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By *ojoman OP   Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

Bored in the office today so thought i'd start a wee post of my own.

Married men, plenty on this site eh folks,lol Even if there not all honest about it

Question is Yes or No

To the single girls and couples on the site do you or don't you play with married men and why just to make it interesting, lol

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By *ojoman OP   Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

Doh, of course i mean married men playing as single men on the site, with or without the other halfs permission, yeah right,lol

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

Yes we meet/play with married men playing alone as long as they are honest enough to say they're married/attached AND that they ar BI as we are both bi and like to have friends in the same mind set as us. no problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn’t knowingly meet with married men no, as to why, well they’re cheating, each to their own and we’re not about to start judging anyone who does but its certainly not for us.

We both see this lifestyle as being full of consenting adults who all make informed choices, after all having sex with multiple partners has its risks even if trying to be as safe as possible, sadly the partners of married men playing without their knowledge are invoked of these choices.

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By *ojoman OP   Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

Thanks AnH and sexoholics its interesting to see 2 different views, hence why i started the post to get an idea of the fors and againsts, i agree at the end of the day its each to their own be it the bastard em i mean guy or the couple/fem. Hopefully more will join in, lol

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i do play with attached and married guys......ones honest enough to say so. the way i look at it they are on site for sex--- i'm single so its their conscience and they have to live with it and any consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married people play for lots reasons, male and female, from the 'bit on the side' of an otherwise normal marriage, to the 'completely seperate lives being led though married' case. I happen to fall in the latter and always say I'm married. So long as you're honest, it's up to the other person to square any circles at home or away, I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have always been honest about being married.....some folk are cool with it...others are not....I am just me and do not pretend otherwise....here for the banter as well as the sex...each to their own...is all cool with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't like to meet a married man , The thought of his wife at home and him with us just woundn't do it for me there are enough single guys without having the guilt of doing that I wouldn't like it if the shoe was on the other foot

Zeta

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i don't meet married or attached men. I'm single so my conscience is clear but i don't think it's fair on the partner and i don't want to be caught in the crossfire if she were to find out he's playing away. As previously said, there are plenty of single guys to choose from who are actually single xxx

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By *umboarderMan
over a year ago

east lothian

the great thing about this site (& this forum) is the fact that different opinions are all valid.

I have my own point of view & absolutely respect others,which is why I dont fib about my own situation,Im not here to use the site as a physchiatrists couch (blimey I cant even spell it lol) but I wudnt like anyone I met (I should be so lucky) to have to deal with any guilt at meeting with a married man, I am happy to square my own circle (dont they do that on the krypton factor now ? lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont think it be fare for guys to say they are single when they are not if ur married to sumone or have a g friend and they are not into swinging tehn u have 2 choses be with them fully our be without them but the most of the males lead there life as liars and i cant unstand any parson how would play with them under these trams (it could be u in that dose dont no what ur mans upto) and how u feel when u fined out what hes doing and its not just guys that do this as women are just as bad but not as much as males so the lie to couples and they lie to people they surpost to love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like to play with married men because I like to have my meets on evenings and weekends, which is difficult for most married men as they are often cheating and therefore lying in order to sneak in a "quickie" afternoon liason.

I am on here for me, and not to fit in around them, so for me married is a no go zone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's yes and no! lol Yes as long as the wife knows and is happy with everything but no if the chap says his wife knows nothing about him swinging - what's that about!!!!! Honesty is the best policy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

forgot to say b4 we're a couple who do play on our own too. We love the fact 1 of us is having fun with another person which leaves the other at home extremely horny thinking about what's happening and waiting for him/her to return home and relive the events and thereby having a fabby sexy time ourselves to boot! As long as everyone is happy and honest then why not!

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By *ojoman OP   Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

Thanks for the comments guys its good to see yes's and no's, and the different reasons, just shows each to their own and everyone has their own mind, keep them comming,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people cheating on their partners should be ashamed, yes i will judge you as your not honest or nice people are you? if you was you would not be cheating on your wife/hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and for the people saying yea they would play with them cos they are honest to say they are.... no they aint honest at all, its the other half they need to tell the truth to not a fuck bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kittie

we have the same vies as you and a lot of people on here dont like it but the truth can be hard to hear sumtimes it cost us a lot of fun as we not go to events where we no the married so called single guys will be as we dont belve in laying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must say, we wouldnt play with a married single male or single female........... but it is very hard to tell as most people dont put it in their profiles!!!! and we can only go on what the person involved tells us. We just feel that it is SO wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kittie

we have the same vies as you and a lot of people on here dont like it but the truth can be hard to hear sumtimes it cost us a lot of fun as we not go to events where we no the married so called single guys will be as we dont belve in laying

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I READ A PREVIOUS POST FOR M YOU GUYS ON THIS SUBJECT.

if you go dogging , how do you know the guys you meet there are not married...

do you check the profiles before you go

do you check for a ring on their finger

I aint judging , just asking.

I read another profile on bi guys from and the couple says they never meet bi guys, then say they go dogging and have 7 guys at a time......

naive to think the doggers are all non married and str8 .....

again, I aint judging.... each to their own with me ..... as long AS HONESTY PREVAILS AND RESPECT BASED SEX , ITS COOL .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ... we would never knowingly meet a married 'single' playing on the sly.However some people are very good liars and it is not outwith the realms of possibility that at some point we might get taken in by someone lying .The reason we wouldn't is not one of making a value judgement -let your conscience be your counsel- it's simply that it would in someway sully the experience, WE would feel party to a deception and that would ruin the fun factor for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh , just to clarify .. emphasis on 'playing on the sly ' .. if we have spoken/chatted to the other half of the couple and it's clear that they happily play *seperately* as opposed to *on the sly* then .... let the games begin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope...to my knowledge we havent and hope the guys we have met have been honest.

but thats just it, we can only hope they have been?

just think meeting a married man on the sly is just that...sly.

to the married cpls on here...would you like your partner meeting someone on the sly??? think not

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