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By *ntense fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

So having a coffee today with a fellow fabber and the chat was all about married and singles and who accepts what etc and it got me thinking about morals

The mere mortals of society would view swinging to be unacceptable whereas to us it’s the norm

Yet within our ‘normal’ groups we are all different

Some people don’t meet married but cheating people, some don’t meet bi, some won’t meet in cars or outdoors

So fab morals

Where do yours lie !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have very low morals

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Watch no get morals and preferences mixed up. It's a dangerous path to tread. I'm getting the popcorn out for this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our morals are Always tell each other the truth.

Do not cheat as no need to if we in this together.

Treat others as you want to be treated.

Don't judge other people

Be dependable, if we plan to meet people we stick to it and hope its the same other way round. Be honest with people if we don't like a situation or couple we need to say rather than feel awkward and it ruin our experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab Morales

If I fancy you...il meet you

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By *ntense fun OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Watch no get morals and preferences mixed up. It's a dangerous path to tread. I'm getting the popcorn out for this one. "

I’m meaning a lot think that is not acceptable to meet with someone who is married so that’s their fab morals Rather than a preference

I won’t meet married men as a single as there is a risk a disgruntled wife will come after me -so that’s a preference as will meet married with my OH as feel there is a safety net

And this might have opened a can of worms so get some juice with that popcorn is my advice

lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think we all have morals on one thing and another and thats fine but when you see updates or forum posts from other members having ago at other members because they feel so strongly about their morals some think they have a right to do this which is wrong in my opinion.

Ive seen one profile continually have a go at married or attatched people constantly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch no get morals and preferences mixed up. It's a dangerous path to tread. I'm getting the popcorn out for this one. "

2 Boxes Kid ..

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By *ongue FuckerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

My morals are "no cock for me please"..... that is all.

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By *orWullieMan
over a year ago

Dunoon

Morals within the swinging lifestyle is a funny one. Society may not approve having an affair outwith a relationship, but it's still seen as 'normal'. Have your partner watch or join in and it's wrong. I suppose its a sad reflection on the value society in general places on honesty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the main thing should be honesty from all parties involved so no one is being mislead.

If something's not for you, politely decline, no need to take the moral highground or question people's reasons for being here. It's none of your business at the end of the day.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

I find it strange that folk think of as swinging is not mainstream.

News flash had as much if not more what would be deemed debaucherous times out with fab to be honest

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I think the main thing should be honesty from all parties involved so no one is being mislead.

If something's not for you, politely decline, no need to take the moral highground or question people's reasons for being here. It's none of your business at the end of the day."
spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest, be respectful to other peoples boundaries and treat people as you want to be treated (that could go one of 2 ways)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in glass houses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People in glass houses "

Totes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only grey area is married men fucking without permission. I used to think I was a good & honest person, but I'm just as complicit with their lying.

Sure life isn't black & white and I do still encourage them to talk to their wives and fix things...ask the hard questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the main thing should be honesty from all parties involved so no one is being mislead.

If something's not for you, politely decline, no need to take the moral highground or question people's reasons for being here. It's none of your business at the end of the day."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy life live it your way and dont fuck it up

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By *gowboy18Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Fab Morales

If I fancy you...il meet you "

Nicely put x

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

What you do is your business, I'll only comment if it's illegal or not consenting.

After that its your life enjoy it and if you have an opinion on me.

I'll happily give you 10p to phone someone who gives a fuck.

That's all folks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's live and let live. I grew up in a place where a lot of what is normal in some places are taboo, and others that are frowned upon in those other places are accepted.

While a personal moral code is important, trying to impose it on others becomes dangerous esp. when many people share the same code and a minority exists in the same space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, if someone wants to play away from home they will.

The opinion of strangers on a sex site won't and shouldn't really make any difference.

Everyone has their own reasons.

If I'm attracted to someone , we get along, they hold my attention and I'm tempted to meet them, I will. Their life outside of that is not my concern.

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By *ink-KameraMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Treat everyone with respect, Do everything with consent. Stay safe

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