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By *ay2571 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I am wondering if i did the right thing. But the other night i turned down a threesome. Well at least i think i did.

I was out with a mate for drinks and his girlfriend joined us a bit latter on. She sort of instigated a bit of chat about threesomes and also about going back to theirs for a drink. I politely declined.

I think I probably did the right thing, as it would probably change our friendship. But she is hir and im sort of regretting it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it amazing the amount of folks on here who have friends with such liberal attitudes in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am wondering if i did the right thing. But the other night i turned down a threesome. Well at least i think i did.

I was out with a mate for drinks and his girlfriend joined us a bit latter on. She sort of instigated a bit of chat about threesomes and also about going back to theirs for a drink. I politely declined.

I think I probably did the right thing, as it would probably change our friendship. But she is hir and im sort of regretting it now! "

I’d say you done the right thing at the time if alcohol was involved it might’ve just been a bit of d*unken banter that could’ve gone wrong. If she/they are serious surely they’ll bring it up again when drinking isn’t involved but the conversation should also be had about not wanting to jeopardise the friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am wondering if i did the right thing. But the other night i turned down a threesome. Well at least i think i did.

I was out with a mate for drinks and his girlfriend joined us a bit latter on. She sort of instigated a bit of chat about threesomes and also about going back to theirs for a drink. I politely declined.

I think I probably did the right thing, as it would probably change our friendship. But she is hir and im sort of regretting it now! "

Never regret it, you did the right thing. Good on you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never mix fun with normal outside fab friendships. It doesn't always turn out well and especially not when drink is involved.

We prefer to meet new people in the swinging scene and make friendships and have fun that way but not our normal day to day friendships that's a no go for us.

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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"We never mix fun with normal outside fab friendships. It doesn't always turn out well and especially not when drink is involved.

We prefer to meet new people in the swinging scene and make friendships and have fun that way but not our normal day to day friendships that's a no go for us. "

Couldn't agree more. Getting normally friends involved never works out. We've tried it twice now and the problem is if you then fall out at some point then can then expose you which is a big problem especially for couples

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