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By *old OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Us in general or some people in particular?. Its a bit ignorant of you if no expaination is given for that statement.

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By *old OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Just some people in particular

You be civil say hi etc blocked lol

This site is seriously going downhill

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

'Hi' is a bit boring. Can u not think of something more exciting to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it as they ain't interested and move on.

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By *old OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Hi etc lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Hi etc lol

"

Better but not very _old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't reply after reading, I wait a couple of days, because women get a ridiculous amount of messages.

If no reply after 2-3 days, I delete and assume they're not interested.

No biggie.

Life's too short OP

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Hi" is bland because if i say "hi" back i can 99% guarantee the next message will say "how are you". Easier just to ignore.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I would never reply to a “hi” sorry

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By *old OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Lol point taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply "ho" to a "hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site clearly states a non response is a polite no thanks. Blocking is often done to save repeat messaging, saves both parties time. Maybe familiarise yourself with site etiquette OP. Good luck and happy fabbing

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I always reply "ho" to a "hi" "

Who are you calling a ho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply "ho" to a "hi"

Who are you calling a ho? "

well...if the stiletto fits

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By *old OP   Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"I always reply "ho" to a "hi"

Who are you calling a ho? well...if the stiletto fits "

Just call me Cinders

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol "

Maybe other men manage to send polite well thought out messages and are having the time of their lives on here ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply "ho" to a "hi"

Who are you calling a ho? well...if the stiletto fits

Just call me Cinders "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women message me and just say 'Hey'.....which makes me automatically think engaging in a conversation with them would be like watching paint dry. So i just delete it. Which i'm sure is the same they're doing when you just say 'Hi'......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just some people in particular

You be civil say hi etc blocked lol

This site is seriously going downhill

"

No one is keeping you here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol "

It's got fuck all to do with being polite. Not replying is not being impolite. Replying and saying "that's a shite first message would be impolite".

There was a thread on here the other day about the volume of messages some women get. In The Lounge, some claim to get hundreds a day but I reckon for the rest of us it could be 15-30 odds on a "good" day? Maybe?

Would you honestly take time out of your day to reply to 30 messages that simply said "hi"?

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol "

It’s not just being polite though as sometimes they try to talk you into chatting with them or if I say I’m chatting to enough they laugh and say I wasn’t wanting to chat which just irritates me when I’m being polite.

Oh and if the men did all leave the site women would just get on with it and still have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol "

There are a few space cadets ..just say Nanoo Nanoo ..That means ya want yer Nat King Cole in planetese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol

It’s not just being polite though as sometimes they try to talk you into chatting with them or if I say I’m chatting to enough they laugh and say I wasn’t wanting to chat which just irritates me when I’m being polite.

Oh and if the men did all leave the site women would just get on with it and still have fun "

I'd be devastated if the men all left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol

It’s not just being polite though as sometimes they try to talk you into chatting with them or if I say I’m chatting to enough they laugh and say I wasn’t wanting to chat which just irritates me when I’m being polite.

Oh and if the men did all leave the site women would just get on with it and still have fun

I'd be devastated if the men all left "

Even the nuggets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol "

Just reading this again....you said takes "third" time to message? Was that a typo or do you honestly mean after being dinghyed twice you go for the hat trick?

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Mate you should try

"Hey doll that's some rack fancy a fook with me I'm the best fook in town and can go all night" attach a picture of your erect penis (not your face theh hate that) and you will never look back.

Tellin you mate ....works everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site clearly states a non response is a polite no thanks. Blocking is often done to save repeat messaging, saves both parties time. Maybe familiarise yourself with site etiquette OP. Good luck and happy fabbing "

Repeats the above to the OP....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way "

Did she knock you back then? ...should have gave me a shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way "

Thought you wouldn't tell anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

Did she knock you back then? ...should have gave me a shout "

you said you were too busy washing your hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

Thought you wouldn't tell anyone "

was too good to keep to myself

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way "

5 billion women in the world to chose from and that unselfish guy decided to give up his whole dinner break simply to give you the time of your life.

I hope you made him a sandwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol

It’s not just being polite though as sometimes they try to talk you into chatting with them or if I say I’m chatting to enough they laugh and say I wasn’t wanting to chat which just irritates me when I’m being polite.

Oh and if the men did all leave the site women would just get on with it and still have fun

I'd be devastated if the men all left

Even the nuggets?"

Especially them

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Oh yay, another guy bemoaning the fact that his no effort message gets ignored.

Same as every other day on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

Thought you wouldn't tell anyone was too good to keep to myself "

A had a wank at lunchbreak anyway so it's squared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

Thought you wouldn't tell anyone was too good to keep to myself

A had a wank at lunchbreak anyway so it's squared "

Does it often do that after a chug?....Should get that seen to lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

Thought you wouldn't tell anyone was too good to keep to myself

A had a wank at lunchbreak anyway so it's squared "

same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

Thought you wouldn't tell anyone was too good to keep to myself

A had a wank at lunchbreak anyway so it's squared

Does it often do that after a chug?....Should get that seen to lad "

Shutit Doggie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, is "hi" the full content of the message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, is "hi" the full content of the message?"

I think he pushes it out to

"Hi there"

if he's really on the charm offensive.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Hopefully this will open his and other males eyes a bit to why we ignore. Maybe we come across harsh but cerrainly not ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same guy message me three times over the course of a week. All three messages said one word and a pic of his cock.

Hi!

Sorry but I deleted all three and I blocked him x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I had 5 messages from a guy with a gun pointing at the lense. Reported so now he has gone

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By *outhside42Man
over a year ago

shawlands

Do you think it is just life in general now. I often smile at people, or say hi. Or hold a door for somebody and most look at me like I have taken a shit on there carpet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm out walking the dogs I always say hello to folk walking past me..some saying back some dont..hey ho says more about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sad reality is that a lot of these idiots wouldn't know what to do if a woman did say yes or take them up on one of their crap offers .

The amount of times I've read about women putting up meets etc and being inundated with can you do a different day /time etc or the person being absolutely not what they are looking for.

A lot of us don't bother reading or replying as it's far better to look for ourselves. Diamonds are rarely likely to just land on your lap...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Do you think it is just life in general now. I often smile at people, or say hi. Or hold a door for somebody and most look at me like I have taken a shit on there carpet lol"

No, not at all. I am always chatty and thankful when meeting face to face but on here there are other distractions like the forums for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had 5 messages from a guy with a gun pointing at the lense. Reported so now he has gone"

How the hell was that photo approved!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I do strive to send polite and respectful descent messages, I had manners beaten into you see. However when I do send them, probably 90 percent of the time they are ethier blocked or deleted if I'm extremely a lucky I may achieve a response. Sometimes I receive abuse maybe they are bored. This is in an interesting one.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I had 5 messages from a guy with a gun pointing at the lense. Reported so now he has gone

How the hell was that photo approved!?"

God knows. It really freaked me out

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

Over the last ten years i have sent pretty much every iteration of a message to females and couples. One word, funny, long messages, complimentary, straight to the point ......you get the idea.

When it comes down to it IF the recipient wants to reply or even feels like it they will if they don't they don't. There is no magic formula for getting a reply from anyone. Females and couples are picky, fickle and have the weight of choice on their side. Does that stop me messaging? Nope; but I won't stress about it.

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

Well I may have a wee rant now and then but once it's out my system 10 seconds later I'm fine

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"Over the last ten years i have sent pretty much every iteration of a message to females and couples. One word, funny, long messages, complimentary, straight to the point ......you get the idea.

When it comes down to it IF the recipient wants to reply or even feels like it they will if they don't they don't. There is no magic formula for getting a reply from anyone. Females and couples are picky, fickle and have the weight of choice on their side. Does that stop me messaging? Nope; but I won't stress about it."

This is very accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the last ten years i have sent pretty much every iteration of a message to females and couples. One word, funny, long messages, complimentary, straight to the point ......you get the idea.

When it comes down to it IF the recipient wants to reply or even feels like it they will if they don't they don't. There is no magic formula for getting a reply from anyone. Females and couples are picky, fickle and have the weight of choice on their side. Does that stop me messaging? Nope; but I won't stress about it.

This is very accurate. "

This IS very accurate but the approach and outlook even more so - well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting fed up with guys posting the same kind of stuff.

I don't know how women put up with us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the last ten years i have sent pretty much every iteration of a message to females and couples. One word, funny, long messages, complimentary, straight to the point ......you get the idea.

When it comes down to it IF the recipient wants to reply or even feels like it they will if they don't they don't. There is no magic formula for getting a reply from anyone. Females and couples are picky, fickle and have the weight of choice on their side. Does that stop me messaging? Nope; but I won't stress about it."

Well said ya fanny

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

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By *estless nativeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I had 5 messages from a guy with a gun pointing at the lense. Reported so now he has gone

How the hell was that photo approved!?"

Probably wasnt approved, most likely added direct to the message

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife


"Over the last ten years i have sent pretty much every iteration of a message to females and couples. One word, funny, long messages, complimentary, straight to the point ......you get the idea.

When it comes down to it IF the recipient wants to reply or even feels like it they will if they don't they don't. There is no magic formula for getting a reply from anyone. Females and couples are picky, fickle and have the weight of choice on their side. Does that stop me messaging? Nope; but I won't stress about it."

Exactly!! And also why I don't msg anyone nowadays, it has the same end result as when I did, yes no replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many guys on this thread have now messaged some of the women on this thread with a thoughtful polite message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had 5 messages from a guy with a gun pointing at the lense. Reported so now he has gone

How the hell was that photo approved!?

Probably wasnt approved, most likely added direct to the message"

D'oh...blonde moment

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Great, another thread how rude, fickle and ignorant we are.

I used to reply to everyone (who went beyond "hi" in their original message and didn't attack 37 different angles of their cock), even if it's to give them a polite no thanks. But the retaliation, insults and "why?" made me stop and i am now trigger happy with the block button x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Great, another thread how rude, fickle and ignorant we are.

I used to reply to everyone (who went beyond "hi" in their original message and didn't attack 37 different angles of their cock), even if it's to give them a polite no thanks. But the retaliation, insults and "why?" made me stop and i am now trigger happy with the block button x"

*attach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

5 billion women in the world to chose from and that unselfish guy decided to give up his whole dinner break simply to give you the time of your life.

I hope you made him a sandwich "

If he was any good of a shag she wouldnt be able to move to make a sandwich

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough


"Suppose it's better than

Hey hen iv got a hrs lunch break fancy picking me up for a shag?

True message by the way

5 billion women in the world to chose from and that unselfish guy decided to give up his whole dinner break simply to give you the time of your life.

I hope you made him a sandwich

If he was any good of a shag she wouldnt be able to move to make a sandwich "

Bagels are quick,easy and tasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had 5 messages from a guy with a gun pointing at the lense. Reported so now he has gone

How the hell was that photo approved!?

Probably wasnt approved, most likely added direct to the message

D'oh...blonde moment "

I thought it would me senility at your age.

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough


"Over the last ten years i have sent pretty much every iteration of a message to females and couples. One word, funny, long messages, complimentary, straight to the point ......you get the idea.

When it comes down to it IF the recipient wants to reply or even feels like it they will if they don't they don't. There is no magic formula for getting a reply from anyone. Females and couples are picky, fickle and have the weight of choice on their side. Does that stop me messaging? Nope; but I won't stress about it.

Well said ya fanny "

Well that's just rude and hurtful!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just some people in particular

You be civil say hi etc blocked lol

This site is seriously going downhill

"

No one is keeping you here. Leave. There are other sites you can try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So ..

The OP voices his opinion which he is entitled to make.

Then suddenly..

Everyone jumps on the bandwagon to have a rant at Men..

Men dont do this.

Men dont do this.

He sent me that.

He sent me this.

Even some think it would be best if Men just fecked off this altogether.

And ALL the Ladies and Couples are ALL lovely ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about them all... I am

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"'Hi' is a bit boring. Can u not think of something more exciting to say?"

“Boo”?

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

Think I apply the same rule as I would if meeting someone in a club; the number of times, some guys approach Ian about me (clearly wanting to play) he tells them “go talk to her!”

They then just hover or sit near but don’t say anything

Even a basic “I like your outfit/have you been to cjs before/what’s your name” SOMETHING, then I consider chatting.

If you can’t even strike up a basic conversation, why would I even want to consider playing? Just my preference as I know some ppl prefer the anonymity and play.

Millie

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol "

Most try and be polite but some females get 100s of msgs aday and believe it or not they have lifes outside of fab to sit and reply 2 every single msg would take up 80% of the day maybe try and look at things objectively not just from your own point of veiw

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther


"So ..

The OP voices his opinion which he is entitled to make.

Then suddenly..

Everyone jumps on the bandwagon to have a rant at Men..

Men dont do this.

Men dont do this.

He sent me that.

He sent me this.

Even some think it would be best if Men just fecked off this altogether.

And ALL the Ladies and Couples are ALL lovely ..

"

There is many men females and cpls that are not nice on the site and many who are I think ppl just get fed up seeing posts that are all poor me no one replys me to

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"So ..

The OP voices his opinion which he is entitled to make.

Then suddenly..

Everyone jumps on the bandwagon to have a rant at Men..

Men dont do this.

Men dont do this.

He sent me that.

He sent me this.

Even some think it would be best if Men just fecked off this altogether.

And ALL the Ladies and Couples are ALL lovely ..

"

If he hadn't named the post "ignorant people" he might have gotten some different responses. Can honestly understand the frustration, I know it can be a bit soul destroying to never get a response, or get a rude one back (I know there's plenty of those as well). But don't tar everyone with the same brush and maybe look at it from our perspective as well. It is not rude on here to not reply back, I started off thinking it's the decent thing to do anyway to reply, besides the "fab etiquette", but it backfires 9 out of 10 times, so I stopped.

OP the best way to change this is be original with your messages, read the profile and refer to that in your message so people know you actually went beyond the pictures and took an interest. Get yourself out there, usually there are social events on, go to a club, or some parties happily take in unverified members x

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther


"So ..

The OP voices his opinion which he is entitled to make.

Then suddenly..

Everyone jumps on the bandwagon to have a rant at Men..

Men dont do this.

Men dont do this.

He sent me that.

He sent me this.

Even some think it would be best if Men just fecked off this altogether.

And ALL the Ladies and Couples are ALL lovely ..

If he hadn't named the post "ignorant people" he might have gotten some different responses. Can honestly understand the frustration, I know it can be a bit soul destroying to never get a response, or get a rude one back (I know there's plenty of those as well). But don't tar everyone with the same brush and maybe look at it from our perspective as well. It is not rude on here to not reply back, I started off thinking it's the decent thing to do anyway to reply, besides the "fab etiquette", but it backfires 9 out of 10 times, so I stopped.

OP the best way to change this is be original with your messages, read the profile and refer to that in your message so people know you actually went beyond the pictures and took an interest. Get yourself out there, usually there are social events on, go to a club, or some parties happily take in unverified members x"

Clubs and socials imo are far better than msgs for meeting folk u will meet again plus u have a good night out too lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes always better and more relaxed chatting face to face. You have to put in more effort OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ..

The OP voices his opinion which he is entitled to make.

Then suddenly..

Everyone jumps on the bandwagon to have a rant at Men..

Men dont do this.

Men dont do this.

He sent me that.

He sent me this.

Even some think it would be best if Men just fecked off this altogether.

And ALL the Ladies and Couples are ALL lovely ..

"

I'm a bit of a bitch and openly admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure why this bothers people it just randoms from the internet no your best pal from school you have messaged ffs

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire


"Maybe that’s why woman are from another planet

I was brought up to be polite

And my views is if someone takes third time to message a polite reply no is suffice

Maybe all the men should leave the site let all your ladies get on wit it lol

Just my thought lol "

I think your thoughts must sound better in your head than out -

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife

In my opinion, anyone on here that wants to have a rant about loads of people not replying to their msgs, is either very nieve (only applies if you've been on less than a month) a total control freak if you're getting upset at people not doing what you want, or you're basically no right in the heed and a bit of a danger to others, just saying!

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

People have block right any one want to fab not been ignorant it there choice think of single female or couple just time get up 400 cock pic day must get sick tried of it

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Unfortunately that’s the way fab is.

I try to answer all messages but sometimes I can’t be bothered regardless of the content.

But you being 91/93 should be able to improvise, adapt and overcome.

NO/SP

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