FabSwingers.com forum: kissing at meets

By *toozy77 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow outskirts

just asking as i had a meet prviously where the woman demanded on not kissing , does anyone else feel like this , i feel its and inmportant part of sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is deffo part of it for us it wouldn't be the same without it xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

As ive said on previous posts i just dont get the no kissing rule some insist on ..they will commit the most intimate sexual acts possible but draw the line at kissing because its something that should only be done between couples hmmmmmm

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I love snogging, has my willy oozing before its even touched

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I love snogging, has my willy oozing before its even touched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love kissing but suppose each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ye cant no kiss at meets its just so wring its all part of the heatin up an foreplay ffs lol

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've only experienced the no kissing rule once, makes the whole experience a bit more...dunno...mechanical. it was one of my first 3somes so since then I've often asked if kissing is ok when I'm meeting couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree if they are good at kissing i get solid with it

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Ahh the kissing thread rears its head again think the vast majority of people need some sort of tongue wrestling ..dont think I could meet without it tbh but hey ho each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm I do like a good necking session to get the juices flowing and would be disappointed if I didn't get it

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

have to say that i love to kiss and it makes it more erotic aswell depending how hot it gets you and then it just makes you want to go rawrs at them

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By *rStarbuckMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

i'd be quite disappointed without any kissing! it adds to the build up, if you're out and about meeting first, getting a few kisses in to suggest what's to come.... all part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldnt do without the kissing, would just feel weird, but as said, each to there own.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope! I could never meet where kissing was off limits! Just too much of a turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, such a turn-on and very important part of fore-play.

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

well someone has to be the first i suppose - we dont do kissing. there are a couple of things we dont do in a meet and keep just for us as a couple and this is one of them. but its on our profile so anyone who feels strongly about it just wont message us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss-Smooch-Snog--Love it!!!-Wouldn't do a meet with a ban on kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I though just always thought no kissing was a no go when you met a couple, but ok on a singles meet.....but not sure now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't meet someone with a no kissing rule, it's too important a part of the whole experience for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well seeing as i'm such a tactile girl, necking n snogging has to be on the menu - all part of the tease in flirt in the build up......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a form of detachment from the whole thing...kissing makes the actual sex personal as opposed to functional... just a thought. Wouldn't be my idea of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a common thing with hoovers, apparently, and is about the dissociation of sex for business and sexy for pleasure. I can understand why some choose it as a rule but there are few scenarios where it would work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing gets me harder than any other part of sex! Cant and won't not have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope couldnt have sex with someone and not kiss them?its the whole build up.nothing better than a slow sensual kiss that gets harder and harder as the play goes on! Woops getn carried away there lol

but...nothing worse than a wet slobbery kiss either really off putting!

yuk! Lol. Auds.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nope couldnt have sex with someone and not kiss them?its the whole build up.nothing better than a slow sensual kiss that gets harder and harder as the play goes on! Woops getn carried away there lol

but...nothing worse than a wet slobbery kiss either really off putting!

yuk! Lol. Auds.x"

Geeza kiss Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm lol...im saying nothing lol!!! yep i love kissing... the more the better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kissing on the lips...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good snog !

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Always!

If a someone said NO kissing...I wouldn't carry on....

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a couple many years ago where kissing was not allowed except from each other, they didn't get very many meets as a result.

Me, I personally love kissing, it's the one thing that I would not give up for no one.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"nope couldnt have sex with someone and not kiss them?its the whole build up.nothing better than a slow sensual kiss that gets harder and harder as the play goes on! Woops getn carried away there lol

but...nothing worse than a wet slobbery kiss either really off putting!

yuk! Lol. Auds.x"

Have to agree Auds nothing worse than a sloppy wet kiss espacially with sloppy wet tongues yuckkkkkkkkkkkkk

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By *eenonfun2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well Jacs, we have yet to kiss......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could probs cum in my trousers if the kissing is good :p

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I could probs cum in my trousers if the kissing is good :p

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Well Jacs, we have yet to kiss......

we have pecked but not snogged D have snogged H tho lol

and very nice it was too lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo lots of pre cum still looking for the one to make me shoot lolol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing is right up there with a blind man walking past the fishmongers and tipping his hat and saying "Morning Ladies"

I love kissing,it's very sexy and sensual too..good oral hygiene is a must though for both to enjoy the experience of kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing is right up there with a blind man walking past the fishmongers and tipping his hat and saying "Morning Ladies"

Pmsl

Couldn't have fun with people that were against kissing but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love kissing, looking at the forum its only TnT that dont do kissing... i find that very strange but hey if they think kissing is more intimate than shagging then cool, i just dont see it myself. Surely shagging my wife is more intimate than kissing her????

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

"We love kissing, looking at the forum its only TnT that dont do kissing... i find that very strange but hey if they think kissing is more intimate than shagging then cool, i just dont see it myself. Surely shagging my wife is more intimate than kissing her????"

we didnt say it was more intimate, we said there are some things we like to keep for just us as a couple and this is one of them

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

"I knew a couple many years ago where kissing was not allowed except from each other, they didn't get very many meets as a result.

Me, I personally love kissing, it's the one thing that I would not give up for no one. "

we havent found getting meets a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why do you do shagging but no kissing? very very strange to us .... surely sex is more intimate? kissing is intimate also , but just adds to the sexual swinging. Just couldnt do the sex but no kissing, sorry TNT just couldnt

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By *nTCouple
over a year ago

funland

"But why do you do shagging but no kissing? very very strange to us .... surely sex is more intimate? kissing is intimate also , but just adds to the sexual swinging. Just couldnt do the sex but no kissing, sorry TNT just couldnt "
viously

and neither should you. I couldnt meet a couple, or have bi sex and so i dont. some folk dont like anal or rimming so they dont (i do). We just like some things to be kept for us, so we do. Again i have never said kissing is more intimate than sex as it obviously isnt but is one of a couple of things we choose not to share and never understand why its ok to say no to things like anal but not to kissing - but hey we are all unique in our thoughts and deeds; guys who are interested in a meet can read our profile where it says what we wont share and they can then choose not to contact us.

We have never found it to be an issue and dont have a problem sharing it in the forum either. To each their own as i always say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these posts about kissing and no mention of snowballing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally respect TnT's choice not to kiss, that's their personal thing, only happened to me once when myself and a female friend met a married couple who both said 'no kissing' my friend told me afterwards that the guy was snogging the face off her in the kitchen!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I totally respect TnT's choice not to kiss, that's their personal thing, only happened to me once when myself and a female friend met a married couple who both said 'no kissing' my friend told me afterwards that the guy was snogging the face off her in the kitchen!!!"

lmao hope the mrs aint reading this now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever had one meet where there was no kissing as much as it was still a decent meet you can't get engaged in it as you normally would. It's just I like as part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a 1 to 1 meet I need kissing however if meeting a couple I am not fussed if it's there rules

I understand why people won't kiss on meets it's a very intimate thing....sex just just be sex without emotions if you choose it to be that way. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a 1 to 1 meet I need kissing however if meeting a couple I am not fussed if it's there rules

I understand why people won't kiss on meets it's a very intimate thing....sex just just be sex without emotions if you choose it to be that way. xx"

Can just**..........typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we better have kissing when we met again hunni

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we better have kissing when we met again hunni

xxx"

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right back at you hunni mwahhhhh xxxxxxxx

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By *abyblueeyes44Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

kissing good it sumtimes gets me in the mood ...i understand with couples if they dnt wana kiss at a meet ...everybdy has there own opinions and i thnk most pple have gt rules when they meet

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

if person doesnt wish to kiss during a meet then tha is their choice and right .however i will execise my choice and right not to meet them lol !

to me kissing s part and parcle of the whole build up and exsperience .im here to enjoy myself so why denie my self one of life true pleasure of kissing . mmmmmwwwahhhh!!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"if person doesnt wish to kiss during a meet then tha is their choice and right .however i will execise my choice and right not to meet them lol !

to me kissing s part and parcle of the whole build up and exsperience .im here to enjoy myself so why denie my self one of life true pleasure of kissing . mmmmmwwwahhhh!!!! xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing... lots of it!!! helps me get into the mood

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By *unseekingcplCouple
over a year ago

Hamilton

kissing is a major part in meets! i think it would be weird if there was no kissing involved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"kissing is a major part in meets! i think it would be weird if there was no kissing involved!"

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By *ocialchameleonMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"kissing is a major part in meets! i think it would be weird if there was no kissing involved!

I wouldn't want a meet without kissing.

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

I kiss girlies but I would not kiss another man.... kissing is too intimate for me.... but I don't mind dd kissing other girlies suppose I'm just strange...

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

and just to say why its more intimate... someone is in your face looking into your eyes kissing you and connecting with you.... that's why its different from sex to me...... with sex its just that sex.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet anyone I didn't think was worthy of a snog. That rule is usually for call girls lol. Not saying anyone who don't kiss is a call girl btw before I get lynched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no desire to kiss another guy, but love kissing other girls. For me kissing and slow sex is kept for my partner. When we meet guys for mmf I want shared hard and fast, the hot slow intimate stuff follows after our guest has left.

Kissing girls is a completely different issue x

If I was single I would want a mixture of hard sex and slow intimate, so the kissing wouldn't be an issue. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love the kissing feeling part b4 the fun begins

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

love kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love kissing tracey too...

oops didnt mean that the way it sounds

nothing better than slow sensual kisses to get you in the mood

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have absolutely no desire to kiss another guy, but love kissing other girls. For me kissing and slow sex is kept for my partner. When we meet guys for mmf I want shared hard and fast, the hot slow intimate stuff follows after our guest has left.

Kissing girls is a completely different issue x

If I was single I would want a mixture of hard sex and slow intimate, so the kissing wouldn't be an issue. X"
curious to know why you wont kiss a guy but will a girl?

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

"i love kissing tracey too...

oops didnt mean that the way it sounds

nothing better than slow sensual kisses to get you in the mood

auds xx"

mmmmm fancy a snog mrs

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooo,,,ok then,,,since you asked sooo nicely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no shagging... simple

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By *hagginhaggisCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

"No kissing, no shagging... simple "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing, no shagging... simple

+1 "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a couple a few times who had a no kissing rule. I have to admit I found it bizarre at first.

You can tell a lot about someone from the way they kiss so it can give some good pointers as to what they're like sexually, or at least how they're feeling at that particular moment.

In saying that, the couple I met are so friendly and pleasant that any awkwardness about no kissing was purely on my part and soon disappeared once I got my head around it. And I've met them a few times so it couldn't have been that bad

It's better with kissing IMO, but can work without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing, no shagging... simple "
story of my fab life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me kissing is a big part of fun for me and because it would be girl/girl with me only then the more kissing the better hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for me kissing is a big part of fun for me and because it would be girl/girl with me only then the more kissing the better hehe

xx"

Just the thought! Mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gotta kiss and be good at it,it's a make or break thing....gets the juices going....

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By *tewart39Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Love a good snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree with you kitkatt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gotta kiss and be good at it,it's a make or break thing....gets the juices going....

Well said...mmmmwah lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF?

So it's ok to rub yer most intimate areas against each other but it's not to have a kiss?

Maybe swinging aint for you then......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss, it adds tot he experience and makes it more alive... but then if someone else is not comfortable doing it I would not push them. Respect their boundaries.

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By *uirkygirlCouple
over a year ago

Quirkyville

lol!! my kisses are more intimate to me than sex.... sex can come without any sort of emotion for many but kissing well its different..... like you have sex with a condom so your protected but when you kiss your not... your swapping fluids with someone and to me its something I want to save for DD.... maybe Kissing is different to others but for me its like when you kiss someone your letting them into your space... its personal enchanting amazing and exquisite... or is that just when I kiss DD????

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

"lol!! my kisses are more intimate to me than sex.... sex can come without any sort of emotion for many but kissing well its different..... like you have sex with a condom so your protected but when you kiss your not... your swapping fluids with someone and to me its something I want to save for DD.... maybe Kissing is different to others but for me its like when you kiss someone your letting them into your space... its personal enchanting amazing and exquisite... or is that just when I kiss DD???? "

Don't see it as any different from other likes and dislikes. There is a number of things i do with my partner that i would never do with someone else and it is my choice. If it results in getting less meets from people who will only meet if kissing is part of it then so be it but have never found it a problem so far.

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I love a good snog. Arms round a lady and start off with cheeks, mouth, neck, etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing girls is a completely different issue x

If I was single I would want a mixture of hard sex and slow intimate, so the kissing wouldn't be an issue. Xcurious to know why you wont kiss a guy but will a girl?"

Sorry just saw this, dead simple really, it's my choice. Also, I have a guy at home to snog all night, but I dont have a girl at home. My sexual plays with guys who join us are always threesomes, not slow intimate sex, I have that with my partner. However the sex I have with girls is slow and kissing is a part of it. Having sex with guys and girls is totally a different scenario

Each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be hoping to swap fluids thru oral lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good kiss can get me hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" My sexual plays with guys who join us are always threesomes, not slow intimate sex, I have that with my partner. However the sex I have with girls is slow and kissing is a part of it. Having sex with guys and girls is totally a different scenario

Each to their own x"

And you apply the same rules when you meet couples? (i.e. you only kiss the female half and not the male).

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