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"To clarify it has only happened once with a guy off here. All other single guys have been respectful. What I meant is this single guy could ruin things for others. He has a ton of verifications as well. " How exactly could he ruin it for others? | |||
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"Single guys can only ruin it for themselves same as any other group" Got to agree | |||
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"In all the years I've been on this site it's been the couples that tend to cause the most trouble for me. The worst and most insulting messages I have had have come from couples. There are many couples who feel that they are somehow better than others or are more entitled. It's been couples who have taken exception to me when I openly state I'm not a "swinger" In general most men I've encountered have been perfectly fine. Sinderella Head of PR for single men. " | |||
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"In all the years I've been on this site it's been the couples that tend to cause the most trouble for me. The worst and most insulting messages I have had have come from couples. There are many couples who feel that they are somehow better than others or are more entitled. It's been couples who have taken exception to me when I openly state I'm not a "swinger" In general most men I've encountered have been perfectly fine. " What a delightful Lass x | |||
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"Everybody on here has the potential to be a total whalloper." Hahahahaha whalloper! Best word ever | |||
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"Everybody on here has the potential to be a total whalloper." Am more of quarter ponder type guy | |||
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"Everybody on here has the potential to be a total whalloper. Am more of quarter ponder type guy " Belter!!!! | |||
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"Everybody on here has the potential to be a total whalloper. Am more of quarter ponder type guy " How long did you ponder that one? | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards." I'm confused | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards." This is the sort of post we need the popcorn gif for. Tremendous. | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards. I'm confused " WALLPAPERS???? | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards. I'm confused WALLPAPERS????" One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards. I'm confused WALLPAPERS???? One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral " Jason, you just made me laugh | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards. I'm confused WALLPAPERS???? One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral " Left her like a painters tranny | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards. I'm confused WALLPAPERS???? One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral Jason, you just made me laugh " I don't believe you | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards. I'm confused WALLPAPERS???? One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral Left her like a painters tranny" She was overcome with emulsion | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards. I'm confused WALLPAPERS???? One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral Left her like a painters tranny She was overcome with emulsion " Hahahahahaha!!! Hahaha! | |||
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"I have since moved on from the last female who was on this profile.Was with her 3 1/2 years.( engaged ) but she thought it ok to be messaging others from here when her dad had just died. I think even having a guy from here at the funeral.mental I know. So not just a few single guys are wallapers but members of couples are too. onwards and upwards. I'm confused WALLPAPERS???? One of the guys his ex met done some decorating at her dads funeral Left her like a painters tranny She was overcome with emulsion Hahahahahaha!!! Hahaha! " You shouldn’t taint us all with the same paint brush | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ? Total shady behaviour " It’s only rude if you’re in a relationship. If your two single people that meet as a couple to play then why shouldn’t he pass on his number. Some couples play separately as well. Wouldn’t be the first time I’ve met one half of a couple on their own. Does that make me a ‘shady lady’! | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ? Total shady behaviour It’s only rude if you’re in a relationship. If your two single people that meet as a couple to play then why shouldn’t he pass on his number. Some couples play separately as well. Wouldn’t be the first time I’ve met one half of a couple on their own. Does that make me a ‘shady lady’! " we were engaged. together 3 1/2 years | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ? Total shady behaviour " So has your partner now left you for the single guy??? | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ? Total shady behaviour So has your partner now left you for the single guy??? " no I binned her after catching her messaging another guy after her dads funeral | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ? Total shady behaviour So has your partner now left you for the single guy??? Wouldn’t it be better to have a new profile if it’s a different female on it now? no I binned her after catching her messaging another guy after her dads funeral" | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ? Total shady behaviour So has your partner now left you for the single guy??? no I binned her after catching her messaging another guy after her dads funeral" so why are you on a cpls profile still? Or is this a new female? Confused.com | |||
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"So the cheebs are new cheebs not the old cheebs you traded in? And does the wee dirty who was looking for boaby at the funeral have a new account of her own by any chance? " Not that I know of but I’m sure she will soon enough. Lol | |||
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"New female on this profile now. Well great girl I was seeing before I stupidly went back to ex after thinking I could make it work. " This thread isn't exactly gonna have her feeling like a million dollars | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ? Total shady behaviour " I think vulnerable relationships might be at risk with this however every couple must assume the consequences of the MMF dynamic and ensure they are both open and honest with proceedings and how things evolve. My view is that slipping a number whether hubbs is present or not is not shady but it is up to you both to decide if it's a red flag. Sometimes the lady holds complete control to manage these situations which means cards can be slipped at any time. | |||
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"I deleted her pics and it is now basically a new profile. I had already fully paid up. So no point wasting it. " I know I wouldn’t be happy to be added on anthers profile, but hey ho if she’s ok with that then fair game to you | |||
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"'what gives single men a bad name?' Meeting some of the lunatic women on fab." This .. | |||
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"Despite explaining to single guys we befriend that we have very little free time what with work, life, families and kids and we will contact them we we have a meet planned...... Every time we pop onto fab for a wee looksee we get swamped with messages from same said guys!! Are you free? What you up to? When can I come round? Etc, etc, etc!!!!!!! So we explain to them again about our free time and it still happens the next time we log on!!! Are they stupid, cheeky, pushy or just simply goldfish??? " Why do they not have the right too ask you for a fuck ? Albeit its not my approach, but dont tarnish people who do. They are on a site for sex just like you. Whether you agree with it or not, Fab has given you the filters to eliminate that if necessary. | |||
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"The last two posters just go to prove my point!!! " What do HTBS and I prove ? | |||
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"What gives single guys a bad name is having a couples profile" Part of a new couple. Or a rekindled couple. | |||
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"I deleted her pics and it is now basically a new profile. I had already fully paid up. So no point wasting it. I know I wouldn’t be happy to be added on anthers profile, but hey ho if she’s ok with that then fair game to you" Profile pics and name has been changed but to our old profile name. | |||
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"What gives single guys a bad name is having a couples profile Part of a new couple. Or a rekindled couple. " I dont see any issue in what youve done OP .. Good luck...People should focus on what they are doing rather than others are doing | |||
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"The last two posters just go to prove my point!!! What do HTBS and I prove ? " That many single guys don’t fully read and understand what is written in profiles, messages and posts! | |||
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"The last two posters just go to prove my point!!! What do HTBS and I prove ? That many single guys don’t fully read and understand what is written in profiles, messages and posts!" I read exactly what you wrote and I replied with my opinion,that opinion had no bearing on the meat of your post but on one line of it.If you have taken offence to that then that is your issue and yours alone. You cannot lambast a group on here without expecting that group to a) comment or b) defend themselves. | |||
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"Has anyone had a meet and when the male half goes to the toilet after the meet the guy they had invited to join them tries to give the female his number ? Total shady behaviour " Quite a few times Always gets the same answer it's ok D has it | |||
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"The last two posters just go to prove my point!!! What do HTBS and I prove ? That many single guys don’t fully read and understand what is written in profiles, messages and posts!" Many people do..Sometimes what they read can appearfalse. | |||
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"Despite explaining to single guys we befriend that we have very little free time what with work, life, families and kids and we will contact them we we have a meet planned...... Every time we pop onto fab for a wee looksee we get swamped with messages from same said guys!! Are you free? What you up to? When can I come round? Etc, etc, etc!!!!!!! So we explain to them again about our free time and it still happens the next time we log on!!! Are they stupid, cheeky, pushy or just simply goldfish??? " This has happened to me with a few couples and singles. At first great chat going well, even meeting for social and more ect but then explain that I don't have time with life getting busy. Lots of messages always asking to meet and gets to the point where the attraction gets eroded away. I think these people are just being overly keen, I find it flattering but exhausting | |||
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"I dont get this. We're new but how does pretending to be a couple benefit you in meeting people? Surely someones going to notice the other half to be missing lol" Usually gives access to private pics, he rips the head off it a few times, deletes profile, creates new profile.... eat, wank, repeat..... | |||
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"Surely they should stick to porn, its less effort lol." I think some get off on the deception though and a sense of having got one over on someone. Have encountered a few. | |||
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"I deleted her pics and it is now basically a new profile. I had already fully paid up. So no point wasting it. I know I wouldn’t be happy to be added on anthers profile, but hey ho if she’s ok with that then fair game to you Profile pics and name has been changed but to our old profile name. " Ok but in 3 weeks you have had 2 partners apparently and can I ask you who are the verifications you have got 3 weeks ago was they of people you met with the old partner ? | |||
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"Biggest arseholes I've met on here are couples....." No single guys quoted your comment for fear of giving themselves "a bad name" Doggy? Its all politics and manipulation,if somebody arses up a meet for whatever reason the person or couple have been given a reason to not meet them again,in time possibly the person that arsed it up will realise they made an arse of it. Thats universal, singles/couples are capable of doing it. I would take someone trying to be sleakit and trying to arrange somthing secretively as a sign that they are desparate due to a lack of success on here and trying to create a sure thing if all other options fail. | |||
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"Guys hit on girls in the pub when they’re with their partner. Nothing changes." Do you think that's acceptable | |||
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"Guys hit on girls in the pub when they’re with their partner. Nothing changes. Do you think that's acceptable " No I’m just saying it happens in the real world too. | |||
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying. Lyibg about being single Lying about havin an 8 inch cock Lying about being able to accommodate U know the important stuff " That's why people should ask more questions. Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason | |||
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying. Lyibg about being single Lying about havin an 8 inch cock Lying about being able to accommodate U know the important stuff That's why people should ask more questions. Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason " Im sure "people" ask plenty of questions | |||
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"I would be so grateful just to be given the chance to meet " I know the feeling I was talking to a women then she just disappeared out of no were and most women just think there better than everyone else but there is some generally nice ones on here | |||
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"Makes no difference if people ask questions, they are still capable of lying " That's usually fairly quickly spotted | |||
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"Makes no difference if people ask questions, they are still capable of lying That's usually fairly quickly spotted " absolute cack | |||
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"Makes no difference if people ask questions, they are still capable of lying That's usually fairly quickly spotted absolute cack " You're maybe asking the wrong questions | |||
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"Makes no difference if people ask questions, they are still capable of lying That's usually fairly quickly spotted absolute cack You're maybe asking the wrong questions " nah people will go to all lengths on here to lie, nowt to do with me asking the right or wrong questions.. | |||
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"Makes no difference if people ask questions, they are still capable of lying That's usually fairly quickly spotted absolute cack You're maybe asking the wrong questions nah people will go to all lengths on here to lie, nowt to do with me asking the right or wrong questions.. " | |||
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying. Lyibg about being single Lying about havin an 8 inch cock Lying about being able to accommodate U know the important stuff That's why people should ask more questions. Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason " Or people could just be honest. | |||
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying. Lyibg about being single Lying about havin an 8 inch cock Lying about being able to accommodate U know the important stuff That's why people should ask more questions. Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason Or people could just be honest." It's naive to think that | |||
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying. Lyibg about being single Lying about havin an 8 inch cock Lying about being able to accommodate U know the important stuff That's why people should ask more questions. Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason Or people could just be honest. It's naive to think that " It's not naive to think that people should be honest. It is naive to think that all people are being honest all of the time. | |||
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"Everyone has potential to be an arsehole I feel men iv had crap meets with are based on them lying. Lyibg about being single Lying about havin an 8 inch cock Lying about being able to accommodate U know the important stuff That's why people should ask more questions. Although that's quite often frowned upon for some reason Or people could just be honest. It's naive to think that It's not naive to think that people should be honest. It is naive to think that all people are being honest all of the time." Agreed | |||
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"Usually not reading a profile, we've had this on our couples profile a lot. No shows is another, along with guys messaging me to try and get with my other half. There's a list " All of these, but just folk being really rude and ignorant and self entitled. I have to say that although we have had issues with single guys, all groups are guilty of these things and finding at the moment it’s more couples and single females that we are getting frustrated with atm x | |||
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