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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just came back on in that hope I'll find that special play mate where we show each other respect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't find it very respectful to be referred to as a play mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't find it very respectful to be referred to as a play mate "

What do you prefer? Fuck buddy... Sexual partner... Lover?

Possibly a wee bit juvenile sounding but I don't think it sounds particularly disrespectful tbh.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I prefer the expression friends with benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never liked the term playmate and fuck buddy is even worse. Friends with benefits is much nicer and seeing someone regularly not just for the benefits but socially too is lovely. It builds a real friendship especially if you've been seeing that person for a while x

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Remember playmate pens? They came out with a pen you could rub out the ink. Just saying.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Ive always used the word playmate dont see any harm in it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me old fashioned but I kinda like just being called my name.

Though the other options certainly don't offend me,lover is a wee bit cringey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul Van Dyke Lover is a tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me old fashioned but I kinda like just being called my name.

Though the other options certainly don't offend me,lover is a wee bit cringey"

Aye, sounds a bit heavy. I'd have the gutties on tout de suite and be doing a Usain Bolt if someone said that to me to be fair.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Call me old fashioned but I kinda like just being called my name.

Though the other options certainly don't offend me,lover is a wee bit cringey

Aye, sounds a bit heavy. I'd have the gutties on tout de suite and be doing a Usain Bolt if someone said that to me to be fair."

What about Easy Lover? That downgrades it a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me old fashioned but I kinda like just being called my name.

Though the other options certainly don't offend me,lover is a wee bit cringey

Aye, sounds a bit heavy. I'd have the gutties on tout de suite and be doing a Usain Bolt if someone said that to me to be fair."

I think it only acceptable if you are Lady Chatterley, the rest of the time..run!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me old fashioned but I kinda like just being called my name.

Though the other options certainly don't offend me,lover is a wee bit cringey

Aye, sounds a bit heavy. I'd have the gutties on tout de suite and be doing a Usain Bolt if someone said that to me to be fair.

What about Easy Lover? That downgrades it a bit. "

No no no...it's much more interesting to be complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me old fashioned but I kinda like just being called my name.

Though the other options certainly don't offend me,lover is a wee bit cringey

Aye, sounds a bit heavy. I'd have the gutties on tout de suite and be doing a Usain Bolt if someone said that to me to be fair.

What about Easy Lover? That downgrades it a bit. "

If he was into Phil Collins he'd have been binned early doors!

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Call me old fashioned but I kinda like just being called my name.

Though the other options certainly don't offend me,lover is a wee bit cringey

Aye, sounds a bit heavy. I'd have the gutties on tout de suite and be doing a Usain Bolt if someone said that to me to be fair.

What about Easy Lover? That downgrades it a bit.

If he was into Phil Collins he'd have been binned early doors! "

that’s all I've got for that one

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By *edLionScotMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Call me old fashioned but I kinda like just being called my name.

Though the other options certainly don't offend me,lover is a wee bit cringey

Aye, sounds a bit heavy. I'd have the gutties on tout de suite and be doing a Usain Bolt if someone said that to me to be fair.

I think it only acceptable if you are Lady Chatterley, the rest of the time..run!"

Or if you're meeting someone from the West Country. Used to work in Bristol. Alright my luvver!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good comments! Everyone has there own take for sure and when I said playmate I also said special. It was meant very much respectful as I'm a respectful guy.

FWB sound fine also, and the social element is important to me also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwb or fuxk buddy generally the two terms I use

When referring to no strings and I have been known to also have the odd booty call lol

Booty call - I’m not even going to talk about those lol they’re the dirty secrets

Fuxk buddy - they’ll get a mention in conversation but I won’t actively go out my way to socialise with them

Fwb - go on dates and won’t always end in sex, happy to spend an entire weekend together and even introduce them to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the term benefriend

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr


"I like the term benefriend "

Sounds like a mate that's on the broo ... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the term benefriend

Sounds like a mate that's on the broo ... lol"

Hahahaha so it does

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Fwb or fuxk buddy generally the two terms I use

When referring to no strings and I have been known to also have the odd booty call lol

Booty call - I’m not even going to talk about those lol they’re the dirty secrets

Fuxk buddy - they’ll get a mention in conversation but I won’t actively go out my way to socialise with them

Fwb - go on dates and won’t always end in sex, happy to spend an entire weekend together and even introduce them to people

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All of the above but not one of them

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