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Meeting after 3 years.... tips for getting back into it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we are meeting after 3 years away

We had 4 meets.

3 were terrible.

One was average.

One guy literally turned up kissed her and spanked his pants then left ??

The 3 terrible meets are they just bad luck or are we just meeting the misfits?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Looks like you were unlucky but it is always wise to do a social meet first.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Always always always social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its rather shallow to put past experienced meets in a trustpilot category..Excellent good average fair poor.

I feel thats a bit disrespectful.

You will only get out of a sexual collaboration,what you put into it.

Maybe worth doing a tighter vetting system in who you choose too meet.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take it slowly, always get a face pic before you meet but always have a social meet first, it's so important. Be safe and try to enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are meeting after 3 years away

We had 4 meets.

3 were terrible.

One was average.

One guy literally turned up kissed her and spanked his pants then left ??

The 3 terrible meets are they just bad luck or are we just meeting the misfits? "

I’d put this down to a learning curve, try and look at what was wrong in those first meets you maybe ignored or didn’t see due to the thrill of a first experience. Above all keep each other close and discuss what you both liked or disliked about it all so your next experience is richer for both of you Vx

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Spend more time vetting and get to know them most assholes don't have longevity to keep up their pretense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spend more time vetting and get to know them most assholes don't have longevity to keep up their pretense"

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Spend more time vetting and get to know them most assholes don't have longevity to keep up their pretense

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I’d hope that isn’t the norm for meets

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By *eeling hot hot hotCouple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

Go to a club, meet real people, Talk to them first,see if you have that connection and you will have a successful meet.

Fabs just full of fakes and time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club, meet real people, Talk to them first,see if you have that connection and you will have a successful meet.

Fabs just full of fakes and time wasters"

That's maybe just your experience

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By *kbull2000Man
over a year ago

Carluke


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One guy literally turned up kissed her and spanked his pants then left ??

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Absolute classic. I almost spat out my cereal.

It's a lottery. There are just as many numpty couples as there are singles. As folks have indicated, it's best to chat with any perspective folks first.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

A booty call after midnight probably won't attract the people you're looking for x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Go to a club, meet real people, Talk to them first,see if you have that connection and you will have a successful meet.

Fabs just full of fakes and time wasters"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social and make sure people know your rules and what your expectations are.

We've never had a bad meet. Some are better than others though.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Go to a club, meet real people, Talk to them first,see if you have that connection and you will have a successful meet.

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