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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you see that someone has looked at your profile but have no sent a message or a wink.

You think they are rather nice and would like to know more but surely, if they were interested they would have let you know.

Do you ignore them or send a wink or message?

Do you look at a profile hoping they will notice and show some interest back.

How many opportunities are missed because of not clicking or sending a simple message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to throw caution to the wind. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Sometimes feel people can be unsure due to one minor thing in a profile, so err on the side of caution. I try to keep an open mind, have had some great times with people that initially may not have seemed "our type"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want to message someone I will or wink or fab, regardless if they have looked at me. If they look at me and they don’t send a message and I still fancy them I will send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair when I am in chat rooms I click on a profile so I can open get back to my fab home page, but if I like them I will throw a wink to them. The only thing is a lot of people don’t look at winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a cheeky wink

Nothing to lose, everything to gain

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Aye, i wink.

If someone looks ,I message back and in the very least thank them for looking. If they'd like to chat in happy to and go from there.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I wink, or message. Doesn't always have to be a male's initiative to make the first move x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go I don't meet there requirements and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just say oh well and move on lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

If I like the look of someone Il wink or sometimes il drop them an email

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't make the first move so lots of missed opportunities, ce la vie!

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

Never look at profiles and get caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you see that someone has looked at your profile but have no sent a message or a wink.

You think they are rather nice and would like to know more but surely, if they were interested they would have let you know.

Do you ignore them or send a wink or message?

Do you look at a profile hoping they will notice and show some interest back.

How many opportunities are missed because of not clicking or sending a simple message?"

People can look at you're profile for many reasons, i tend to ignore it.

I dont look at profiles hoping to be noticed, i would send a message if i had an interest.

Possibly alot of missed opportunities but if people are genuinely interested in interaction with others im sure they would incite that.

I don't bite....Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you see that someone has looked at your profile but have no sent a message or a wink.

You think they are rather nice and would like to know more but surely, if they were interested they would have let you know.

Do you ignore them or send a wink or message?

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I'll send a wink but rarely if ever send the first message. Largely because I feel that if a Lady were truly interested she'd let me know & adding to whats probably an already overflowing mailbox is unlikely to help.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I look at loads of profiles as im a nosey soul but this does not mean i want to meet with that person.

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife

I never send a wink, as a single guy it's pointless, I'll fab a pic purely to show I like you, I've had a few good night's from a simple fab, mostly though I send a msg, for me winks are for single girls and couples to generate an interest in me, personally I'd rather have a wink, than I spend hours messaging people who potentially have no interest in me!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Folk can look for a multitude of reasons some didn't intentionally slip of the finger some will be following a veri trail or just being nosey.

If you like the look of them msg them then you will know

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

I say hi to everyone like and if they say hi great if not move on x

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I do like to write personal messages if messaging for first time,but most women's profiles are just ranty, so I've got nothing unique to say.

I don't want to be the same as 100+ other guys just saying "hi how are you"

. So if a woman likes the look of my page, then throw a dawg a bone will ya!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I personally would prefer a message to a wink as I don’t always look at them but regardless if I like the look of someone I will message x

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By *ot so vanilla 7Woman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I don’t look at my winks anymore I’m afraid as 90% of senders hadn’t read my profile! x

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