FabSwingers.com forum: Setting boundaries

By *irigram OP Couple
over a year ago

glenrothes

And the couples you meet that break them and spoil the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you say so at the time?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"And the couples you meet that break them and spoil the meet

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why bring it to the forum ? Why not discuss it with the couple themselves?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"And the couples you meet that break them and spoil the meet

why bring it to the forum ? Why not discuss it with the couple themselves?"

Exactly this

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By *irigram OP Couple
over a year ago

glenrothes

We did discuss when we met and 2 out off the last 3 meets it was the other couples that broke their own rules. Then had drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We did discuss when we met and 2 out off the last 3 meets it was the other couples that broke their own rules. Then had drama "

It's not really your story to tell then

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr

They are only asking if anyone has had these experiences themselves and they have so it is their story to tell

They were there and involved so they can tell it if they feel like it

Just the same as if you seen something funny happen to someone then you wouldn't say to someone else what you seen so you could both have a chuckle at your experience ... of course you would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had it before, was nothing major, but enough to put me off meeting them again.

I was more upset the guy was always slightly over stepping our boundaries (disrespecting what I'd said to him) for his own sexual gratification.

Pissed me off

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had it before, was nothing major, but enough to put me off meeting them again.

I was more upset the guy was always slightly over stepping our boundaries (disrespecting what I'd said to him) for his own sexual gratification.

Pissed me off

Mrs"

If he did it once, why did you give him the opportunity to do it again?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Never happened on a meet, but I've been in clubs when I've seen half of a couple get really pissed off because their partner has overstepped their agreed boundaries. Rather uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband and I very 1st meet the guy from the cpl kept trying to have sex when it was agreed beforehand it was only going to be soft swap.sorta put us off for a wee while after than.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve heard a few stories from newbies in particular where they had agreed boundaries beforehand and then ended up allowing more to happen that they really wanted and then feeling out off for a while, like any kind of sexual activity regardless of what you’re into and how kinky or depraved people think they are in this day and age I find it difficult to understand why so many people feel under pressure not to say NO and stop right there.

I’ve been in the middle of having sex with guys who’ve been told anal play is not on the cards they try once I’ll maybe let it slide they try again quite simply get off me we’re done get yourself off with a wank and don’t give them another thought. Some people think because you’re on fab you’re easy and anything goes. Don’t ever compromise yourself, you don’t owe them anything but you owe yourself respect xx

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