FabSwingers.com forum: Long or short messages?

By *oconut10 OP Man
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Do women prefer long or short messages from a guy? Recently, my messages have been like a novel but they’re all personalised and not copy and paste. I take the time to read people’s profiles carefully before responding. Sadly, it has got me nowhere, most of the time they just go unread or if read, I never get a response back.

Just curious.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Short and straight to the point without any filthy talk.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"Short and straight to the point without any filthy talk."
100% this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't matter as looking at your profile pics would make me not interested.

Sorry.

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By *oconut10 OP Man
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

"Wouldn't matter as looking at your profile pics would make me not interested.

Sorry."

Fair point....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not verified, 2 boxer pics,

Cant accommodate...

I appreciate an honest message, from someone who's read the profile x

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By *macunninglinguistMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I tend to go for the personalised humourous option. If someone has no sense of humour, or doesn't get mine, then they ain't for me. I can't speak for women, but it's been reasonably successful for me, by comparison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Short and straight to the point without any filthy talk."

This, if it requires me longer than a minute to read I just switch off

Equally, the "fancy a fuck" messages don't register either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't matter as looking at your profile pics would make me not interested.

Sorry.

Fair point...."

The leg pic is messy, not encouraging. Crop out the background as you have nice legs.

Judging by today's update though I'd say take a break, fab isnt great for self confidence and good mental health if you are feeling a bit low xxxx

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By *oconut10 OP Man
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

"Not verified, 2 boxer pics,

Cant accommodate...

I appreciate an honest message, from someone who's read the profile x "

You have a point, I’ve deleted my profile pic for the time being. I don’t want to show my face on the profile pic, only private.

I know not being able to accommodate is a huge biggie. Sadly, I can’t change this any time soon at least, anyway...

Not met anyone yet to get any verifications. And, I don’t do cams. I think I will try and pluck up the courage to attend a social meet...

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Just send something honest and humorous, you most likely won’t get a meet but at least get to chat abit.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I prefer something witty. that makes me want to find out more ...

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By *oconut10 OP Man
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Thanks for the replies and feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't matter as looking at your profile pics would make me not interested.

Sorry."

An answer to his original question would have sufficed

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By *ast RolloMan
over a year ago

glasgow west

long or short messages really does not matter as alot dont read them anyway.

if you think of the amount of mail the females and couples on here get you can see why as others have said get straight to the point in a nice way the "wanna fuck now " is not a nice way but some do it any way

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