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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

Over 50 per day for me. Surprised by only 35.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

I get about 20

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

35 more than I get so stop complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 30.

But all from the same couple of people I talk to everyday nearly.

Does that still count?

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I get about 30.

But all from the same couple of people I talk to everyday nearly.

Does that still count? "

No, but if it make you happy then yes.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I don’t get hundreds either it’s just sometimes I can’t be bothered replying straight away and then they mount up.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35.

35 more than I get so stop complaining "

Not complaining at all i just dont believe women get hundreds daily. Alot maybe but not hundreds.

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By *nferno sausageMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I get about 30.

But all from the same couple of people I talk to everyday nearly.

Does that still count? "

U can also message yourself to bump your numbers up. Thank me later!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very surprised to hear that. Do you manage to read the 35 of them, or are there too many lorry cab invites and grotesquely framed phallus photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I haven't been on for a few days there's generally around 5 messages waiting in my box.

When I'm online I probably get between 15 and 20.

I think those who have recent status updates, new photos and have no filters will receive many more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

I've wondered that too lol seen claims of over 300 a day....hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35.

35 more than I get so stop complaining

Not complaining at all i just dont believe women get hundreds daily. Alot maybe but not hundreds."

I agree with this but I think a lot depends on your profile content, filters, pictures, sexual preferences, verifications and so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I receive 1 a day and it’s usually from myself to myself

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

As others have said volume of mail comes off status and newsfeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change my filters recently so that's cut back quite a bit on the messages.

You'd need a PA to answer hundreds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you use your filters you dont receive 100s.

Just saying.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

For those who dont use there filters Id imagine they would get a high volume of mail.

For those using their filters on avarage id maybe between 20-40 emails a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who dont use there filters Id imagine they would get a high volume of mail.

For those using their filters on avarage id maybe between 20-40 emails a day "

Even that is a pain in the hoop if it's folk you can't be arsed talking to!

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By *j_rockgodMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I'd just like to receive a reply to one of my emails haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use my filters so that's probably the reason why I don't get many messages now. Doesn't bother me though, I'm happy with the way things are x

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35.

35 more than I get so stop complaining

Not complaining at all i just dont believe women get hundreds daily. Alot maybe but not hundreds."

If the profile isn't fake then its attention seeking. Same nonsense as the "oops, accidentally deleted all my messages". Yeah, of course you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

You don't take shit, which scares the wannabes fuck and go types.

Quality over quantity... . 35 is manageable and probably more fruitful

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

To be fair you do say on your profile that you prefer to do the asking. Also you outline clearly the type you are after.

35 is still alot to get through and reply.

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"To be fair you do say on your profile that you prefer to do the asking. Also you outline clearly the type you are after.

35 is still alot to get through and reply. "

I am certainly not complaining. Started this thread as im always reading how females get hundreds of messages and just wanted to make it clear to the men that this is not often the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair you do say on your profile that you prefer to do the asking. Also you outline clearly the type you are after.

35 is still alot to get through and reply.

I am certainly not complaining. Started this thread as im always reading how females get hundreds of messages and just wanted to make it clear to the men that this is not often the case."

X

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"To be fair you do say on your profile that you prefer to do the asking. Also you outline clearly the type you are after.

35 is still alot to get through and reply.

I am certainly not complaining. Started this thread as im always reading how females get hundreds of messages and just wanted to make it clear to the men that this is not often the case."
in general amount of msgs to fems seem like a guys preoccupation with dick size they over exaggerate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get between 2 and 15 that's with minimal filters now I feel undesirable hahaha

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By *nverMan
over a year ago

....down the Rabbit Hole with a shotgun

What's a message?

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35.

35 more than I get so stop complaining

Not complaining at all i just dont believe women get hundreds daily. Alot maybe but not hundreds.

"

I know you're not complaining blue, was just a bit of jokey sarcasm, and at my expense not yours

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers


"To be fair you do say on your profile that you prefer to do the asking. Also you outline clearly the type you are after.

35 is still alot to get through and reply.

I am certainly not complaining. Started this thread as im always reading how females get hundreds of messages and just wanted to make it clear to the men that this is not often the case."

I wasn't criticising, in fact I think its great when someones profile is so direct but without looking like a list of demands.

Your profile is great

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I'd just like to receive a reply to one of my emails haha! "

I just thought they disappeared like superted at the factory.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I get between 2 and 15 that's with minimal filters now I feel undesirable hahaha"

I think most of yours are from me.....

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By *luebell888 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"To be fair you do say on your profile that you prefer to do the asking. Also you outline clearly the type you are after.

35 is still alot to get through and reply.

I am certainly not complaining. Started this thread as im always reading how females get hundreds of messages and just wanted to make it clear to the men that this is not often the case.

I wasn't criticising, in fact I think its great when someones profile is so direct but without looking like a list of demands.

Your profile is great "

Thanks. No point beating around the bush and only divas make demands so thats certainly not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair you do say on your profile that you prefer to do the asking. Also you outline clearly the type you are after.

35 is still alot to get through and reply.

I am certainly not complaining. Started this thread as im always reading how females get hundreds of messages and just wanted to make it clear to the men that this is not often the case.

I wasn't criticising, in fact I think its great when someones profile is so direct but without looking like a list of demands.

Your profile is great

Thanks. No point beating around the bush and only divas make demands so thats certainly not me."

Beating around the bush

I'm such a child

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

I can say I probably on average get less than 10 a day.

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By *ittleMizzNaughty88.Woman
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

I get about 10 a day sometimes less, Ive got strict filters.

Mass delete due to my inbox resembling a sausage factory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure not all females on fab claim this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

I get about 4!

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

Probably depends on your preferences .... I know lots of beautiful women on here who only get 4-5 messages a day, probably because they have always been selective with the men they meet and have their filters set accordingly. Then there are the ones who status reads .... “gagging for it, holes need filled right now” who clearly are attracting a different caliber of men and are getting messages saying “I’m free now” in the hundreds!

I know which category I would rather be in so couldn’t care less if I received no messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the hole 1 ain't it tracey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get under 10 messages.

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By *ike OxmallMan
over a year ago

Elderslie

On average, I probably get just over one message a week (not looking for pity messages or anything, it's just the way it is)

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Jeezo, this post is makin me feel good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably depends on your preferences .... I know lots of beautiful women on here who only get 4-5 messages a day, probably because they have always been selective with the men they meet and have their filters set accordingly. Then there are the ones who status reads .... “gagging for it, holes need filled right now” who clearly are attracting a different caliber of men and are getting messages saying “I’m free now” in the hundreds!

I know which category I would rather be in so couldn’t care less if I received no messages."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it's about quality and not quantity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeezo, this post is makin me feel good lol "

You're into the minus figures

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Jeezo, this post is makin me feel good lol

You're into the minus figures "

Messages fae guys get me back to a plus, and I’m not gonna mention the 6-7 you send me daily, whoops

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

35 a day? We might manage that a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeezo, this post is makin me feel good lol

You're into the minus figures

Messages fae guys get me back to a plus, and I’m not gonna mention the 6-7 you send me daily, whoops "

I know....you'll give in one day and meet me

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By *elledegoreCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Pretty much zero most of the time lol probably our own fault fab isn't a priority to be honest

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

Haha good god!!...we must be even more undesirable can go over a week without a message.... (fem) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the messages here on the post, i get around 1 a month, that's genuine, 5 a week who are def not genuine,lol

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Jeezo, this post is makin me feel good lol "

Nobody likes a show off

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35.

35 more than I get so stop complaining

Not complaining at all i just dont believe women get hundreds daily. Alot maybe but not hundreds."

There lays your answer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on average none which I have come to expect. There is on occasion a glimmer acknowledgement that I exist however.

Would be nice if there was a balance, equal message numbers in everyone’s mail box. But this will never be the case until the pesterers are silenced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I barely get one a day, I've got filters on and delete/block those im not interested in. Works for me, hate too much attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few, more today as it's for. My profile says I'm not meeting

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By *gowboy18Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

If i could i would message you too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

Been on my hotlist for a while yet too shy to message you are far from undesirable Miss Bluebell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

Similar to above, been on my hotlist for a while, and only reason I’ve not messaged is under your age range

I’m pretty sure you have a lot of admirers on here

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Its dependant how much time i spend online how many I get..

Sometimes 30..sometimes 3...still 25/75 split as to those who have actually read my profile and not just looked at the photos.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I get 1 in a regular chat I have, however it's the best 1.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I did get 100s when I first signed up. It was utterly ridiculous and a bit of a worry how people jump on newbies straight away.

Now it's eased off, also thanks to the filters and having about half the nation on my block list, so probably about 20-25.

There was one time I was in Glasgow for some kinky fun, ended up being a lot of fun without the kink. Went to bed and when I woke up the next morning I found 136 new unread messages Might have forgotten with my d*unken arse I'd put a status on when I went to bed (yes, by myself) "I WANT A SHAG!!!!!"

So should anyone want more that's how to boost your incoming messages, but most likely won't be the ones you want x

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By *aughter guyMan
over a year ago

renfrew

Think guys know that it's about 5guys to 1 girl and can't be fucked messaging the good looking ones cause they know they have no chance lol

Like me

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"Think guys know that it's about 5guys to 1 girl and can't be fucked messaging the good looking ones cause they know they have no chance lol

Like me"

How do you know they are good looking though?? Most people dont have face pics up.

That makes me laugh as well..the oh.. "Your stunning" messages. Im like.. How do you know? I could have a face suitable for crimewatch

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Think guys know that it's about 5guys to 1 girl and can't be fucked messaging the good looking ones cause they know they have no chance lol

Like me

How do you know they are good looking though?? Most people dont have face pics up.

That makes me laugh as well..the oh.. "Your stunning" messages. Im like.. How do you know? I could have a face suitable for crimewatch "

Ready to meet without knowing what the other person looks like Suppose we could put a bag over our head if it's that bad and it'll still have the desired result x

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

And Pringles.. Yep.. Made that mistake too while pissed

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Think guys know that it's about 5guys to 1 girl and can't be fucked messaging the good looking ones cause they know they have no chance lol

Like me

How do you know they are good looking though?? Most people dont have face pics up.

That makes me laugh as well..the oh.. "Your stunning" messages. Im like.. How do you know? I could have a face suitable for crimewatch

Ready to meet without knowing what the other person looks like Suppose we could put a bag over our head if it's that bad and it'll still have the desired result x"

Laughter guy, my comment wasn't aimed at you btw. Just something that happens frequently on here. It's the "any hole's a goal" thing quite common on here x

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By *obertELeeMan
over a year ago

Montrose


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

Only 35? Should be 135

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I need to contact admin as my mail box is empty and has been for some time. Maybe it’s broken. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have some dignity guys. A wee bit pride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have some dignity guys. A wee bit pride. "

...

Where would be the fun in that?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Have some dignity guys. A wee bit pride. "
don't be like that nothing better than seeing the fawning and cheesy lines my favourite

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Think guys know that it's about 5guys to 1 girl and can't be fucked messaging the good looking ones cause they know they have no chance lol

Like me"

Note to self. If laughterguy ever messages me I'm an ugly twunt

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Think guys know that it's about 5guys to 1 girl and can't be fucked messaging the good looking ones cause they know they have no chance lol

Like me

Note to self. If laughterguy ever messages me I'm an ugly twunt "
that a shot himself in the foot moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have some dignity guys. A wee bit pride. "

Ladies who employ the "Don't look at me, I'm shy" routine could use that too.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I might get 50 messages per year in my inbox, if I'm lucky ... Used to message loads, but now just perve and and join the forumites after never getting replies...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

I’m lucky to get 5 a day and that’s from people I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very few, I must be no 1 undesirable, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I got one last night suggesting a 3some with my mother. So you're missing fuck all!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Think guys know that it's about 5guys to 1 girl and can't be fucked messaging the good looking ones cause they know they have no chance lol

Like me

Note to self. If laughterguy ever messages me I'm an ugly twunt "

Don't be so hard on yourself maybe you're the only one who will let him keep his socks on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must use the wrong filters I get none

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By *amaraBeaverbankWoman
over a year ago

Benidorm Spain

It really varies for me. It’s never been in the hundreds a day category but I do get a fair amount when in cities. Back in Edinburgh if I was online, particularly late at night, I’d get dozens in a short time period but here cos I’m in the middle of bloody nowhere and I have a lot of filters on, I really don’t get that many.

What I am getting is a lot from Portugal, Ibiza, Madrid etc which are all miles away and several hours drive in some cases.

I don’t know if the who’s near facility is screwy or just guys thinking with their dick cos many say I’m showing within 5 miles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send out like 4 messages a day and get maybe 1 or 2 responses a month?

If 35 receiving 35 messages a day is undesirable, I’m scared to know what that makes me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35.

Over 50 per day for me. Surprised by only 35. "

If this is true (aye right) then get down on the first flight to London and sort out Brexit..... you are officially Superman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very few except Supporter pass renewal messages. They help me feel like I'm wanted

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Think guys know that it's about 5guys to 1 girl and can't be fucked messaging the good looking ones cause they know they have no chance lol

Like me

Note to self. If laughterguy ever messages me I'm an ugly twunt

Don't be so hard on yourself maybe you're the only one who will let him keep his socks on "

Pmsl. Always look on the bright side

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

Busby


"I must be as all the females on Fab claim to get swamped with hundreds of messages daily and on average i get around 35."

On average I get about 35 messages

a YEAR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even get emails from myself, even when I've sent them.....

My daily average is a fraction.

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