FabSwingers.com forum: How FAB is changing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am noticing such a massive change in fab, or am getting so much older lol don’t reply x

The young team coming on board It’s getting more like Facebook,insta and just a lot more egos and divas lol x

On a serious not I think it’s changing so much and not for the better at one time fab was elusive and had that summit special to it.

Or is it just me am far from behind on shit like my designer clothes and Botox and oh I do have an iPhone watch lol and iPad and a 60 inch TV lol my point is fab is loosing its touch I think.

Do others think the same???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a hefty amount of filtered photos.

Although there's not much filtering can do to full on dick/pussy shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was fab ever elusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years ago Fab was more of a conduit to arrange meets with like minded people.

It's now morphed into a cross between Facebook and EBay with folk more interested in 'likes' and accessing their wallets rather than pants.

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By *EEEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Couples and women are now worse than the guys. Gym bunnies that think they are it. Looking for toned blah blah blah body shamers. If a guy on here said that the forum army would be out in force

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am noticing such a massive change in fab, or am getting so much older lol don’t reply x

The young team coming on board It’s getting more like Facebook,insta and just a lot more egos and divas lol x

On a serious not I think it’s changing so much and not for the better at one time fab was elusive and had that summit special to it.

Or is it just me am far from behind on shit like my designer clothes and Botox and oh I do have an iPhone watch lol and iPad and a 60 inch TV lol my point is fab is loosing its touch I think.

Do others think the same??? "

Wow 60 inch tv you know size isnt everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 years ago Fab was more of a conduit to arrange meets with like minded people.

It's now morphed into a cross between Facebook and EBay with folk more interested in 'likes' and accessing their wallets rather than pants. "
gotta agree with this

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By *eeler4uCouple
over a year ago

Stirlingshire

Far to many keyboard swingers on here now who have no intention of meeting.A lot of chat and no action.When Fab started it,s slogan was "started by swingers for swingers",now it,s more like FB with tits and cocks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See the same on other more dating platforms too. Nobody meets or goes on dates anymore.. Social media and the likes of tinder (and lots on here too) is overun with young girls chasing the model dreams promoting their own Instagram pages with zero intention of chat or dates or meets. Spot em a mile off.. End up reporting them on pof tinder etc. Fab is becoming much more mainstream and soft id say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s used to be a community but it seems more fractured now.

It’s mostly people who want a fuck with minimum effort. I prefer to have a ‘connection’ with my play pals and this new generation of fabbers just don’t do it for me.

I hardly meet these days. Can’t be bothered with fragile egos and people who can’t even string a sentence together

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By *heDude85Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I am noticing such a massive change in fab, or am getting so much older lol don’t reply x

The young team coming on board It’s getting more like Facebook,insta and just a lot more egos and divas lol x

On a serious not I think it’s changing so much and not for the better at one time fab was elusive and had that summit special to it.

Or is it just me am far from behind on shit like my designer clothes and Botox and oh I do have an iPhone watch lol and iPad and a 60 inch TV lol my point is fab is loosing its touch I think.

Do others think the same??? "

Fully agree with this, been a long time fabber circa 2005/06.

Been on and off the site due to relationships, commitments ect and as time has gone on it's like it's more of the norm when 10 or more years ago people who use the site now where probably the people who would cast aspersions on using the internet to hook up and make friends.

I too may just be getting older but back in my day I found fab to be way more fun and made some great friends, there just seemed to be a different mind set back then!

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

Took my time to reply to this and I have realised that since joining 10 years ago I have changed because fab has changed.

I no longer look for meets and instead wait for one to happen along, this is no doubt because of a couple of reasons. I'm older,there is a bigger pool for women and couples to choose from,that pool has fitter,younger guys in it,there are more women and couples whom annoy me in their demands and attitudes hence I don't mail them,I have become more cantankerous because of the Facebook like status updates and to be blunt (here we go with the 'what is a swinger' thing) less and less people on here are understanding of a swinger' lifestyle

This has turned me into a 'fab grump', I stay on here to keep in touch with people but other than that it serves no real purpose to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Took my time to reply to this and I have realised that since joining 10 years ago I have changed because fab has changed.

This has turned me into a 'fab grump', I stay on here to keep in touch with people but other than that it serves no real purpose to me.

You just spoke for me.

Well said, i couldnt agree with this anymore.

Hope your well Pal

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

"Took my time to reply to this and I have realised that since joining 10 years ago I have changed because fab has changed.

This has turned me into a 'fab grump', I stay on here to keep in touch with people but other than that it serves no real purpose to me.

You just spoke for me.

Well said, i couldnt agree with this anymore.

Hope your well Pal "

I am very well thank you for asking, hope you are also

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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Seems to have just become a cheap way for alot of people to try and get some action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab was recently in a ladbible report saying it's the up and coming tinder or something like that so I expect an influx of people because of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my thoughts exactly... it’s a 2 message chat then they get angry if you don’t meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We thought it was just us getting older but perhaps Fab is getting worse. 10 years ago we could get couple meets easily .

Now we can’t get a meet for love nor money ! Rarely do we even get messages these days. It could still be us though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can see people think it’s like Facebook saying things like day off today .sun is out.who cares lol

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"Took my time to reply to this and I have realised that since joining 10 years ago I have changed because fab has changed.

This has turned me into a 'fab grump', I stay on here to keep in touch with people but other than that it serves no real purpose to me.

Very well put. I generally no longer look for meets, on the odd occasion I do it's kinda half arsed. There's no point in exerting any effort in to messages or keeping in touch etc. I dunno if I'm too old for this lifestyle now or folks expectations have just got out of control but I'm kinda fed up being left feeling like there's something wrong and inadequate with me so I'm just generally here for perusing the forum's now rather than expecting a meet even though I have plenty to offer.

Anyway, our paths crossed recently _tbs, I think you know that. You're a good lad but I do kinda wish your partner was in here lol

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"This is my thoughts exactly... it’s a 2 message chat then they get angry if you don’t meet

Yes both types

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

The young ones will lose interest and move on. Personally I find it a very supportive community.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

I think there are lots of different ways to use fab. We have never met anyone straight off fab. We have gone to big fab socials then went on from there. We also use it to keep in touch with people we met at clubs and have or have not got it on with that night.

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife

"Took my time to reply to this and I have realised that since joining 10 years ago I have changed because fab has changed.

This has turned me into a 'fab grump', I stay on here to keep in touch with people but other than that it serves no real purpose to me.

You just spoke for me.

Well said, i couldnt agree with this anymore.

Hope your well Pal "

Spoke for both of us

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By *D67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I was on here years ago, definitely a massive change....not just on who is on here, but the amount of huge ego's who can't even be arsed to acknowledge or even briefly reply to a message. Manners cost bugger all at the end of the day. Think most are just interested in how many fabs their pics get, Facebook, insta, filtered photos and all the rest rule the roost now unfortunately. Take me back to the good old days!!

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By *neguyMan
over a year ago

Banff ish

It's quite refreshing to read the posts in this thread, refreshing from the standpoint that I thought it was just me getting older and outwith most age ranges.Things have definitely changed over the twelve years I have been signed up,the original post pretty much sums it up, but ever the optimist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely not the same as it used to be and I've been on here 6 years now. Last 3 years I've noticed much it's gone downhill. Same shit, different day

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Folk wont like reading this but imo it's the truth.

When I started on fab there was none of this accept everyone it was more act like a wank get ignored by all instead of I don't judge and everyone's wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Folk wont like reading this but imo it's the truth.

When I started on fab there was none of this accept everyone it was more act like a wank get ignored by all instead of I don't judge and everyone's wonderful

So you think it's got too pc?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Folk wont like reading this but imo it's the truth.

When I started on fab there was none of this accept everyone it was more act like a wank get ignored by all instead of I don't judge and everyone's wonderful

So you think it's got too pc?"
yup like most things folk seem to be more about pretense than substance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Folk wont like reading this but imo it's the truth.

When I started on fab there was none of this accept everyone it was more act like a wank get ignored by all instead of I don't judge and everyone's wonderful

So you think it's got too pc?yup like most things folk seem to be more about pretense than substance"

Love you x

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By *1654Man
over a year ago

Stirling

I think ive been on here nearly 2 years, im pretty much included in this "young people" group and of the age where social media takes over. But i always see people saying on forums "oh the old fab was better", i wish it was still like that! I hate those that chase for attention.

I came on here to meet new people and some new experiences and people see my age and go nah he will be too immature etc.

Call me old fashioned lol

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I'll probably get slaughtered for this but I feel things are too social orientated now. Everyone is looking for a social and lunches etc. Not that I've ever thought of the place as "dial a shag" but you did used to be able to come on and often meet someone for just sex. Now that is very rare. Each to their own if folk are here for socials but personally I have enough mates and social life away from fab so it's not why I'm here. That's why I have very low expectations of the site nowadays because I haven't moved with the times and tbh I don't really have any intentions of doing so either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the old guard are now no longer just meeting for sex, it's possibly because they've grown out of it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I'll probably get slaughtered for this but I feel things are too social orientated now. Everyone is looking for a social and lunches etc. Not that I've ever thought of the place as "dial a shag" but you did used to be able to come on and often meet someone for just sex. Now that is very rare. Each to their own if folk are here for socials but personally I have enough mates and social life away from fab so it's not why I'm here. That's why I have very low expectations of the site nowadays because I haven't moved with the times and tbh I don't really have any intentions of doing so either."

Social meets are more of a safety measure for me. I am still willing and able to shag if we get on well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been on fab to have an opinion.

Could it be a case of the site has changed, but not as much as people think. It's just that the people have changed as well.

Also I think rose tinted spectacles could be playing a part here as well.

Happy Sunday folks, I'm just enjoying the thunder and torrential rain .

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Just think as others have hit on,its a sign of the times, oodles of other instant contact options via apps and other online "one click" stuff.

Striving to be noticed and liked and thats all so many people crave via "fab my pics" etc.

Which i dont mind, if someones got hot pics to show and fun enough to show them,cool, here have a fab pic vote,not a problem.

Lots of research on phone addiction etc also proves so many people have developed a really low attention span generally, that might be a factor within this change in site use too, just a theory.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m an old-school Fab user who has been away for five years or more and just recently come back. I can definitely see a change, but I’m not judging it as worse (or better!) – just different.

The world has changed and whilst Fab itself hasn’t (the site is exactly the same) the way people are using Fab has.

Firstly, I think sexuality has changed over the past decade. People are more openly kinky/naughty in day to day life. Partly that’s the influence of the Internet and the wider freedom of access – to erotica/porn as well as just to other people. So maybe Fab isn’t as ‘out there’ as it used to be. It may even be seen as almost normal!

Secondly, people have learned ways of using social media. Twitter and Instagram aren’t for geeks any more, they’re for everybody. And some of those behaviours are bleeding over into how people use Fab. All those facile status updates aren’t because people genuinely come here to talk about the weather … they’re because people instinctively know that they have to keep making new posts or else nobody sees them and clocks through to their profile. It’s about constantly making ‘content’ and being in people’s update feed. It’s the attention economy …

All that aside though, I’m still finding myself having the same one-on-one chats through Fab messages that I would have been having years ago. Just with new people. Who seem lovely so far. And I’m still going to the same clubs and parties, who are still advertising on here. So for me, I guess, the more things have changed the more they have stayed the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i blooming agree we all have preferancies but the gym bunnies m ake me giggle the most..if so perfect what you doing "looking" on here surly folks will fall at your feet.most men i have found want a real woman with curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i blooming agree we all have preferancies but the gym bunnies m ake me giggle the most..if so perfect what you doing "looking" on here surly folks will fall at your feet.most men i have found want a real woman with curves"

You don't need to insinuate that slimmer women aren't real

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

You don't need to insinuate that slimmer women aren't real"

Im real and never go near a gym. Slim ladies can be curvy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of pish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of pish."

Don't hold back doggy, say what you really think

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

I hope at some point you re-read what you posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope at some point you re-read what you posted."

Nobody wants "surly" folk falling at their feet. I much prefer them to be good humoured and cheery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope at some point you re-read what you posted.

Nobody wants "surly" folk falling at their feet. I much prefer them to be good humoured and cheery."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed a change in people's status updates, they are becoming more bitchy and negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with this.. And other comments on the pc way things are these days. I have zero time for political correctness. Its like a disease distorting the minds of the weak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a change in people's status updates, they are becoming more bitchy and negative"

That's only the ones not getting a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with this.. And other comments on the pc way things are these days. I have zero time for political correctness. Its like a disease distorting the minds of the weak. "

What has political correctness to do with not getting a shag?

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Agree with this.. And other comments on the pc way things are these days. I have zero time for political correctness. Its like a disease distorting the minds of the weak.

What has political correctness to do with not getting a shag?"

My tuppenth, has it changed well its became more accessible is that good or bad...dont know.

Political correctness distorting the minds of the weak?? Dont get this comment, it's a strong mind that challenges the status quo and sides with the minority or the ones that cannot defend them selves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a change in people's status updates, they are becoming more bitchy and negative

That's only the ones not getting a shag

ive seen ones that have indirectly slagged other members photos, other members and ive even seen what could've been taken as homophobia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed a change in people's status updates, they are becoming more bitchy and negative

That's only the ones not getting a shag

ive seen ones that have indirectly slagged other members photos, other members and ive even seen what could've been taken as homophobia"

That's probably nothing new. I don't think everyone was all sweetness and light on here in days of yore

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Might just be me but it’s changed, just not in a way I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been members continuously since around 2005. It still works for us. Not everyone is our cup of tea but those that are we usually end up meeting eventually. Some meets are days in the making and some meets have been years in the making. For us nothing has really changed on the site.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Been on 4 months, still no meets ! I understand that safety comes 1st,but can't even get social meet, Only replies I've had is from a porn site & an escort girl wtf ! Would be nice even to get a no Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has changed but that’s natural, so has everything over the last 13 years since it started due mainly in my opinion to the internet. On the plus side people can interact so easily on the negative side keyboard warriors abound.

We adapt

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By *u2suckMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

I agree. It is now more like Facebook and almost impossible to get a reply never mind set up a meeting.

It is always been difficult for single guys due to sheer numbers but now even more so I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on 4 months, still no meets ! I understand that safety comes 1st,but can't even get social meet, Only replies I've had is from a porn site & an escort girl wtf ! Would be nice even to get a no Thanks "

That's pretty standard after only 4 months to be honest.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

That's pretty standard after only 4 months to be honest."
nope the norm is join at 20.00 knee deep in clunge by 9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's pretty standard after only 4 months to be honest.nope the norm is join at 20.00 knee deep in clunge by 9"

Thing is....ironically if a guy moans on here about not getting any you know he's not a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's pretty standard after only 4 months to be honest.nope the norm is join at 20.00 knee deep in clunge by 9

Thing is....ironically if a guy moans on here about not getting any you know he's not a fake

And he's even less likely to get any for his whingeing

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife

Friendly advice, your profile is your problem, all you are to any girl looking is a load of boring txt, she'll get 100 of those a day

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By *eep.Man
over a year ago

Just a background character

Fab defo needs to change it's like a website from a bygone era. What happens when Flash dies!?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

That's pretty standard after only 4 months to be honest.nope the norm is join at 20.00 knee deep in clunge by 9

Thing is....ironically if a guy moans on here about not getting any you know he's not a fake

And he's even less likely to get any for his whingeing "
pmsl no pussy patrol for whingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab defo needs to change it's like a website from a bygone era. What happens when Flash dies!?

FLASH DIES????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love fab these days, there are so many random characters (male and female) that I love to chat with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab defo needs to change it's like a website from a bygone era. What happens when Flash dies!?

FLASH DIES????

Who’s gonna save every one of us THEN!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the posts Title .

For The Worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's great, enjoy the genuine chat, and if a meet comes out from that then great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said to someone earlier today....some days it's like Whalloper Central....and other days it's quite good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab defo needs to change it's like a website from a bygone era. What happens when Flash dies!?

FLASH DIES????

Who’s gonna save every one of us THEN!!!!

GORDONS ALIVE!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab defo needs to change it's like a website from a bygone era. What happens when Flash dies!?

FLASH DIES????

Who’s gonna save every one of us THEN!!!!

GORDONS ALIVE!!!!"

Gin??? That’ll do

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By *vcarolTV/TS
over a year ago

kilmarnockish

For me Fab hasn’t changed much in the recent time I’ve been on here. But it has changed like all things since I was here many moons ago.

The only thing that has changed is there are more people who have been here a good few years, and are older, ‘wiser’ , and don’t meet as often as they did before.

I include myself sometimes in the last wee bit, tbh.

But the social side, the meets, the differences of opinion will still go on, personally I’ve not seen the instasnappbook people on here, maybe I’m too old now to realise there about.

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By *he fun onesMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

Totally agree not sure if there is another site out there if there is let us know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally agree not sure if there is another site out there if there is let us know "

There will still be the same kind of people regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off fab for years, I haven't seen fab change it's a more a change in how I use if and my tolarance of some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very new here and have not quite taken everything in, I'm away most of the month so have not managed to meet up with anyone for a fab time. In relation to your comment tho, I've seen just as many profiles saying not skinny as not fat, not hairy or not smooth. What's by far the most common though is 'must be hung'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another of my fab oldie mates left today which is sad..he was getting more action outside of fab than on it so didnt feel the need to stay on.said it was such hard work to even get a reply from ladies it wasnt worth it.

Which is sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another of my fab oldie mates left today which is sad..he was getting more action outside of fab than on it so didnt feel the need to stay on.said it was such hard work to even get a reply from ladies it wasnt worth it.

Which is sad."

Yip same here. I get way more chat and dates of a sexier nature on other more regular dating sites. Its terribly difficult fighting your way through some folks personality barriers on here, when its just not like that elsewhere. Im just using up my remaining sub time then ill probably bin this too. Doesnt really work for guys like me on the whole. Bit of a pity really.

I think folk need to bite the bullet and meet instead of the bat and ball tennis of text messaging the initial sexy exchange into friend zoning each other. Lol

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over a year ago

I hope they do move on but the trend is for FB type site.

I've made a very few good friends over time but hardly anybody is prepared to chat and take time get to know each other. Fun can be so much better then

Maybe it's just me being out of touch??

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