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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

You was meeting ian blackford and boris

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You was meeting ian blackford and boris "

I wouldn’t mind Ian blackford Boris would get a boot in the nethers.

no can’t name names as it’s an ongoing case,but a very unpleasant character

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww you can’t drop that on us and not name names. I’m away to google it

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing it's the infamous guy the BBC did an exposé on a while back and has recently been found guilty and awaiting sentence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing it's the infamous guy the BBC did an exposé on a while back and has recently been found guilty and awaiting sentence?"

Was that the guy who was also creepy AF towards the female reporter?

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Im intrigued as to who as well now.

We talking east coast, west coast, up north, down south??

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By *earded blossomCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'm guessing it's the infamous guy the BBC did an exposé on a while back and has recently been found guilty and awaiting sentence?

Was that the guy who was also creepy AF towards the female reporter? "

I love how we've got a guy on the site who's number 1 suspect for a murder of a sex worker yet we can't come right out with a public warning for others.... Just waiting for someone else to be the next victim

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing it's the infamous guy the BBC did an exposé on a while back and has recently been found guilty and awaiting sentence?

Was that the guy who was also creepy AF towards the female reporter?

I love how we've got a guy on the site who's number 1 suspect for a murder of a sex worker yet we can't come right out with a public warning for others.... Just waiting for someone else to be the next victim

John "

Yep.... I recall a similar thing happened a while back...

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......"

Did you meet him on here and does he still have a profile here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

Did you meet him on here and does he still have a profile here?"

Yes and no he no profile now for obvious reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm guessing it's the infamous guy the BBC did an exposé on a while back and has recently been found guilty and awaiting sentence?

Was that the guy who was also creepy AF towards the female reporter?

I love how we've got a guy on the site who's number 1 suspect for a murder of a sex worker yet we can't come right out with a public warning for others.... Just waiting for someone else to be the next victim

John "

Not him but another guy needless to say I didn’t suspect a thing but he evil and looking at life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is when I think all single woman should look out afternoon one another on here. So many fckn crackpots onhere inc woman is well not just men x

Woman should be supporting one another and looking out for each other it’s so sad some woman see other woman as a threat instead of looking at another woman and judging her we should be having each other’s backs

Scares me sometimes onhere I have had some real ediots and creeps message me like am sure other woman have x

Am under no illusion and am not sexiest that men have experience the exact same onhere is well at certain times x

Wish the world and the people init where just a bit more kinder to one another now a days we live in a world it’s all about self me myself and I x

There are some genuine and decent and caring people defo But few and far between fckn dog eat dog world and who loves them selves more x

The younger generation I feel for cause in the next 5 years it’s going to be a lot more worse xxx

Look after yourself peeps and be careful xxxxx jade xx. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say I’ve seen any headlines about any particularly dangerous individuals lately except the elderly woman murdered in Aberdeen yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......"

Scary to think theres guys out there that are a serious risk to the ladies...... and angering as it's such types that spoil it for us genuine single guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a friend from here, a woman who is being stalked by a guy she met here. Its horrible to hear and see how damaging it is to her!!!

She is a lovely person and very well known and respected on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a friend from here, a woman who is being stalked by a guy she met here. Its horrible to hear and see how damaging it is to her!!!

She is a lovely person and very well known and respected on here."

Has she contacted the police?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

Scary to think theres guys out there that are a serious risk to the ladies...... and angering as it's such types that spoil it for us genuine single guys x"

Agree with this so much.

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire


"I'm guessing it's the infamous guy the BBC did an exposé on a while back and has recently been found guilty and awaiting sentence?

Was that the guy who was also creepy AF towards the female reporter?

I love how we've got a guy on the site who's number 1 suspect for a murder of a sex worker yet we can't come right out with a public warning for others.... Just waiting for someone else to be the next victim

John "

Very frustrating! Because he will strike again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

Scary to think theres guys out there that are a serious risk to the ladies...... and angering as it's such types that spoil it for us genuine single guys x"

Agreed Boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, this is very cheery!!!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I had a friend who was worried for me when I was trying out online dating a couple of years ago in case I met a weirdo. I said to her I couldn't meet much worse than my ex who I met through work! She totally agreed with me

We can meet these people in every day life as well as online. I suppose we can never guarantee our safety but taking the right precautions such as letting someone know where you are going and checking over their profile properly making sure they have veris all helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you takke all safety precautions, it can still happen in clubs too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if you takke all safety precautions, it can still happen in clubs too... "

What can?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

Scary to think theres guys out there that are a serious risk to the ladies...... and angering as it's such types that spoil it for us genuine single guys x"

They don't spoil anything for decent guys

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

Scary to think theres guys out there that are a serious risk to the ladies...... and angering as it's such types that spoil it for us genuine single guys x

They don't spoil anything for decent guys"

Well by that logic they don’t spoil anything for the serial killers either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

Scary to think theres guys out there that are a serious risk to the ladies...... and angering as it's such types that spoil it for us genuine single guys x

They don't spoil anything for decent guys"

I'm sure women who have met these arseholes thought they were decent at the time, otherwise they wouldn't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

Scary to think theres guys out there that are a serious risk to the ladies...... and angering as it's such types that spoil it for us genuine single guys x

They don't spoil anything for decent guys

I'm sure women who have met these arseholes thought they were decent at the time, otherwise they wouldn't meet."

Without knowing all the ins and outs of the story, I'm reserving judgement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can’t say I’ve seen any headlines about any particularly dangerous individuals lately except the elderly woman murdered in Aberdeen yesterday "

Dating back to 2918 he took her hostage, tortured and r@&£d her near killed and filmed it...,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say 1% of the worlds population are Psychopaths that means in the UK there could be 660000 Psychopaths.

From what I can find out,there could be 500000 registered users on fabswingers so that means 5000 of us might could be Psychopaths

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say 1% of the worlds population are Psychopaths that means in the UK there could be 660000 Psychopaths.

From what I can find out,there could be 500000 registered users on fabswingers so that means 5000 of us might could be Psychopaths

Just saying "

Fuck sake....right, I need something to cheer me up...just skipping off to watch a cheeky wee Fred n Rose documentary....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t say I’ve seen any headlines about any particularly dangerous individuals lately except the elderly woman murdered in Aberdeen yesterday

Dating back to 2918 he took her hostage, tortured and r@&£d her near killed and filmed it...,. "

All the while masquerading as a guy with a healthy attitude to sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say 1% of the worlds population are Psychopaths that means in the UK there could be 660000 Psychopaths.

From what I can find out,there could be 500000 registered users on fabswingers so that means 5000 of us might could be Psychopaths

Just saying

Fuck sake....right, I need something to cheer me up...just skipping off to watch a cheeky wee Fred n Rose documentary...."

Was just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet on here about 6 years ago is now doing time for sexual offences I have to say he in no way came over as capable of that when I met him and was actually very kind as he knew it was my first meet.

But yes us ladies need to support eachother.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"They say 1% of the worlds population are Psychopaths that means in the UK there could be 660000 Psychopaths.

From what I can find out,there could be 500000 registered users on fabswingers so that means 5000 of us might could be Psychopaths

Just saying "

If the test group was from fab it may have been higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say 1% of the worlds population are Psychopaths that means in the UK there could be 660000 Psychopaths.

From what I can find out,there could be 500000 registered users on fabswingers so that means 5000 of us might could be Psychopaths

Just saying

Fuck sake....right, I need something to cheer me up...just skipping off to watch a cheeky wee Fred n Rose documentary....

Was just saying "

(.....adds JT to my hitlist.....)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first ever meet on here about 6 years ago is now doing time for sexual offences I have to say he in no way came over as capable of that when I met him and was actually very kind as he knew it was my first meet.

But yes us ladies need to support eachother. "

Correct it’s a scary world enough as it is

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Chill out people, you're more likely to be murdered by your wife / husband than some random on fab!

You're welcome!

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)


"Chill out people, you're more likely to be murdered by your wife / husband than some random on fab!

You're welcome! "

I think the whole idea though is that you cut all odds in general.

Some of the womens comments on this thread are feckin scary...really really scary

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"My first ever meet on here about 6 years ago is now doing time for sexual offences I have to say he in no way came over as capable of that when I met him and was actually very kind as he knew it was my first meet.

But yes us ladies need to support eachother. "
curious as to why your comment "us ladies need to support each other" then think how a guy saying "us blokes need to stick together" would make you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say 1% of the worlds population are Psychopaths that means in the UK there could be 660000 Psychopaths.

From what I can find out,there could be 500000 registered users on fabswingers so that means 5000 of us might could be Psychopaths

Just saying

Fuck sake....right, I need something to cheer me up...just skipping off to watch a cheeky wee Fred n Rose documentary....

Was just saying

(.....adds JT to my hitlist.....) "

Didn't know you where into bond age

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I've been on & off fab for years and to be fair I've never had a nasty meet. Been stood up, Bitchy messages but nothing compared to the various men I've met away from here **shivers at the thought**

Learn some self defense, always handy & keep your wits about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone needs to support each other regardless of sex. However I’m being in no way sexist in saying I think women are statistically more likely to be hurt. R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men, sexual freedom is still more acceptable for men, there are more men than women on here and men are physically stronger than women. Good vetting and letting someone know where you are is always advisable for all. Happy and safe fabbing folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men"

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men "

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Really? "

Yes, really. It involves insertion of a penis, which women don't have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men "

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners."

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8"

The charge may be different I'm not convinced it is different in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8"

Ok, give you that one.....the law is an ass right enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8

The charge may be different I'm not convinced it is different in reality"

But it is by definition.

A woman can still be convicted of forcing a man to have sex without his consent. What difference does the word make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8

The charge may be different I'm not convinced it is different in reality

But it is by definition.

A woman can still be convicted of forcing a man to have sex without his consent. What difference does the word make?"

A big difference... Or else there wouldn't be a difference in the legal definitions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8

The charge may be different I'm not convinced it is different in reality

But it is by definition.

A woman can still be convicted of forcing a man to have sex without his consent. What difference does the word make?

A big difference... Or else there wouldn't be a difference in the legal definitions.

"

Do you mean in relation to the sentences that can be given ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8

The charge may be different I'm not convinced it is different in reality

But it is by definition.

A woman can still be convicted of forcing a man to have sex without his consent. What difference does the word make?

A big difference... Or else there wouldn't be a difference in the legal definitions.

Do you mean in relation to the sentences that can be given ?"

No. I mean in the reaction to the terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8

The charge may be different I'm not convinced it is different in reality

But it is by definition.

A woman can still be convicted of forcing a man to have sex without his consent. What difference does the word make?

A big difference... Or else there wouldn't be a difference in the legal definitions.

Do you mean in relation to the sentences that can be given ?

No. I mean in the reaction to the terms. "

I guess it could be given a term of it's own

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I think everyone needs to support each other regardless of sex. However I’m being in no way sexist in saying I think women are statistically more likely to be hurt. R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men, sexual freedom is still more acceptable for men, there are more men than women on here and men are physically stronger than women. Good vetting and letting someone know where you are is always advisable for all. Happy and safe fabbing folks "
it would maybe surprise you how much statistics have changed as men are becoming more likely to report crimes against them perpetrated by women.

I'd say in general men are violent towards men and woman are more likely to be a bitchy I'd guess the % is about the same of those willing to be violent.

It also doesn't help that our legal system has a proven massive bias

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea


"I realise I have had a very close shave with a guy that is now making news headlines on the Scottish news. Makes me even more reluctant to meet anyone and generally just here for chats...... as a single woman I tend to stick to who I know and known for years. Being single on here is a hit or a miss I find and touch wood been lucky upto now......

Did you meet him on here and does he still have a profile here?

Yes and no he no profile now for obvious reasons"

He could possibly have made another profile ?

Thanks for the heads up

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Chill out people, you're more likely to be murdered by your wife / husband than some random on fab!

You're welcome! "

Thank goodness I am safe then

Phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8

The charge may be different I'm not convinced it is different in reality

But it is by definition.

A woman can still be convicted of forcing a man to have sex without his consent. What difference does the word make?

A big difference... Or else there wouldn't be a difference in the legal definitions.

Do you mean in relation to the sentences that can be given ?

No. I mean in the reaction to the terms.

I guess it could be given a term of it's own "

The legal definition changed not that long ago to include the word 'object'. (Penetration with penis or object) This means that anyone, make, female or whatever can be charged with r*pe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" R*pe is a crime for the most part committed by men

By definition, it's a crime that can only be committed by men

Far less common but it still can happen. Similar views were held until fairly recently regarding women committing domestic violence against their male partners.

A woman cannot be charged with r@pe.

The charge would be something else 8

The charge may be different I'm not convinced it is different in reality

But it is by definition.

A woman can still be convicted of forcing a man to have sex without his consent. What difference does the word make?

A big difference... Or else there wouldn't be a difference in the legal definitions.

Do you mean in relation to the sentences that can be given ?

No. I mean in the reaction to the terms.

I guess it could be given a term of it's own

The legal definition changed not that long ago to include the word 'object'. (Penetration with penis or object) This means that anyone, make, female or whatever can be charged with r*pe."

Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The legal definition changed not that long ago to include the word 'object'. (Penetration with penis or object) This means that anyone, make, female or whatever can be charged with r*pe.

Not according to the my gov website it hasn't.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"The legal definition changed not that long ago to include the word 'object'. (Penetration with penis or object) This means that anyone, make, female or whatever can be charged with r*pe.

Not according to the my gov website it hasn't. "
it is being looked at to include objects but r#pe only deals with penetration it doesn't take into account moles##tion.

Stats are changing daily as more and more men are coming forward the gap in crimes against others is closing and in some cases and places fems are thought to be higher offenders as the society we live in has made men hide it as its seen as an attack on their masculinity to admit these things happened.

Theres alot of work needs done by all to change the narrative and accept that PEOPLE can be good and bad and not create gender division by claiming one is worse of than the other

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

As no women meet me they are 100% safe

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Two men i have met on fab admitted to me they had previously spent time in jail when younger. Both were lovely. People change, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a friend from here, a woman who is being stalked by a guy she met here. Its horrible to hear and see how damaging it is to her!!!

She is a lovely person and very well known and respected on here.

Has she contacted the police?"

Yes but they didnt handle it well, say it's her own fault for being on such websites......

Absolute crap in my eyes. You could meet such types of guys in a pub the conventional way and not know........

I've not spoke with her for a wee while so unsure how the situation is but horrible to see what it does to a person!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two men i have met on fab admitted to me they had previously spent time in jail when younger. Both were lovely. People change, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse."

Suppose it all depends on the crime. Anyone with a conviction for any serious violent or sexual offence wouldn't be given the benefit of the doubt from me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Two men i have met on fab admitted to me they had previously spent time in jail when younger. Both were lovely. People change, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse.

Suppose it all depends on the crime. Anyone with a conviction for any serious violent or sexual offence wouldn't be given the benefit of the doubt from me."

I would doubt very much that anyone on Fab would admit that to someone they had a meet with. Maybe you have already and are none the wiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The legal definition changed not that long ago to include the word 'object'. (Penetration with penis or object) This means that anyone, make, female or whatever can be charged with r*pe.

Not according to the my gov website it hasn't. "

If anyone else wants to message me, the information I found was on the MET website. I also work in this field.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The article you sent categorises them differently. The r is only in connection with a penis. With anything else it is sexual assault. They are both serious but the article says they are different offences. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not here to have an argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not here to have an argument.

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Who is arguing? I thought it was a discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure anyone who has been sexually assaulted (or whatever other definition is used to describe a violent or abusive sex act against a persons will) will agree the trauma is just the same regardless of what you call it. It can also happen to anyone regardless of age or sex, it can even happen within marriage - the important thing is that any non consensual sex is wrong and that each of us does everything we can to be safe

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I'm sure anyone who has been sexually assaulted (or whatever other definition is used to describe a violent or abusive sex act against a persons will) will agree the trauma is just the same regardless of what you call it. It can also happen to anyone regardless of age or sex, it can even happen within marriage - the important thing is that any non consensual sex is wrong and that each of us does everything we can to be safe "
amen lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure anyone who has been sexually assaulted (or whatever other definition is used to describe a violent or abusive sex act against a persons will) will agree the trauma is just the same regardless of what you call it. It can also happen to anyone regardless of age or sex, it can even happen within marriage - the important thing is that any non consensual sex is wrong and that each of us does everything we can to be safe amen lol"

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