FabSwingers.com forum: Excuses used to escape....

By *earded blossom OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

... what excuses do most people use with family/friends to escape for fun? I'm sure it can't be easy for some to get regular babysitters etc for going to clubs

We've had friends ask us where we always go or they ask us for dinner/drinks when we've got plans to goto the club but we just tell them we've got a work thing on in the morning so need to escape for a early sleep

What excuse do you regularly use?

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get any invites anywhere so not a problem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never done that. I have a higher regard for my friends and family than anyone I've ever had fun with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When our kids were younger it was always work dos or out with friends my family had never heard of lol

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By *earded blossom OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've never done that. I have a higher regard for my friends and family than anyone I've ever had fun with "

So you just tell them you've got fun planned? Think you are missing the whole point to my question

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We say meeting other friends for drinks or a meal.

I don't think they believe us

and we don't care tbh haha

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Work normally x

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By *earded blossom OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Work normally x"

Lots of work things happening next year hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually thinking about it we very rarely lie. Because all of my hubbys work pals know we swing, and my close friends do as well.

Both our families live hours away so we arnt really in that predicament lol x

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By *igsaw93Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I say birthday party or friends party. For socials I'm just going out for drinks with friends.

H xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Work normally x"
lol with my mate tracey

that none of my family knows lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Work normally xlol with my mate tracey

that none of my family knows lol"

Me too. Think my family are beginning to think i have a female lover

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Work normally xlol with my mate tracey

that none of my family knows lol"

Hahaha same!! My sis is like so where did you and Auds actually meet

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Work normally xlol with my mate tracey

that none of my family knows lol

Me too. Think my family are beginning to think i have a female lover"

The same Tracey? She gets around a bit.

I’m either partying with old uni or school friends or taking part in an organised tournament.

Have you got Tracey’s or Aud’s contact details as a backup plan?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"Work normally x

Lots of work things happening next year hopefully

My 2020 diary at the ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old work pals xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ever get up to no good

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Just out with friends no need to elaborate further .

However when my kids were younger and we were meeting my sons would be like okay have a good time dont rush back but my daughter was a nightmare with a million texts asking where we were ,who were we with and when will you be home lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Just out with friends no need to elaborate further .

"
where*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was always family functions we attended prior to swinging life but we have a social life outwith family, it's a million questions from my mum, oldest kids and family.

We started off by saying new friends we met when we went out in Glasgow one weekend in the summer (not a lie) and so far we have been invited to 4 birthday bashes, 1 halloween party and soon a hogmanay party at a friend's houses (cjs) hahaha. Have to keep it real lol Family all know we go out Once a month for date night but no specific date so we babysit our grand kids in return my older son and daughter babysit my 2 youngest 14 and 6.

The questions come due to lack of party pics, as I always used to post pics of parties now nothing lol

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By *earded blossom OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It was always family functions we attended prior to swinging life but we have a social life outwith family, it's a million questions from my mum, oldest kids and family.

The questions come due to lack of party pics, as I always used to post pics of parties now nothing lol

Just need to make sure lots of pics at pre drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh I will try lol make it more believable, I always end up too busy chatting and having fun during socials lol feel like a kid sneaking and lieing to my parents though but all in the name of fun times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Usually work related, so no need for picture proof!

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

I used to go solo to cjs, but used excuse of Meet-up (app) which lets you join in social things such a dinners/quiz nights/board games/knitting etc hobbies with other solo people.

My mum used to ask me SO many questions; where you going? Do you want dropped off? Etc. How did you meet Ian?

I take photos pre party and don’t tag location.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regular excuse used but grateful for ideas. We go off for weekends and when I go back work on Monday my colleagues say 'you up to much at the weekend', I'm like 'not really, quiet one' with images of hot, sweaty bodies writhing about in my head.

Or if we do say we're going away, we have the same issue with photos. Or not telling people we are in their city in case they ask why we didn't call to arrange something with them.

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

House party in glasgow... friend of a friends house

You can guess where I'm talking about if you know me... lol

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By *anny77Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I just don’t get out. Easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Washing my hair

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By *inkycouple9836Couple
over a year ago

dundee

It just so happens our friend owns a pub right next to the club we go to... So when we ask family to babysit the kids "that's where we're going"

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

Sometimes I wish I had that problem but since I went back to nightshift it's kinda killed my social life over the years...if I say I'm in my bed I probably am but not in a fun way with someone lol, and nobody thinks twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"House party in glasgow... friend of a friends house

You can guess where I'm talking about if you know me... lol"

Well since the daughter found eddies mobile number and fab reference hahaha don’t think she believes where I go now she thinks I’m a mad sex maniac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Washing my hair

Yeah I use that one too .... then I remember I have no hair

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

I dont play much now but just said i was off out on a date

I still got loads of questions from sons friends etc quite touching really that they want poor me to meet someone, if only they knew half of it

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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago

Aviemore and regularly visit Glasgow

We usually tell folks we are just headed off to a friends for drinks/dinner/night out etc. Most of our friends know now so no need to lie to them, but need an excuse for chief dog sitter my mum.

My work colleagues did think it was a bit odd that I did a pole performance at your birthday party though K, and I got some extra funny looks when I told them the birthday girls had a lap dance too!

Little

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By *ltKittyWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I usually say drinks/dinners/parties or just generally catching up with friends, no one questions it

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

For socials it is usually the cinema, often some obscure film at the Glasgow Film Theatre so that nobody can quiz us on it.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Never need any ,and if we go away for the night everyone compliments us on having "us" time so all good

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