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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My fantasy is to have a guy join me and my wife but she is not up for it at all ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God she’s terrible ! Divorce her immediately or get over yourself

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"My fantasy is to have a guy join me and my wife but she is not up for it at all ??"
& there the fantasy ends.

You cant force her just because its your fantasy

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr

Keep your fantasy in your head if doesn't share it and that way you keep your marriage intact

(unless you're not happy with your wife and if that's the case then get out and find someone else who will share your fantasies and life)

Sometimes fantasies are better kept just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fantasy is to have a guy join me and my wife but she is not up for it at all ??"

She fuckin loved it with me .

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr


"

She fuckin loved it with me . "

You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post

Split personality or just two faced ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The question marks were meant to be a wee unhappy face don’t know what happened lol

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By *lancheifMan
over a year ago

Ayr

keep it in your head Sammy

Probably wouldn't turn out to be what you think it'll be like anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If shes not up for it then it stays in your head.

It's your fantasy not hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

She fuckin loved it with me .

You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post

Split personality or just two faced ?"

My comment to the OP was merely banter...If he found it offensive ..I APOLOGISE..

I have know idea what you mean criticise you on youre post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

She fuckin loved it with me .

You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post

Split personality or just two faced ?

My comment to the OP was merely banter...If he found it offensive ..I APOLOGISE..

I have know idea what you mean criticise you on youre post.

No need to apologise to him, it probably got him hard lol

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously no offence taken , I enjoy a bit of banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

She fuckin loved it with me .

You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post

Split personality or just two faced ?

My comment to the OP was merely banter...If he found it offensive ..I APOLOGISE..

I have know idea what you mean criticise you on youre post.

"

Think the man is just spoiling for a fight tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously no offence taken , I enjoy a bit of banter "

Glad too hear Sammy ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never push anyone on something they’ve already said no to, if she changes her mind she knows it’s something that would be welcomed otherwise your just showing her disrespect by repeating the question, on that note does she know you’re bi? One here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

She fuckin loved it with me .

You criticise me on my post then you come away with something like this to another persons post

Split personality or just two faced ?

My comment to the OP was merely banter...If he found it offensive ..I APOLOGISE..

I have know idea what you mean criticise you on youre post.

Think the man is just spoiling for a fight tonight "

Or on the naughty step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, if you all don't mind for a minute. This is a situation i find myself in and i'm keen to explore your thoughts more.

It has actually caused quite a bit of strife for me and my wife. Having broached the subject of swinging as many times as i thought was reasonable, i stopped asking but i'm still unable to shake off the desire. My fantasy is dead, we both acknowledge i have a kink and she doesnt.

So i actually consider allowing this to fuck up my marriage. I have this crazy spoilt child behaviour (never before may i add) with a narrative like 'why cant i enjoy what other people are enjoying?' I dont say this out loud thank feck.

Rant ends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fantasy is to have a guy join me and my wife but she is not up for it at all ??"

Thats the end of that then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you love your wife then respect her and your marriage. Keep it as a wank bank fantasy only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then it remains a fantasy. Simple as that. She’s said no, leave it.

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther


"Actually, if you all don't mind for a minute. This is a situation i find myself in and i'm keen to explore your thoughts more.

It has actually caused quite a bit of strife for me and my wife. Having broached the subject of swinging as many times as i thought was reasonable, i stopped asking but i'm still unable to shake off the desire. My fantasy is dead, we both acknowledge i have a kink and she doesnt.

So i actually consider allowing this to fuck up my marriage. I have this crazy spoilt child behaviour (never before may i add) with a narrative like 'why cant i enjoy what other people are enjoying?' I dont say this out loud thank feck.

Rant ends"

Try finding more common ground that u can both enjoy toys watching adult movies or maybe think about cpls therapy rather than letting something small destroy your marriage is it that shes genuinely not interested in swinging or is there deep seeded trust issues my husband when he 1st spoke about swinging I was like fuck no but after years of talking and working past my own issues based on previous issues I've had i was the one to bring it back up i can assure u pushing the issue will push her away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually, if you all don't mind for a minute. This is a situation i find myself in and i'm keen to explore your thoughts more.

It has actually caused quite a bit of strife for me and my wife. Having broached the subject of swinging as many times as i thought was reasonable, i stopped asking but i'm still unable to shake off the desire. My fantasy is dead, we both acknowledge i have a kink and she doesnt.

So i actually consider allowing this to fuck up my marriage. I have this crazy spoilt child behaviour (never before may i add) with a narrative like 'why cant i enjoy what other people are enjoying?' I dont say this out loud thank feck.

Rant ends"

Jesus

If she doesn’t want it then she doesn’t want it. Is that difficult to understand? Take your tantrum and leave if your fantasy is more important than your marriage

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour


"Actually, if you all don't mind for a minute. This is a situation i find myself in and i'm keen to explore your thoughts more.

It has actually caused quite a bit of strife for me and my wife. Having broached the subject of swinging as many times as i thought was reasonable, i stopped asking but i'm still unable to shake off the desire. My fantasy is dead, we both acknowledge i have a kink and she doesnt.

So i actually consider allowing this to fuck up my marriage. I have this crazy spoilt child behaviour (never before may i add) with a narrative like 'why cant i enjoy what other people are enjoying?' I dont say this out loud thank feck.

Rant ends

Jesus

If she doesn’t want it then she doesn’t want it. Is that difficult to understand? Take your tantrum and leave if your fantasy is more important than your marriage "

Put it this way pal if you cant respect your wife and her wishes, few months down the line she will find a man that does ,it easy solution really ,Wife or swinging which one is more important in the long term

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By *haring is caring ABCCouple
over a year ago

near edinburgh/borders

Respect her wishes if u happily married !

More u ask will annoy her everyone is different me I jumped at chance as so do other females on fab but my hubby would respect if I said no happening

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