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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?"
what is too many verivications ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?what is too many verivications ?"
verifications*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?what is too many verivications ?"

Good question ... I dont think you can have too many as some may have been social meets that havent gone further for multiple reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm put off with who folk have met rather than how many.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?what is too many verivications ?

Good question ... I dont think you can have too many as some may have been social meets that havent gone further for multiple reasons"
yep also many members have been on here since the invention of fab too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm put off with who folk have met rather than how many."

I never thought of looking at that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?what is too many verivications ?

Good question ... I dont think you can have too many as some may have been social meets that havent gone further for multiple reasonsyep also many members have been on here since the invention of fab too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm put off with who folk have met rather than how many."

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?what is too many verivications ?

Good question ... I dont think you can have too many as some may have been social meets that havent gone further for multiple reasonsyep also many members have been on here since the invention of fab too "

This is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more social meet verifications than actual fun meet verifications but the ones I do show are from only a couple of people I've seen regularly. I agree with Oldie on her comment though. Plus there's just too much judgement from some men who think you've had sex with a lot of people, when I know I haven't x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I have more social meet verifications than actual fun meet verifications but the ones I do show are from only a couple of people I've seen regularly. I agree with Oldie on her comment though. Plus there's just too much judgement from some men who think you've had sex with a lot of people, when I know I haven't x"
women do this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have more social meet verifications than actual fun meet verifications but the ones I do show are from only a couple of people I've seen regularly. I agree with Oldie on her comment though. Plus there's just too much judgement from some men who think you've had sex with a lot of people, when I know I haven't xwomen do this too "

They probably do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have more social meet verifications than actual fun meet verifications but the ones I do show are from only a couple of people I've seen regularly. I agree with Oldie on her comment though. Plus there's just too much judgement from some men who think you've had sex with a lot of people, when I know I haven't xwomen do this too

They probably do x"

Think both sexes do maybe to an extent

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?"

I think it depends on what you’re looking for, a woman who has cum parties will have more veris that a couple who want to soft swap in our opinion.

We haven’t seen an account that interested us and then thought, too many partner, not for us.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Nope the put off is when they meet imo wankers

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

In a nutshell, yes. Probably more down to frequency than totals, though. If I see someone who has had 10 sex-meet verifications, all from different guys, over the course of a few weeks, though the primitive animalistic temptation can be there, I know they're not for me.

They'd likely be, and are proven to be, ideal for those seeking an easy cum and go scenario, and to be fair all sorts have a place here.

It's actually a proven fact that those who are unverified tend to be the best at sex, anyway. Don't ask for my sources. It just is, right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really unless it's a stupid amount

As long as they play safe I don't think it really matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's someone displaying a lot of verifications indicating they've had sex with more than a few different people in a short space of time, then yeah it would put me off

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow

Yes it puts me off. Most of my meets have been from socials or clubs. People who go to certain parties on here are people I would never entertain meeting.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"I'm put off with who folk have met rather than how many."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm put off with who folk have met rather than how many.

This."

Third this

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm put off with who folk have met rather than how many."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah quite often if people have verifications from certain people it's a defo no no. Not talking about the social verification from them but the sex meet. Some you wouldn't touch with a barge pole

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By *ikkevCouple
over a year ago

larkhall


"Yeah quite often if people have verifications from certain people it's a defo no no. Not talking about the social verification from them but the sex meet. Some you wouldn't touch with a barge pole "

This

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By *urves And No BrakesCouple
over a year ago

Airdrie

People with no veris who have been here for over a year says a lot - not all of them are fake surely?

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"People with no veris who have been here for over a year says a lot - not all of them are fake surely? "

7 years and counting, and pretty certain I'm real! What does it say?

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By *urves And No BrakesCouple
over a year ago

Airdrie

I'm sure it speaks to different people in different ways. Everyone is afforded an opinion and it's a forum not a personal attack on you... But you do you and happy fabbing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah quite often if people have verifications from certain people it's a defo no no. Not talking about the social verification from them but the sex meet. Some you wouldn't touch with a barge pole

This

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I'm sure it speaks to different people in different ways. Everyone is afforded an opinion and it's a forum not a personal attack on you... But you do you and happy fabbing..."

I do me rather often, and rather well. It's just a pity I can't verify me for doing so. Mind be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?"

For me it’s something I judge one on one, people can have false verifications, hide verifications, limit how many they show and so on. The verification system is good but shouldn’t be a substitute for good vetting

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Is it a put off if someone has too many verifications or has had too many sexual partners?"

No

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife

Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons."

Admirable suggestion, but it's not gonna change how I do things

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons.

Admirable suggestion, but it's not gonna change how I do things "

Not a suggestion, it's a fact, you're free to conduct yourself in any way you see fit on here, also a fact

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons."
Agree with this & as I asked in my 1st comment how many veries are too many ?

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By *urves And No BrakesCouple
over a year ago

Airdrie

It's surely more about the content of their profile, their chat and whether you are all compatible and so on... Veris with people that aren't desirable is kinda like sex you regret in more traditional settings - we've all had partners we regret surely? Lol x

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By *urves And No BrakesCouple
over a year ago

Airdrie


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons.Agree with this & as I asked in my 1st comment how many veries are too many ?"

Exactly right about numbers - it's not like you get a ration book when you start lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons.Agree with this & as I asked in my 1st comment how many veries are too many ?"

This.... I got a message from some young lad last week saying cos I had 50 verifications that my fanny must be like the bat cave most of mines are social verification as he was put in his place

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By *urves And No BrakesCouple
over a year ago

Airdrie


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons.Agree with this & as I asked in my 1st comment how many veries are too many ?

This.... I got a message from some young lad last week saying cos I had 50 verifications that my fanny must be like the bat cave most of mines are social verification as he was put in his place "

Never understood why boys don't realise it's designed for childbirth and their dicks +no matter how many) ain't going to alter it lol! Let's not pretend they would be dismissive of porn stars either - Joker might be in the cinema but the real clowns out here and messaging eh?

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons.Agree with this & as I asked in my 1st comment how many veries are too many ?"

In my view there is no such a thing as too many, I'm more likely to msg someone with loads of veris than I will if they've been on a while and have one, that said it all depends on the person as well, if they are a chilled, happy no hang ups kinda person they can have 100 veris for all I care, if they're part of the 200 conditions before I'll even agree to think about meeting you, then they're not the kinda people I want to hang out with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons.

Admirable suggestion, but it's not gonna change how I do things

Not a suggestion, it's a fact, you're free to conduct yourself in any way you see fit on here, also a fact "

It's only an actual fact if you type it in caps lock.

So for that reason...I'm staying

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife


"Anyone on here who thinks someone can have too many veris, should leave, it's a swingers site! Which is by definition of the name a site you come on to swing for a long and prosperous time, with some mentalities on here, I'll pick the number 5, once you've met 5 people for sex, then that's you had your quota and you're not allowed any more! No more fun for you, off you trot back to vanilla land!! The only people I agree with is the who you've met, for a whole number of reasons.

Admirable suggestion, but it's not gonna change how I do things

Not a suggestion, it's a fact, you're free to conduct yourself in any way you see fit on here, also a fact

It's only an actual fact if you type it in caps lock.

So for that reason...I'm staying "

If only I knew how to use caps lock

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Nope as has been said many times, only off by who folk have met

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I read veris but as others have said it’s more to get an idea of who people have met rather than the number.

There could be someone who has had +++ veris, but if their chat is good and I like them, I’m not arsed in the slightest.

Similarly there are meets I’ve had and friends o have who don’t show veris. In fact one of my best Fab friends doesn’t show veris. He might have 250 for all I know and I give zero shits, because he’s ace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, yes. Probably more down to frequency than totals, though. If I see someone who has had 10 sex-meet verifications, all from different guys, over the course of a few weeks, though the primitive animalistic temptation can be there, I know they're not for me.

Loving your logic

They'd likely be, and are proven to be, ideal for those seeking an easy cum and go scenario, and to be fair all sorts have a place here.

It's actually a proven fact that those who are unverified tend to be the best at sex, anyway. Don't ask for my sources. It just is, right!"

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like honesty and I like to read well written veris- helps me get to understand someone.

Other people can judge all they like but if it’s not for you just move on

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You


"Not really unless it's a stupid amount

As long as they play safe I don't think it really matters"

I'm a virgin

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Don't give a toss what other people think about who I met and the number of verifications I have. If I'm not for them, that's fine with me.

The fact that some need to discuss it behind my back with other people, despite sometimes never even having met me is a different story - they don't come more creepy and sad than those imo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like honesty and I like to read well written veris- helps me get to understand someone.

Other people can judge all they like but if it’s not for you just move on "

Ah see my verifications are hidden not for any real reason but more than I figure someone will ask to see them if they were truly interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have s lot of veris then i might be in with a shout too ??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like honesty and I like to read well written veris- helps me get to understand someone.

Other people can judge all they like but if it’s not for you just move on

Ah see my verifications are hidden not for any real reason but more than I figure someone will ask to see them if they were truly interested "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have 14 verifications over the 5 months we've been on fab . So to most we look like we been having a rare old time in a short time lol and have been asked if we have had fun with them all lol

2 of those verifications have been sexual (1 couple & 1 female) the rest all social meets. We happen to have made good friends with the female from our meet and we regularly go to cjs or party at mine or hers as both hubby and I get on great with her . So a good friendships happen from our meets.

But veris can give wrong impression sometimes but we are In control of them if we don't want them public we don't have to allow it.

It's a sex site so shouldn't be any prudes on fab. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like honesty and I like to read well written veris- helps me get to understand someone.

Other people can judge all they like but if it’s not for you just move on

Ah see my verifications are hidden not for any real reason but more than I figure someone will ask to see them if they were truly interested

Me too"

I leave the summery there but the nitty gritty descriptions are hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications ?

To be rated how good at sex you are.

Feck Naw...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ended up deleting old profile because some balloon thought it would be funny to make out we had sex j when we didn't just to make a mutual friend jealous

I didn't need to show it and I didn't, but our mutual friend knew so I wanted rid of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications ?

To be rated how good at sex you are.

Feck Naw...

"

^^^^^

Snide Ride Alert!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications ?

To be rated how good at sex you are.

Feck Naw...

^^^^^

Snide Ride Alert!"

I just call it discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems that Fab can be a bit schizophrenic when it comes to veris, some people think you can have too many while others think if you've not got enough you're not genuine

Swings and roundabouts really.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

It’s not as though veris are the be all and end all, is it? You can have zero veris on Fab even though you’ve slept with half of Scotland …

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Erm … talking about a friend there. Obviously.

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