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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on site for over 2 years now and I still feel like I'm new to this, would love to chat with and hopefully meet up with some new people

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Get yourself along to one of the big organised social events to meet new people.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

As above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See i don’t get this ‘get yourself along to a social/organised event’ why should a guy be expected to got to an event to meet people to get known? what’s the matter with a female or couple agreeing to meet socially away from these events? A couple or a female want to meet new people ‘no problem where and when’ À guy ‘go to an event’

now i’m not saying couples or females have never been given the same “advice” but more often than not it a guy being given it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"See i don’t get this ‘get yourself along to a social/organised event’ why should a guy be expected to got to an event to meet people to get known? what’s the matter with a female or couple agreeing to meet socially away from these events? A couple or a female want to meet new people ‘no problem where and when’ À guy ‘go to an event’

now i’m not saying couples or females have never been given the same “advice” but more often than not it a guy being given it. "

By going to one of these events he can meet around 50 people in one evening. He will also get to chat to folk face to face. This is obviously easier than sending hundreds of messages that get unanswered over many months. It will also let him recieve a few veris which in the long run will make his chances of meeting one to one easier.

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"See i don’t get this ‘get yourself along to a social/organised event’ why should a guy be expected to got to an event to meet people to get known? what’s the matter with a female or couple agreeing to meet socially away from these events? A couple or a female want to meet new people ‘no problem where and when’ À guy ‘go to an event’

now i’m not saying couples or females have never been given the same “advice” but more often than not it a guy being given it. "

Well its obviously not happening for him cos of one reason or another.. So suggestions why are normal from people on the scene?? Too pushy, too shy... Who knows

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By *aughter guyMan
over a year ago

renfrew


"See i don’t get this ‘get yourself along to a social/organised event’ why should a guy be expected to got to an event to meet people to get known? what’s the matter with a female or couple agreeing to meet socially away from these events? A couple or a female want to meet new people ‘no problem where and when’ À guy ‘go to an event’

now i’m not saying couples or females have never been given the same “advice” but more often than not it a guy being given it. "

I think it would help , I've not met 1 person on here yet as I don't think my photos or text chat is my best features. I'm the funny guy that's got the crowd's attention and more often than not get to talking to a girl . But here it's murder. I'll go with you m8 ,maybe see for myself . ??

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By *lbie6Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I have the same problem trying to meet

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I have the same problem trying to meet "

You have bn given loads of advice by people trying to help but you do nothing to help yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I agree clubs are a good way to meet large amounts of people in one go but but maybe they intimidate some people and would rather go knowing people instead of being seen as just another single guy.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

You get out of this what you put in to it. I’ve organised Fab Murder Mystery nights which were small socials (about 14 people) which ended up more Miss Fisher than Miss Marple

I also do a Fab social every week at a local pub quiz and have met some lovely people that way too. I’ve helped organise a Valentine’s social for singles and about 40 people came along.

The same advice is given regularly to people who can’t get meets and it’s met with the same responses. Why ask if you aren’t going to take the plunge? People go to a lot of effort to arrange large socials to help people mix and socialise and give verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all meeting for a fab friend's birthday social on Saturday in the borders

More the merrier

Nice way to meet new fab friend's

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"See i don’t get this ‘get yourself along to a social/organised event’ why should a guy be expected to got to an event to meet people to get known? what’s the matter with a female or couple agreeing to meet socially away from these events? A couple or a female want to meet new people ‘no problem where and when’ À guy ‘go to an event’

now i’m not saying couples or females have never been given the same “advice” but more often than not it a guy being given it. "

IMO it's because single men are less likely to go to socials/events as it requires effort. Many unfortunately expect to join here, click their fingers and get a meet. It doesn't work like that. If they're serious about the lifestyle rather than looking for instashag then it requires more effort, and this separates the two.

FWIW, I'd suggest getting along to events and socials to everyone on here, not just single guys. More people in one place = bigger chance of getting verified, and meeting people to have fun with. Seems simple to me.

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