FabSwingers.com forum: ATHLETIC-AVERAGE-CURVY-FABULOUS

By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

So when does one change into the other

I came across a profile the other night and on the description she had athletic, but there was a profile pic of her top half including the top of her arms etc. When did looking like you weigh 20st become athletic

Some put curvy and you see pics and they aren't curvy, they are fat

So without proper pictures how are guys supposed to know who we are actually chatting to

Then if it comes down to actually arranging a meet you are expecting someone slim to turn up then you feel the earth shake and this huge thing swings the door open and the description doesn't fit the reality (never happened to me but it's possible for it to happen or has happened to someone if they don't share a pic first)

Or has it happened to anyone (i'm sure it's bound to have)

Ok there may be some room for poetic licence but athletic in your profile when fat as fuck photo says totally different

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

Wow. Just wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....maybe they identify as an athlete....

Get where you're coming from...folk should be more honest and not talk mince.

But the fat as fuck comment is a bit shite.

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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago

West Lothian

Maybe she was a shot putter?

People can describe themselves as how they see fit

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

I get the point of people not being honest about their descriptions, cos that gets right up my nose too, but the tone of the OP is horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A horrendous OP.

A perfect example of why the body type category shouldn’t exist. Everybody has eyes and can make up their own mind, no need to have folk labelling themselves.

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I see what yous are saying about the fat as fuck comment but

Athletic and 20st are nowhere near the same

So athletic and fat as fuck are just descriptions so i'm contrasting the athletic(fantasy) fat as fuck (reality)

I never named anyone or anything all i'm doing is using descriptive language to convey what the picture looked like compared to their description

And that's how we talk down my way (well me and my mates do).... don't like it - don't give a fuck

I'm not going to be PC just so i don't fucking "trigger" any fucking snowflakes

All i'm saying is at least be honest

They could put fabulous down and then in the description say i'm a bbw size (whatever) and if thats not for you then fine as i have seen numerous profiles like that

That is honesty, but to say you have an athletic build when in actual fact they couldn't run to greggs then it's going beyond a joke

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

"So when does one change into the other

Some put curvy and you see pics and they aren't curvy, they are fat

So without proper pictures how are guys supposed to know who we are actually chatting to

Or has it happened to anyone (i'm sure it's bound to have)

Ok there may be some room for poetic licence but athletic in your profile when fat as fuck photo says totally different "

Who the fuck are you to judge what a woman wants to call herself??? Free country mate!

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Stop trying to come across as all righteous

You never do it when your out on the town or out on the pull

You've never done it cause you love ALL women every shape size and age

Like fuck !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see what yous are saying about the fat as fuck comment but

Athletic and 20st are nowhere near the same

So athletic and fat as fuck are just descriptions so i'm contrasting the athletic(fantasy) fat as fuck (reality)

I never named anyone or anything all i'm doing is using descriptive language to convey what the picture looked like compared to their description

And that's how we talk down my way (well me and my mates do).... don't like it - don't give a fuck

I'm not going to be PC just so i don't fucking "trigger" any fucking snowflakes

All i'm saying is at least be honest

They could put fabulous down and then in the description say i'm a bbw size (whatever) and if thats not for you then fine as i have seen numerous profiles like that

That is honesty, but to say you have an athletic build when in actual fact they couldn't run to greggs then it's going beyond a joke "

How the fuck does someone at 20st angle their pics in such a way as to appear "athletic"?

You just getting bitter and twisted auld yin cause your eyes ain't what they used to be?

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Free country right ???

Well she was as fat as fuck and wasn't athletically built - FACT

Free country to state my mind

Don't like what i'm saying then don't feel the need to reply and just say fuckin idiot and go on to the next post

I'm stating what i think and was my post so why do you feel you need to stick your oar in

Same with anyone else reading this

Don't like what i'm saying then fuck off and read someone else's post

I was only asking when does one become the other in un-pc language

No need to get all triggered and have to run to the doc tomorrow with ptsd ffs

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Exactly - how can they angle the camera to try and appear athletic when they are the width of a bus

Cant be done and i dont think filters can do that either ... lol

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

"Free country right ???

Well she was as fat as fuck and wasn't athletically built - FACT

Free country to state my mind

Don't like what i'm saying then don't feel the need to reply and just say fuckin idiot and go on to the next post

I'm stating what i think and was my post so why do you feel you need to stick your oar in

Same with anyone else reading this

Don't like what i'm saying then fuck off and read someone else's post

I was only asking when does one become the other in un-pc language

No need to get all triggered and have to run to the doc tomorrow with ptsd ffs "

Mate sounds like you are the one that’s triggered

You have posted on a public forum so everyone is free to answer you actually!

And maybe these girls just like pissing men off and seeing their faces when they realise they aren’t athletic

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I see what yous are saying about the fat as fuck comment but

Athletic and 20st are nowhere near the same

So athletic and fat as fuck are just descriptions so i'm contrasting the athletic(fantasy) fat as fuck (reality)

I never named anyone or anything all i'm doing is using descriptive language to convey what the picture looked like compared to their description

And that's how we talk down my way (well me and my mates do).... don't like it - don't give a fuck

I'm not going to be PC just so i don't fucking "trigger" any fucking snowflakes

All i'm saying is at least be honest

They could put fabulous down and then in the description say i'm a bbw size (whatever) and if thats not for you then fine as i have seen numerous profiles like that

That is honesty, but to say you have an athletic build when in actual fact they couldn't run to greggs then it's going beyond a joke "
if you have seen the photos and can clearly see they aint as desribed then just ignore the profile... that would be the best thing to do surely !

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I'm not triggered

I was asking when does one become the other because you can be fat and class yourself as curvy because you are (just various degrees) but there is no way in hell can you class yourself as athletically built when you're the size of a back end of a truck

Even circus mirrors can't do that

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By *ixie and adamCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wow. What a cunty post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nasty

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I did ignore it

I was just asking for opinions on how some describe theirselves when they are clearly not as described

It would be classed as false advertisement if it was an advert on the telly and would get taken down ... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines accurate I'm large so I put large if anyone has a problem with it then tough titties

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

A can do worse ones than that if you want

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I did ignore it

I was just asking for opinions on how some describe theirselves when they are clearly not as described

It would be classed as false advertisement if it was an advert on the telly and would get taken down ... lol

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sadly the site doesnt give you the option to describe yourself as fat as f**k lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did ignore it

I was just asking for opinions on how some describe theirselves when they are clearly not as described

It would be classed as false advertisement if it was an advert on the telly and would get taken down ... lol

sadly the site doesnt give you the option to describe yourself as fat as f**k lol

Haha if it did I'd be on that

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Exactly Miss

If anyone has a problem with your profile then they can just ignore it because you tell the truth and it might no be for everyone and everybody has a type they like or don't like whether they want to admit it openly or not and honesty is always the best policy because you have a better chance of actually meeting the right people you want to attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I have seen guys do it too seen some in clubs their profiles day athletic but they are far from it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I did ignore it

I was just asking for opinions on how some describe theirselves when they are clearly not as described

It would be classed as false advertisement if it was an advert on the telly and would get taken down ... lol

sadly the site doesnt give you the option to describe yourself as fat as f**k lol

Haha if it did I'd be on that

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

No but it does give you fabulous

At the very least the lady could have put curvy because as i said there are degrees of being curvy as totally opposed to athletic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually had this discussion the other day with somebody I’d recently met, they asked me why I’d had large when she would describe me as curvy, my question is when does curvy become large and large become curvy...

My explanation is at least if I put large and they described me as curvy then it’s a pleasant suprise rather than they meet me and be a lot bigger than expected x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly Miss

(Played a blinder there mate...nicely done....good recovery

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Totally agree with you Miss

And i know guys will do it too, but i don't look at guys profiles so can only comment on what i see on the ladies ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had many people say I'm large with shape so I don't know if that makes me curvy or not I just think I'm large so I guess no one gets a shock

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Just saying it the way it is Doggy

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I just looked at your profile there Miss and you say you're fat, but i have seen bigger than you putting curvy in their description so thats what i mean about curvy and degrees cause even fat folk are curvy so they're no lying

As opposed to being fat and putting down athletic

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

A sumo wrestler is an athlete. Can he, therefore, class his body as athletic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just looked at your profile there Miss and you say you're fat, but i have seen bigger than you putting curvy in their description so thats what i mean about curvy and degrees cause even fat folk are curvy so they're no lying

As opposed to being fat and putting down athletic "

Did a fat bird steal your selection box when you were a wean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A sumo wrestler is an athlete. Can he, therefore, class his body as athletic?"

You have a point there

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

At least you are being honest though Jess

And if you meet someone and they tell you you are not as large as you said you were then thats always a nice comment to receive rather than describing yourself the exact opposite then when someone meets you giving you the exact opposit or worse comment

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

NOPE - FAT

And a sumo would tell ye that

They are very very large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh exactly, I’d die if somebody ever said to me “your a lot fatter than you described”

I did used to have curvy on my profile until a couple messaged a guy who verified me asking him if I was actually curvy or just fat... I thought this was proper rude instead of just asking me or even asking for a picture!

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

That is just rude and down right schnidey too asking others if you are fat or not

Keep curvy in your profile an just say you are a bbw size whatever (if you want to) and if you don't like it then move along

Or a big girl and if it's not for you then neither are you but at least you are telling people what to expect to start with and not saying you are built like twiggy when your pinky is fatter than twiggy ....

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By *azzle99Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Curves created in the gym, but definitely not athletic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever thought maybe the person whose profile you saw had clicked the wrong button by mistake when making her profile ..regardless dont think the fat as fk comment is very nice

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Nothing wrong being curvy

But that is how you also describe yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever thought maybe the person whose profile you saw had clicked the wrong button by mistake when making her profile ..regardless dont think the fat as fk comment is very nice "

Fat fingers? (Oops...runs and hides...

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

There's a big gap between athletic and fabulous

Like i said if she had put curvy then i would have disagreed with her description but there are degrees in the curvy category and i would have disagreed with her description

But even a blind person can tell if they are thin or fat without seeing in a mirror

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

There’s a difference though between being annoyed and talking about people lying over their size, age or whatever and referring to them as far as Fk. I mean, you could have put it in a way that sounded less cruel and twattish.

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I definitely could have

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I think your description of average, is that accurate ?

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Would have to say so cause that what my underwear says Medium

Or my jeans 30" waist so that would have to be pretty average would it not

Although my tops are large or xl depending on the tshirt

Or would you prefer i change it to fat as fuck or what?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Now I had some popcorn around here somewhere....

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Would have to say so cause that what my underwear says Medium

Or my jeans 30" waist so that would have to be pretty average would it not

Although my tops are large or xl depending on the tshirt

Or would you prefer i change it to fat as fuck or what?"

I'd rather you change it to 'shitty personality'

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Just out of curiosity, How fat is "fuck" ?

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I don't though

Just because i'm not into this pc shit and right think/speak doesn't make me have a shitty personality

Maybe you have a judgmental mentality and it's you that needs to change and not me

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Fatter than curvy and a lot fucking fatter than athletic

Hope that's cleared that up for you

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Hope you have a big bag

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

So tired of guys claiming that they're 'just being honest' when what they actually mean is that they have no manners, no class, and think that everyone should be forced to listen to their sad little attention seeking opinion.

Good job on making yourself look like a massive dickhead, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe It’s time to have a personality descriptor too

I’ll not only be fat as fuck but cunty as fuck too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't though

Just because i'm not into this pc shit and right think/speak doesn't make me have a shitty personality

Maybe you have a judgmental mentality and it's you that needs to change and not me

When you start describing people as being fat as fuck you lose all credibility or bonus points for personality of the year award

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't though

Just because i'm not into this pc shit and right think/speak doesn't make me have a shitty personality

Maybe you have a judgmental mentality and it's you that needs to change and not me

Are you offended by the fact that it's not okay to be offensive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a horrible thing to say to someone. I knew someone once who said about his friend and I quote "she's too fat to fuck". That's no friend! I was absolutely disgusted when I found out what he said to her but just sums him up in a nutshell really

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I don't want to be personality of the year and i'm no into being any kind of personality i don't do that whole celeb fucking shite nor pc or right think

I'll speak my mind whether you or anyone else likes it or not

There is still (only just but it's still there) such a thing as free speech

You in your profile describe yourself as how you are and you don't hide your size or try to be someone you aren't

I would read your profile and know exactly who you were and you are a large lady and iv'e nothing against that or anyone of any size

But when you are like about 20st and describe your build as athletic when she's fat as fuck then that's a whole different ball game

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I never said it to anyone

I haven't spoken to this lady nor will i and i certainly wouldn't pull her up about her description either

But doesn't mean i can't have an opinion on a forum

Have you seen some of the shit folk post about in here

I'm just doing the same

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

On the plus side if you ever decide to go for a job in Trumps Diplomatic Corps, you can use this thread as your cv

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

YEP i am so

OFFENSE is never given - only taken

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

WTF HAS TRUMP GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING

Get a grip billy ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ATHLETIC-AVERAGE-CURVY-FABULOUS..

I would happily meet anyone in this category ..

ONLY

If there was a connection communication and personality..

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

OP, a little tip for you. If you look at the bottom right corner of someone's comment you'll see a button marked 'reply+quote'. If you use it, people will know who you're replying to.

And yes we do have free speech. You have the right to display your nasty personality, and other people have the right to tell you you're a dick

Also, you may want to take the part out of your profile about not judging others, as that's exactly what you're doing.

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

Exactly - but when someone described theirselves as athletic then what would you expect to see when you met that person

Would it be someone slim slender or whatever you want to call the build or would it be someone weighing more than you

Remember only by their description who would you expect to meet and answer truthfully if you can ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I'm not judging others and i wouldn't have a problem having a social meet with the lady and having a good chat coffee etc.

And like i said to Jess Miss etc

They described themselves honestly and would happily meet any lady socially i don't have a problem with size

I have the problem with someone saying on their profile their build is athletic and they are the exact opposite of that

So if i was to meet this person going on her description then that is not who i would think i was going to meet therefore she is not who/what she claims to be

Whats so hard to understand about that

I was speaking to a lady and she had the same thing happen with her except it was a guy so i know guys do it too but i don't look at guys profiles only women so can only speak as i find

"OP, a little tip for you. If you look at the bottom right corner of someone's comment you'll see a button marked 'reply+quote'. If you use it, people will know who you're replying to.

And yes we do have free speech. You have the right to display your nasty personality, and other people have the right to tell you you're a dick

Also, you may want to take the part out of your profile about not judging others, as that's exactly what you're doing. "

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

You chicken out or thought it wasn't too pc enough your answer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if i was to meet this person ..."

I don't think you're going to have to worry about meeting any person

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

"WTF HAS TRUMP GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING

Get a grip billy ffs "

No need to shout. It is nothing to do with the content just the attitude, offensive, ignorant, abusive and loud. I couldn't help but draw parallels. Don't think it's me that needs to get a grip

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I don't think you're going to have to worry about meeting any person "

Maybe not you but there's more people on fab and not all read the forums too

And i have had mail from a couple of women about this topic and their experiences too

So you and a few others might find this a bit distasteful or don't like the way i talk, others don't have a problem with what i'm saying o it's horses for courses and each to their own

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

No need to shout. It is nothing to do with the content just the attitude, offensive, ignorant, abusive and loud. I couldn't help but draw parallels. Don't think it's me that needs to get a grip"

I'm talking about someone's profile description and your bringing your politics into something that's totally unpolitical

Want to talk politics then open another discussion and i'll contribute to that if it's a worthwhile topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very a very nice way to speak about other. I seriously hope your perfect.

Kind regards

Fat as fuck

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

"That's not shouting, it's typing something in capitals

I'm emphasising the point to make it stand out more than just lower case letters

Shouting at you is using your voice in a highly raised retort

No need to shout. "

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By *lancheif OP Man
over a year ago

Ayr

"Not very a very nice way to speak about other. I seriously hope your perfect.

Kind regards

Fat as fuck "

NOPE !!!! Not even close

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