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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

me and my guy is looking at our first mmf 3 sum,

we have had the ffm 3 sum and loved it

but now its just about round the corner

am really nervous, how do i know who to pick...so any tips on how to make a good choice for your first mmf 3 some i will be most greatfull, all the guys i have spoke to seem great eh....but awww i really dont know what to look for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, look for reassuring verifications, dont opt for mr persistant, if you have time go for the social meet thing first, so often random pick backfires for all kinds of reasons.

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably take what they say ... and divide by 50%... some will say anything to get a meet....

tony makes good point re verifications and defo social meet before .......

and if you not comfortable with him then.... don't do it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous is good, we all do get them, if you been playing 6 minutes, 6 weeks, 6 years, nerves always play a part.

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very simple, just choose me lol. Go with your instincts, if they have a few verifications said 'reliable, laid back, etc' go with that, don't choose anyone who has been on for a while but doesn't have any verifications. And have fun, that's the name of the game.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"me and my guy is looking at our first mmf 3 sum,

we have had the ffm 3 sum and loved it

but now its just about round the corner

am really nervous, how do i know who to pick...so any tips on how to make a good choice for your first mmf 3 some i will be most greatfull, all the guys i have spoke to seem great eh....but awww i really dont know what to look for lol"

As much as the thought is a horny idea, and most men like the idea of playing with someone else wife while they watch then join in, the reality might be not what they thought and they might not be able to do it when it comes to the crunch.

For our first MFM we chose someone who had already had an MFM and knew he didn't have any trouble performing in front of the husband.

As others have said, use your gut instinct like you would do for any meet and make sure you are comfortable with the man.

I think the nerves mixed with excitement and anticipation are a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id go on by his verifactions an

on by the chat between u both an if

all is comfy oh an his face pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lolly, check the verifications like the others say, always get a face pic and if possible go for a drink first before the event just incase the pic is not accurate - then you can walk away with no pressure.

rasp x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we havent had a threesome with someone that wehave spent a few hours getting to know beforehand.

we were going to just go for it a while back but the person on here turned out to be a knobend really.

defo meet them for a while, or as everyones said above, get to a social. we are heading to the xmas one which should be fab xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, look for reassuring verifications, dont opt for mr persistant, if you have time go for the social meet thing first, so often random pick backfires for all kinds of reasons.

T x"

As i said a social meet, as in meet in a nice neutral social location,with the particular person you both feel may suit your sexy plans.

T xx

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By *alakMan
over a year ago

Milan

I am always nervous when I meet new people. I especially fear the moment when someone would say "well, we aren't here for some small talk, right?". To avoid that I ensure I play only with ppl I feel confortable with & am attracted to... better after a social meet.

I think being nervous just shows we are regular human beings...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah i am nervous ...but excited too....thanx for your help am feeling better knowing am not the only one to feel this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want added anticipation and nerves, do the blindfold scenario,lol,, sorry,sorry i've crossed a line sorry,lol,(was wicked when i met lady who did it though),lol

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah i am nervous ...but excited too....thanx for your help am feeling better knowing am not the only one to feel this way "

no ur defo not the only one nervous hunni but it all adds to the excitement, enjoy xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any meet is always a nerve wracking experience but at the same time the most exciting thing ever !!

ive still to have my first mmf experience which im really hoping happens and when it does think best idea would be to have couple of drinks or to be at a social first just to take some of the initial nerves away !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i just clear up this term " a social" for folk contemplating meeting either a guy, couple, fem, not ruddy 280 people singin n dancing social with half o scotland swingers!! Just a quiet wee social meet in a cafe or pub type setting, lol

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

either or tho toni m8 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"either or tho toni m8 lol "

Ohh aye, that'll settle the nerves, "lets have a social meet first, me and 280 other swingers,nerves will be gone in no time" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"either or tho toni m8 lol

Ohh aye, that'll settle the nerves, "lets have a social meet first, me and 280 other swingers,nerves will be gone in no time" lol"

lol toni you must get bit of dutch courage yourself !! or beer goggles come to think of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"either or tho toni m8 lol

Ohh aye, that'll settle the nerves, "lets have a social meet first, me and 280 other swingers,nerves will be gone in no time" lol

lol toni you must get bit of dutch courage yourself !! or beer goggles come to think of it "

I personally would rather go into a meet sober - cos if i cant do it sober or i need a few drinks then it aint for me .... Well just my views on this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can i just clear up this term " a social" for folk contemplating meeting either a guy, couple, fem, not ruddy 280 people singin n dancing social with half o scotland swingers!! Just a quiet wee social meet in a cafe or pub type setting, lol

T"

Appreciate what you say, as said, i meant the couple who asked in this thread, i just meant, if get time, meet socialy to check out who they want to meet prior fun plans, i was trying to not confuse the social meet with the scotland sections massive socials,,,is what i mean, xx

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