, word will spread.

Be yourself. Be real. Fab can be good to you if you respect it.

I'm having the best time on here now, by following all of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any pointers? Lol

Patience.

Male female ratio outweighs females massively. Therefore the ladies are always in a better position than guys. They can be picky. And the will be picky. Nothing is guaranteed.

Took over a year to get my first social meet. Then things seemed to move a wee bit better once I received that all important first verification. It proves you're genuine to a certain extent.

Nothing is a given.

Have no expectations.

Manners cost nothing. Don't throw the dolly out the pram at everyone or anyone cause they don't reply. There's lots of networking goes on on here. People chat to people. So if you treat someone badly, word will spread.

Be yourself. Be real. Fab can be good to you if you respect it.

I'm having the best time on here now, by following all of the above "
very sound advice given and doesn't even mention socials or clubs

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Its been an interesting time. I was expecting a bit more from it but ive still to arrange anything with anyone "
what do you mean by expecting a bit more op ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More openess of chatting. I get im a newbie and it'll be hard to gauge if im worth talking to or not but i havent lead with a single "want fucked" or dick pic to any woman i have seen that interested me. I just expected more of a friendly environment about talking all things sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try putting some work into your profile. Do you expect women to read that you want a fwb and just come flooding to you? When you send mail, many women look at your profile before deciding whether to answer or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only been a week. It's was 6 months before I met anyone

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Just keep doing what you are doing and stay positive.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been an interesting time. I was expecting a bit more from it but ive still to arrange anything with anyone "

Don't hold your breath.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Its been an interesting time. I was expecting a bit more from it but ive still to arrange anything with anyone

Don't hold your breath. "

Maybe in 7 years you’ll get a nice message

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By *ast RolloMan
over a year ago

glasgow west

ahh diidums the op thinks its a quick fuck site lol. think again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you’re new you really don’t have a clue how the site works but its obvious that expectations will be high and you will chat and meet people no problem. Sadly it’s a tough gig here, with a brutal audience who enjoy a fine wee heckle. Be yourself, grow a tough skin and don’t make Fab your life, just a wee enhancement. Good things do happen on fab and mostly people are nice. Good luck OP x

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