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By *eamus99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Apparently asking how someone's weekend went is reason for blocking just for bleather purposes whats best reason your aware of getting blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folks just don't care much for my nonsense...meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some folk are not on here to bother so your not for them so block so not to waste both your times

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By *eamus99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dundee

What do you class a nonsense lol

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By *eamus99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Yeah maybe still think a simple no thanks does the trick

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Apparently asking how someone's weekend went is reason for blocking just for bleather purposes whats best reason your aware of getting blocked "
For laughing at someones joke on the forums apparently someone didnt find it funny .

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By *eamus99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Yeah humor definitely subjective on here

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Yeah maybe still think a simple no thanks does the trick "

And with a no thanks comes "why?", or insults, or requests "can we just chat and be friends", or "you should meet me for a coffee anyway because I'm not like my pictures", or "you're probably a fake anyway".

Want me to give you a few more? The list is endless

Wouldn't fret about it too much OP. They just saved you from wasting your time as well. Plenty more people on here to try and get a conversation going.

Maybe try to make that first message stand out though. "How was your weekend" is one we get far too frequently. Once you've been chatting to someone for a while it's fine to ask about their weekend mind, but wouldn't start off that way x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I tend to block, if they keep badgering me after the polite "no thanks" (In case that wasn't clear yet)

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By *eamus99 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Maybe im old fashioned but no is end of conversation lol but I see you're point , is delicate though if you open with wanna meet your pushy lol still is half the fun is finding the balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach we all get blocked for some reason or another. Just move on and see what else is going on it's no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked fir being me. Which I have no problem with as i am an annoying bastard.. I did get blocked for apparently being someone else though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to block, if they keep badgering me after the polite "no thanks" (In case that wasn't clear yet) "

This...you've asked them to stop messaging but they persist with their pish. Not knowing their whereabouts, a boot square in the baws is not an option. So I reluctantly settle for the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently asking how someone's weekend went is reason for blocking just for bleather purposes whats best reason your aware of getting blocked "
wow really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked a few persistent people wanting to cam, and when I have politely told them we dont do cams, they try convince us then leave it few days weeks and same message again so I block simply because I've already said my whys and been polite about it. Just not our thing.

Others has been few men asking for pics, naked pics or sexy chat when hubby asleep when I politely tell them We not looking to chat or meet men at this moment in time, they say OK then days later ask again and again so hubby blocks them.

Men who have messaged and we said same as above, majority have been lovely and understand.

Don't delete people for fun of it only if they hassle me and hubby gets annoyed as we have preferences for a reason

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Maybe they're just on a power trip or maybe they recognised you. Could be any number of reasons in between. I wouldn't worry about it. Something that can be very apparent on here at times is that old saying "there's nowt as queer as fowk".

I must admit tho there has been some blocks that have got me scratching my head as in when you're browsing the forums, read someone's post and click their profile only to find you've been blocked. Folk from timbuktoo you've never had any interaction with whatsoever until you clicked on their profile a second before.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I've blocked people based on their attitude on the forums, I find they give a better indication of what someone is like because when people are messaging they are trying to impress. I'm sure I've been blocked by people because I'm vocal on the forum too, as well as not being what someone is looking for.

I don't think anything of it, if someone has blocked me then in their head they have a valid reason for doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get block for asking a simple question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the question?

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Lol...my lady with hairyarmpits got me at least 1 block. Achh not to worry.

Ps

To be clear th eurowife reference was in the context of a boys joke we used to have about 80s porn videos. I wasnt saying every european woman had hairy armpits or was less hygienic.

F-Brexit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about other ladies but the block button is a filter for me.

I use it if I'm not interested in someone I use it if I see shit behavior in forums I use it to stop abuse after I've said no thankyou people shouldn't take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was the question?"
about a stutus message

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh

We block ALL single men

We don’t want contact from single men

We’ve blocked messages from them, but sadly they still fab our photos which is a form of contact

When we want single men we pick them up at clubs after observing them and seeing what they are actually like

Sadly single men don’t read our profile and they fab the photos so we block them

Point of this post is

Sometime you get blocked because the people you’re initiating contact with are just not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you block guys because they have fabbed your pictures?

But harsh is it not?

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"So you block guys because they have fabbed your pictures?

But harsh is it not?

"

Nope

It’s our choice, we are not looking for people’s opinions on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed."

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them "

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus

And unfortunately you may not want opinions on the subject but im afraid on a forum you are going probably get them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again "

Me too....I've fabbed a couple of gay guy's pics cause they had a bloody amazing body! Snow ball's chance in hell of him giving me a rubber duck but I can still appreciate a beautuful thing!

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again "

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly

Gosh I'm mellowing in my old age lol you cannot stop folk fabbing your pics unless you stop everyone doing it all together.

You cant pick and choose who does it.

Hey ho everyone has the right to choose who they block tho.just seemed a tad harsh if the guys hadn't even messaged lol

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"And unfortunately you may not want opinions on the subject but im afraid on a forum you are going probably get them! "

Opinions on the subject are very welcome, but opinions on why we block men who fab our photos are not welcome

It’s our decision, nothing more, nothing less, no discussion will ever change it, so no discussion or explanation will be given or discussed

We do not need to justify our preferences as we would never be so ignorant or rude to ask someone on here to justify theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked by a couple because the female met me but she didn’t say that the male didn’t know..

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????"

Im sorry, but thats utter bollocks. Plenty of the pics i fab are from people who live miles away so never going to happen! Im a bloke on fab....what are these meets you talk about!? it genuinely is for just fabbing a pic i like and to be honest not something i do often. Just every now and then there is a pic i like that would like to perv again. Im under no illusion that anything will come from it.

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Exactly

Gosh I'm mellowing in my old age lol you cannot stop folk fabbing your pics unless you stop everyone doing it all together.

You cant pick and choose who does it.

Hey ho everyone has the right to choose who they block tho.just seemed a tad harsh if the guys hadn't even messaged lol "

That’s the whole point though

It’s a major flaw in the site

When you are given the option to block certain things you’re not interested in, they should be blocked all together

If a homophobic idiot blocks bi and gay men, but then gay and bi men still fab their photos that’s going to perpetuate hate

It’s an extreme example but it’s true

You wouldn’t poke a wasps nest

It’s the age old thing of people not reading the profiles

All the information is there unless it’s a fake profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet bi guys.

My preference but fab dont have a filter for bi guys to be blocked.

Hey ho.. but that dosnt mean I'd block every guy lol

Plus take a fabbed pic as a compliment. Youv obviously put pics on for folk to see.

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

Im sorry, but thats utter bollocks. Plenty of the pics i fab are from people who live miles away so never going to happen! Im a bloke on fab....what are these meets you talk about!? it genuinely is for just fabbing a pic i like and to be honest not something i do often. Just every now and then there is a pic i like that would like to perv again. Im under no illusion that anything will come from it. "

How can it be bollocks

If you know they are miles away and you have no chance, why do it

Cos you like how they look, which is a form of attraction, you are attracted to that photo even if it’s for wank purposes

You then go back to perv again!!

This showing that you are actually attracted even though you know nothing will ever come of it

You then hit the fab button so that the person who the photo is of knows that you are attracted even though you know it will never happen coz they are miles away

You’ve just initiate contact, you can come up with as many reasons as you like to deny it but as all people on here can see who has fabbed their photos

That’s contact, plain and simple

It might not come to anything but don’t deny that you secretly hope it does

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I dont meet bi guys.

My preference but fab dont have a filter for bi guys to be blocked.

Hey ho.. but that dosnt mean I'd block every guy lol

Plus take a fabbed pic as a compliment. Youv obviously put pics on for folk to see."

You see that’s the just accept it rule of society coming through

Just accept it as a compliment

So

You’re in a club and a guy you are not interested in at all keeps pestering you

Do you just accept it as a compliment or do you stop it straight away ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont meet bi guys.

My preference but fab dont have a filter for bi guys to be blocked.

Hey ho.. but that dosnt mean I'd block every guy lol

Plus take a fabbed pic as a compliment. Youv obviously put pics on for folk to see.

You see that’s the just accept it rule of society coming through

Just accept it as a compliment

So

You’re in a club and a guy you are not interested in at all keeps pestering you

Do you just accept it as a compliment or do you stop it straight away ? "

That's a real life interaction though. Completely different from someone liking a photo of you.

If it's an issue I'd stop looking at who has actually fabbed my pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont meet bi guys.

My preference but fab dont have a filter for bi guys to be blocked.

Hey ho.. but that dosnt mean I'd block every guy lol

Plus take a fabbed pic as a compliment. Youv obviously put pics on for folk to see.

You see that’s the just accept it rule of society coming through

Just accept it as a compliment

So

You’re in a club and a guy you are not interested in at all keeps pestering you

Do you just accept it as a compliment or do you stop it straight away ? "

you know that's a diffrent scenario this is all virtual.

I just dont how if it bothered you that much just dont allow anyone to fab them.

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????"

Not true!

I dont often fab pictures but when I do it has been because I’ve liked the images, not because I want to make contact with the person.

Your broad generalisation is based on your perspective. Not everyone thinks like you.

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I dont meet bi guys.

My preference but fab dont have a filter for bi guys to be blocked.

Hey ho.. but that dosnt mean I'd block every guy lol

Plus take a fabbed pic as a compliment. Youv obviously put pics on for folk to see.

You see that’s the just accept it rule of society coming through

Just accept it as a compliment

So

You’re in a club and a guy you are not interested in at all keeps pestering you

Do you just accept it as a compliment or do you stop it straight away ?

That's a real life interaction though. Completely different from someone liking a photo of you.

If it's an issue I'd stop looking at who has actually fabbed my pics."

All situations are real life

Just because we do it on an internet platform doesn’t make it any different

Tinder, you like someone you initiate contact by swiping a certain way

Facebook, you like something to show approval and thus initiating contact to show that

Twitter, you do the same

Snap chat, the same

Instagram etc etc etc all the same

The person you like doesn’t have to reply, but that doesn’t mean that you haven’t made the first move

A game of chess can only be won once someone starts

This platform is no different, we like, we message, if we can’t message, we wink, if we can’t wink, we fab, this making the first move

As it’s a move we have no interest in from this site, we block that move instantly

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By *allscot007Man
over a year ago

Glasgow , London UK

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I dont meet bi guys.

My preference but fab dont have a filter for bi guys to be blocked.

Hey ho.. but that dosnt mean I'd block every guy lol

Plus take a fabbed pic as a compliment. Youv obviously put pics on for folk to see.

You see that’s the just accept it rule of society coming through

Just accept it as a compliment

So

You’re in a club and a guy you are not interested in at all keeps pestering you

Do you just accept it as a compliment or do you stop it straight away ? you know that's a diffrent scenario this is all virtual.

I just dont how if it bothered you that much just dont allow anyone to fab them."

It doesn’t bother us

We just hit the block button

We aren’t the ones questioning as to why we do it, we aren’t the ones suggesting it’s harsh or in some ways out of order

And believe us from personal experience

Online is just as dangerous as real life

If you think that because this is online that somehow it’s less than real life

Just remember every person on this site wants to meet you for their own pleasure

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

Not true!

I dont often fab pictures but when I do it has been because I’ve liked the images, not because I want to make contact with the person.

Your broad generalisation is based on your perspective. Not everyone thinks like you."

You’re 100% correct

It is our decision to run our profile the way we choose too

But since we explained in our first post to this thread why some people get blocked to assist in the original posters question

We had people telling us that we are wrong

No one is right or wrong in their decisions on how they want to use fab or how they make it work for them

We do meet single men in clubs, we don’t meet single men from here - simples

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


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It’s a shame you removed it as I was just about to ask why you had to resort to childish insults?

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I got blocked by a couple because the female met me but she didn’t say that the male didn’t know.."

That’s unfair

So, unless we are mistaken, the female met you without her partners knowledge and then tried to cover her tracks ?

You’re better off without that drama waiting to happen

Very annoying

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

Not true!

I dont often fab pictures but when I do it has been because I’ve liked the images, not because I want to make contact with the person.

Your broad generalisation is based on your perspective. Not everyone thinks like you.

You’re 100% correct

It is our decision to run our profile the way we choose too

But since we explained in our first post to this thread why some people get blocked to assist in the original posters question

We had people telling us that we are wrong

No one is right or wrong in their decisions on how they want to use fab or how they make it work for them

We do meet single men in clubs, we don’t meet single men from here - simples

"

You put your opinion across, you were questioned on it. Its got sod all to do with me what irks you.

I am simply pointing out that these statements above are your thoughts and not the opinions of everyone. And I’m not fibbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t blocked anyone YET

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got blocked from somebody for telling them I worked offshore and I’m not home all the time to play..

Oh well

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I just got blocked from somebody for telling them I worked offshore and I’m not home all the time to play..

Oh well "

Yeah I’d block you for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked from somebody for telling them I worked offshore and I’m not home all the time to play..

Oh well

Yeah I’d block you for that! "

But when I am home I have all the time of the day for 21 whole days... gotta speculate to cumulate

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus


"

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

Not true!

I dont often fab pictures but when I do it has been because I’ve liked the images, not because I want to make contact with the person.

Your broad generalisation is based on your perspective. Not everyone thinks like you.

You’re 100% correct

It is our decision to run our profile the way we choose too

But since we explained in our first post to this thread why some people get blocked to assist in the original posters question

We had people telling us that we are wrong

No one is right or wrong in their decisions on how they want to use fab or how they make it work for them

We do meet single men in clubs, we don’t meet single men from here - simples

You put your opinion across, you were questioned on it. Its got sod all to do with me what irks you.

I am simply pointing out that these statements above are your thoughts and not the opinions of everyone. And I’m not fibbing!"

Have to say well said

Im not fibbing either when i say i fab pics just because i like them. Under no illusions that it means anymore than that.

I would liken the pics i fab to a modern day art collection which i admire and peruse at my leisure and only exceptional pieces of work will be added to it

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Being blocked is just part of fab.

Sometimes you know why, often you don't.

Sometimes you wonder why, but usually just accept as a sign they don't want to meet or look at their profile.

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

Not true!

I dont often fab pictures but when I do it has been because I’ve liked the images, not because I want to make contact with the person.

Your broad generalisation is based on your perspective. Not everyone thinks like you.

You’re 100% correct

It is our decision to run our profile the way we choose too

But since we explained in our first post to this thread why some people get blocked to assist in the original posters question

We had people telling us that we are wrong

No one is right or wrong in their decisions on how they want to use fab or how they make it work for them

We do meet single men in clubs, we don’t meet single men from here - simples

You put your opinion across, you were questioned on it. Its got sod all to do with me what irks you.

I am simply pointing out that these statements above are your thoughts and not the opinions of everyone. And I’m not fibbing!"

We weren’t questioned on it

We were called harsh and then suffered online abuse from a post that has been removed

None of which were warranted

We simply made our reasons for blocking known to the OP so as to show that people have all kinds of reasons for blocking them

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing..."

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Being blocked is just part of fab.

Sometimes you know why, often you don't.

Sometimes you wonder why, but usually just accept as a sign they don't want to meet or look at their profile."

This young man gets it

Spot on

It’s people’s preferences and decisions

Thank you

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile"

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!? "

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????"

Wow really that’s awfully shallow

I fab pics because they’re hot, I fab pics of people I wouldn’t ram with a barge pole because they’re artistic and different

I fab women’s pics and couples pics and certainly don’t want either contacting me !

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults "

Not a problem! Never once did I question your reasons, nor did I call you names, but, aye - Let's do adulting. It sounds proper fun!

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

Wow really that’s awfully shallow

I fab pics because they’re hot, I fab pics of people I wouldn’t ram with a barge pole because they’re artistic and different

I fab women’s pics and couples pics and certainly don’t want either contacting me !

"

Please explain how our decisions on who we want contact from is shallow?

You folks have thrown a lot of words at the reason why we are here and who we want to meet and don’t want to meet today and tbh none of them are true

We are so far from shallow, harsh, the other words used that we won’t repeat that have been deleted

We just know what we want and what we don’t want

If you’re happy to fab pics go ahead, everyone on this site does including us, we do it because we want to because we like you either find it alluring or attractive

And we will all disagree as to what constitutes contact

It seems that yet again the Scottish page on this forum cannot debate without becoming personal and throwing insult and name calling

It’s a shame

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults "

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere


"Yeah maybe still think a simple no thanks does the trick

And with a no thanks comes "why?", or insults, or requests "can we just chat and be friends", or "you should meet me for a coffee anyway because I'm not like my pictures", or "you're probably a fake anyway".

Want me to give you a few more? The list is endless

Wouldn't fret about it too much OP. They just saved you from wasting your time as well. Plenty more people on here to try and get a conversation going.

Maybe try to make that first message stand out though. "How was your weekend" is one we get far too frequently. Once you've been chatting to someone for a while it's fine to ask about their weekend mind, but wouldn't start off that way x"

Totally right!!

Accept it's not going to happen... move on

Dont make a drama

Its childish

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????"

I fab pics simply because I like the pic. Certainly don't do it to intiate contact. If I want to make contact I message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

Wow really that’s awfully shallow

I fab pics because they’re hot, I fab pics of people I wouldn’t ram with a barge pole because they’re artistic and different

I fab women’s pics and couples pics and certainly don’t want either contacting me !

Please explain how our decisions on who we want contact from is shallow?

You folks have thrown a lot of words at the reason why we are here and who we want to meet and don’t want to meet today and tbh none of them are true

We are so far from shallow, harsh, the other words used that we won’t repeat that have been deleted

We just know what we want and what we don’t want

If you’re happy to fab pics go ahead, everyone on this site does including us, we do it because we want to because we like you either find it alluring or attractive

And we will all disagree as to what constitutes contact

It seems that yet again the Scottish page on this forum cannot debate without becoming personal and throwing insult and name calling

It’s a shame "

Well you said everyone fabs a pic for one reason only I was merely pointing out that’s shallow and no you’re completely wrong because I don’t and many others don’t

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

I fab pics simply because I like the pic. Certainly don't do it to intiate contact. If I want to make contact I message them. "

Oooo I like your Santa pants. I’m going to fab them but this in no way means I want in them, ok!!!!

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive. "

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

I fab pics simply because I like the pic. Certainly don't do it to intiate contact. If I want to make contact I message them.

Oooo I like your Santa pants. I’m going to fab them but this in no way means I want in them, ok!!!! "

I do though.

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Yeah maybe still think a simple no thanks does the trick

And with a no thanks comes "why?", or insults, or requests "can we just chat and be friends", or "you should meet me for a coffee anyway because I'm not like my pictures", or "you're probably a fake anyway".

Want me to give you a few more? The list is endless

Wouldn't fret about it too much OP. They just saved you from wasting your time as well. Plenty more people on here to try and get a conversation going.

Maybe try to make that first message stand out though. "How was your weekend" is one we get far too frequently. Once you've been chatting to someone for a while it's fine to ask about their weekend mind, but wouldn't start off that way x

Totally right!!

Accept it's not going to happen... move on

Dont make a drama

Its childish"

This, exactly this and nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people "

....Am no the sharpest but I think the aggressive comment was directed at you.....

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Well why put them up and let them be fabbed?

Not having a pop just curious as I'm not looking for fabs so I dont allow my pics to be fabbed.

Because there are people on here that we would like to have our photos fabbed by

You join up, you select preferences, you are happy that those preferences are working until you get inundated by men fabbing your photos

We blocked single men, yet there they are with access to our profile and trying to initiate contact through fabbing

So we just block them all

We are not looking for single men from here

It states on the opening line of our profile

States that if you fab you’ll be blocked

States it on the header

States it in our interests

Yet here we are with single men still fabbing them

Maybe i have got this wrong but i never fab a pic to initiate contact. I just fab pics that i like and maybe want to look at again or should that be perv again

We all fab pics to initiate contact, let’s not beat around the bush and pretend otherwise

You see someone you like in a bar you make eye contact and smile

You see someone you like on fab, you fab their photo

The end result is that with both situations you hope that it might end up with two sweaty bodies in an orgasmic mess

If you claim otherwise than you’re fibbing

When you’re blocked from messaging, the only other way to get the attention of those you’re perving at is to fab

So tell me again that’s not initiating contact????

I fab pics simply because I like the pic. Certainly don't do it to intiate contact. If I want to make contact I message them. "

Ok, if that’s why you fab then that’s your reasons

But

Let’s say for example you see a pair of shows on wish

You put them into your favourites, you don’t message the seller but you’ve shown an interest in them by adding them to your favourites

It’s a completely subconscious animal instinct

We aren’t even aware that we do it, but and will disagree here, we see it as a form of contact

Especially when you block the option of messages

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people "

You misunderstand, it is you who has been aggressive!

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people

....Am no the sharpest but I think the aggressive comment was directed at you..... "

Spot on Mrs doggy, not just a pretty arse!

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people

....Am no the sharpest but I think the aggressive comment was directed at you..... "

Yet more insults thrown our way then because we have a disagreement on things

I hope that everyone on here is actually reading all of our comments and not just skimming them and making up words or falsehoods in their own minds before replying

The written word can be taken more than one way

If it offends you then question yourself why you’re offended

We haven’t spoken out of turn, we haven’t thrown slurs at people, we haven’t had to remove any of our posts because we were being highly offensive to some of you in them

We haven’t had to resort to sarcasm or pettiness

Yet we are aggressive and harsh and shallow and again other words that we will not repeat because quite frankly that behaviour is disgusting and has no place in debate

We just have a difference of opinion in what we consider as contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people

....Am no the sharpest but I think the aggressive comment was directed at you.....

Spot on Mrs doggy, not just a pretty arse! "

I've peaked early today....back to being a dolly bastard now

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people

....Am no the sharpest but I think the aggressive comment was directed at you.....

Yet more insults thrown our way then because we have a disagreement on things

I hope that everyone on here is actually reading all of our comments and not just skimming them and making up words or falsehoods in their own minds before replying

The written word can be taken more than one way

If it offends you then question yourself why you’re offended

We haven’t spoken out of turn, we haven’t thrown slurs at people, we haven’t had to remove any of our posts because we were being highly offensive to some of you in them

We haven’t had to resort to sarcasm or pettiness

Yet we are aggressive and harsh and shallow and again other words that we will not repeat because quite frankly that behaviour is disgusting and has no place in debate

We just have a difference of opinion in what we consider as contact

"

May I redirect you to the part where you said anyone who fabs a pic is looking to make contact. You followed that up by saying that if we claimed that contact was not the reason to fab then we are fibbers.

I read your words and I objected. I’m not insulting you, I’m observing.

You were happy to call another poster aggressive when you thought it was about them. It’s a different story when you realise it was said about you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people

....Am no the sharpest but I think the aggressive comment was directed at you.....

Yet more insults thrown our way then because we have a disagreement on things

I hope that everyone on here is actually reading all of our comments and not just skimming them and making up words or falsehoods in their own minds before replying

The written word can be taken more than one way

If it offends you then question yourself why you’re offended

We haven’t spoken out of turn, we haven’t thrown slurs at people, we haven’t had to remove any of our posts because we were being highly offensive to some of you in them

We haven’t had to resort to sarcasm or pettiness

Yet we are aggressive and harsh and shallow and again other words that we will not repeat because quite frankly that behaviour is disgusting and has no place in debate

We just have a difference of opinion in what we consider as contact

"

See if it iritates you that much, I'd honestly take the "Fab" option off my pics.

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"I'm away to Fab your pic. Not because I want to initiate contact - I think this post has already covered that base; and definitely not cos I want to get naked with you; but merely because I want to see what happens when one gets blocked.

Either I must be in the minority who doesn't get blocked often, or it's difficult to tell when you have been blocked.

I'm actually rather surprised you replied to the young pup's comment above, but as you say; your rules. I promise I won't even have a proper look at your picture. I'd close my eyes and Fab it, but wouldn't want to end up touching you up by mistook.

Here goes nothing...

You see that just shows that you can’t understand people’s reasoning or boundaries

And you’ve been blocked for it - simples

The only thing that has achieved is to make sure you never get to see the new pics of us in the future

I bet you didn’t even read the profile

I'm gutted! It was purely experimental! Where the heck am I gonna find naughty pictures to perv but not Fab, now!?

Sarcasm really isn’t you greatest asset

No need to make a dick of yourself

People are allowed to have different reasons for being here

So let’s leave the childish antics and be respectful adults

Wow, you come across as really aggressive.

I’m glad that someone else has spotted the aggression we have had to endure for our reasons of blocking people

....Am no the sharpest but I think the aggressive comment was directed at you.....

Yet more insults thrown our way then because we have a disagreement on things

I hope that everyone on here is actually reading all of our comments and not just skimming them and making up words or falsehoods in their own minds before replying

The written word can be taken more than one way

If it offends you then question yourself why you’re offended

We haven’t spoken out of turn, we haven’t thrown slurs at people, we haven’t had to remove any of our posts because we were being highly offensive to some of you in them

We haven’t had to resort to sarcasm or pettiness

Yet we are aggressive and harsh and shallow and again other words that we will not repeat because quite frankly that behaviour is disgusting and has no place in debate

We just have a difference of opinion in what we consider as contact

May I redirect you to the part where you said anyone who fabs a pic is looking to make contact. You followed that up by saying that if we claimed that contact was not the reason to fab then we are fibbers.

I read your words and I objected. I’m not insulting you, I’m observing.

You were happy to call another poster aggressive when you thought it was about them. It’s a different story when you realise it was said about you!"

Sadly no

I was pointing out the very obvious and glaring fact that we have been the subject of a tirade of words thrown against us

And the icing on the cake was your “aggressive” remark

You may as well go the whole hog and call us pedos

It’s about the only thing that left

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Oh my god!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


" Oooo I like your Santa pants. I’m going to fab them but this in no way means I want in them, ok!!!! "

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh

@doggy1970

This is just it

It doesn’t irritate us

Never has

We just open their profile and hit block, we don’t look, don’t want to as it’s not what we want

We still allow fabbing because we won’t cut our nose off to spite our face as couples, women and TVs can still fab them and we welcome that

Again

It seems there has been an awful lot of people that seem to think we have an issue with it

Our issue is

We blocked all single men so that should be blocked from seeing our profile at all

It is a site flaw as pointed out earlier

The OP has asked for reasons for being blocked

We shared our reasons

Since then people have chipped in with insults and questions why we choose to do it

The answer

Because it’s our profile and it’s the way we want to run it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw man someone wanna shut this thread down I’m meant to be on a diet and already in half a tub of toffee popcorn waiting for the next instalment

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus

Did someone earlier not mention they often block people of how they come across on the forums!?

Think they have a point...its a good filter

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Aw man someone wanna shut this thread down I’m meant to be on a diet and already in half a tub of toffee popcorn waiting for the next instalment "

On a plus note... This is the liveliest I've seen this forum in the past couple of weeks! Now pass the popcorn, it's nice to share!

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Aw man someone wanna shut this thread down I’m meant to be on a diet and already in half a tub of toffee popcorn waiting for the next instalment "

Don’t ever diet, you’ll end up wasting away and doing worse to your body than just changing the diet you already have

Try cutting out white bread and see if it makes a difference over 3 months x

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"Did someone earlier not mention they often block people of how they come across on the forums!?

Think they have a point...its a good filter "

They did indeed, and we hope that if we are not for you or anyone else on here you’d block us

It’s the same as smokers

We block them if they fab our pictures too as just like single men on here, we are looking for them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw man someone wanna shut this thread down I’m meant to be on a diet and already in half a tub of toffee popcorn waiting for the next instalment

On a plus note... This is the liveliest I've seen this forum in the past couple of weeks! Now pass the popcorn, it's nice to share! "

Sharing is caring

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr


"Maybe they're just on a power trip or maybe they recognised you. Could be any number of reasons in between. I wouldn't worry about it. Something that can be very apparent on here at times is that old saying "there's nowt as queer as fowk".

I must admit tho there has been some blocks that have got me scratching my head as in when you're browsing the forums, read someone's post and click their profile only to find you've been blocked. Folk from timbuktoo you've never had any interaction with whatsoever until you clicked on their profile a second before. "

Maybe they have seen your profile while searching through the site and knew you weren't for them and just blocked you

I have done that with people too for example someone looking for BBC and they don't mean big biker cock so i know there's no point trying to talk to them so just block them

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr


"Did someone earlier not mention they often block people of how they come across on the forums!?

Think they have a point...its a good filter "

That's no true either because what folk put in the forums and how they talk to someone one on one is a totally different thing

Some folk on here try for a bit of banter or something and just because it doesn't tickle your pickle doesn't mea you have to block them and if they are the same sex as you then if they are straight then they'll o be looking at your profile anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked by someone for a second day in a row for being offshore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block single guys who send friend requests without chatting first.

Also block smokers if we notice in browsing just so we don’t get messaged by them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block people who clearly haven't read and understood what we've specified in our profile, which is to say they clearly haven't read it. Pointless one line messages that's going nowhere really annoys us to no end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block if folk are being dickish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently asking how someone's weekend went is reason for blocking just for bleather purposes whats best reason your aware of getting blocked "

I block folk who haven’t even interacted. If I don’t like the look of them, like what they say on here or what’s on their profile then I’ll block. If they/ I message and it goes cold, I’ll presume no further interest required and block. Saves everyone time. Same with all the ‘pitty me’ profile headers. Instablock.

It’s a choice. You wouldn’t expect everyone in a bar to want to talk, engage or sleep with you. Why expect it here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve blocked some of the most gorgeous lassies in my area as their profile text told me they weren’t interested. It saves d*unk me throwing out messages to people who really don’t want them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve blocked some of the most gorgeous lassies in my area as their profile text told me they weren’t interested. It saves d*unk me throwing out messages to people who really don’t want them "

aye, this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure this will get me blocked but that seems to be your thing. I have fabbed lots of pics and haven't initiated contact with the lady or couple, usually because I've also read their profile and I see I won't be right for them, or them for me. This doesn't mean I can't appreciate the pictures posted and fab it out of respect.

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