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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On the back of a conversation from a lovely woman on here today..

In all the years ive been on here.For those of the women ive met,probably more than most have asked me "what would you like me too wear for you" prior to a sexual meet.

My answer has always been "how the feck would i know,im a bloke".

It would be easier in saying a colour.

I dont have any expectations what a women puts on,she can wear nothing.

I think its a womans choice in what she decides too wear or not wear.If she feels sexy and comfortable that would have a positive effect on me.

1.Do women ask their play partner what they would like to see them wear ?

2.Do guys ask the women too wear for them ?

3.Is it a mutual discussion beforehand ?

4.Do women wear to impress or feel comfortable ?

Whats your thoughts..GO

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"On the back of a conversation from a lovely woman on here today..

In all the years ive been on here.For those of the women ive met,probably more than most have asked me "what would you like me too wear for you" prior to a sexual meet.

My answer has always been "how the feck would i know,im a bloke".

It would be easier in saying a colour.

I dont have any expectations what a women puts on,she can wear nothing.

I think its a womans choice in what she decides too wear or not wear.If she feels sexy and comfortable that would have a positive effect on me.

1.Do women ask their play partner what they would like to see them wear ?

2.Do guys ask the women too wear for them ?

3.Is it a mutual discussion beforehand ?

4.Do women wear to impress or feel comfortable ?

Whats your thoughts..GO

Iv been asked to wear certain undies of got on I pics.

Sometimes b4 a meet while we are chatting I'l ask if they have a face colour and dress accordingly. But for the most part just dress in a nice skirt, blouse and heels and always colour coordinate undies and jewlery so I (hope) I look presentable x

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I've been asked to wear or not wear particular clothing for a social meet. I find the conversation on my part quickly dries up after that.

For fun meets I wear whatever makes me feel confident at the time although sometimes a conversation can spark an idea for an outfit

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Interesting question. But I’d also ask what guys wear for a meet. Hopefully not beige y-fronts

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Interesting question. But I’d also ask what guys wear for a meet. Hopefully not beige y-fronts

Preferable to white with brown strip at the rear

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By *ntense funCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I wear what i want and if someone told me what to wear they would be told where to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't ask men what they'd like me to wear 'for them'

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Most importantly, please wear a smile. If you're coming to my place, then a boiler suit accessorised with a toolbox would be handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I really wanted to impress then yes, I would perhaps wear what they were asking me to. As long as it wasn't completely ridiculous, don't see anything wrong with turning someone even further in the lead up to some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If asked to wear full sexy attire for initial coffee meet its a put off

If its a meet with someone who iv got to know and had some teasing chats and you know certain undies add to the tease for planned fun meet for both then yes id wear certain things as it would make me feel good too as im not a naked type person sexy undies make me feel good too as well as the person id be having fun with ..hopfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy asked me to wear a certain look I wouldn't meet them.simple.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Given most pics are topless/naked ....I haven't really directed the women to wear 'X Y or Z'for me as it tends to come off at some stage.

I am always showered, shaved and dressed smart for meets.

The only exception is I have been talking to an utter fruitcake-dont worry she is on the same level as me...both of us are fruit cakes and share similar sexual experiences......I have asked she wear a dress for me...only because we will be playing a "game" when we meet for a drink....

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I suppose its as long as both parties are comfortable with the request and how the conversation went before hand. Probably a conversation for a second or third meet when both are comfortable with each other.

I'd be happy to wear what a woman asked for as long as it was in context of the occasion and not ridiculous...I wouldnt dress in a clown outfit at the pub.

It's by far a deal breaker though if she says bolt ya rocket.

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By *elaxedcplCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Short skirt, no knickers, crop top and no bra. High heels, of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll wear what I want obviously depending on where we're meeting but I'd only dress up in the sexy stuff if I was comfortable doing so. Other than than that, take me as I am or not at all. It's about the person and not the clothes. You can still look sexy in a top and a pair of jeans

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"On the back of a conversation from a lovely woman on here today..

In all the years ive been on here.For those of the women ive met,probably more than most have asked me "what would you like me too wear for you" prior to a sexual meet.

My answer has always been "how the feck would i know,im a bloke".

It would be easier in saying a colour.

I dont have any expectations what a women puts on,she can wear nothing.

I think its a womans choice in what she decides too wear or not wear.If she feels sexy and comfortable that would have a positive effect on me.

1.Do women ask their play partner what they would like to see them wear ?

2.Do guys ask the women too wear for them ?

3.Is it a mutual discussion beforehand ?

4.Do women wear to impress or feel comfortable ?

Whats your thoughts..GO

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for me its all about pleasing my playmate as well as me so yes on occation I have asked what they would like me to wear.

However I dont dress to impress & will wear something I like & hope they will like too and yes comfort is important too

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By *awaiianguyMan
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

"If asked to wear full sexy attire for initial coffee meet its a put off

I agree that if it's someone I know, then chatting about clothing, and the associated possibilities can be a great tease before meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its stockings and heeled boots that does it for me. But the main thing is the lady feels comfy and sexy and wanted!! I guess it something you built upto by getting to know the person ultimately

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By *avid1Man
over a year ago

Dubai

"Short skirt, no knickers, crop top and no bra. High heels, of course!"

That's fine for the blokes, but what about the ladies?

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Slightly off topic ,but im going to Glasgow in 2 weeks where is best for nice underwear thats not too expensive ,pretty and sexy stuff ,thanks

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By *elaxedcplCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Short skirt, no knickers, crop top and no bra. High heels, of course!

That's fine for the blokes, but what about the ladies?

True, and I'm lucky enough my wife obliges...

She likes me in a suit.

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By *hatsmynameagainCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Whenever Ive been asked my responce is "whatever you want".

But if im being honest I hope she'll turn up in a dress or skirt but regardless im a big believer when it comes to meeting fir sex that it looks better on a pile on the floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve also been asked to dress a certain way for a social. I’m those cases it’s a swift block....

For a play meet I do ask if they have any particular kinks or fantasies and I’m usually happy to oblige.

The common answer is stockings and a strapon which happens to be my fave too

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Slightly off topic ,but im going to Glasgow in 2 weeks where is best for nice underwear thats not too expensive ,pretty and sexy stuff ,thanks "

Primark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly off topic ,but im going to Glasgow in 2 weeks where is best for nice underwear thats not too expensive ,pretty and sexy stuff ,thanks "

I've always found nice wee bits and pieces in H&M.

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I wouldn’t ask anyone what they wanted me to wear nor would I comply with any requests ... I will wear what I choose

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

If you have been chatting for a wee while you may already have discussed likes and dislikes so no harm in discussing what to wear.

For fun meets where you already have good chat between you then fantasies may have been discussed so naturally outfits discussed to which adds to the excitement pre meet and makes the actual fun all the better

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

As guy or Ivana I don’t mind wearing what people like . If I was meeting a woman for the first time from here I’d definitely ask her how she likes her man to look . I’d just keep my fingers crossed she was in hosiery .

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Interesting question. But I’d also ask what guys wear for a meet. Hopefully not beige y-fronts

Preferable to white with brown strip at the rear

Go faster stripe,

They disappear fast.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Slightly off topic ,but im going to Glasgow in 2 weeks where is best for nice underwear thats not too expensive ,pretty and sexy stuff ,thanks

Primark. "

Lidl they have some “interesting” underwear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy to wear anything requested unless I found it uncomfortable/constricting, I would take it on an individual basis.

If asked I have a kink for a woman in a bikini so that would be my request

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I usually suggest they wear beer goggles.

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