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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it normal to fall in love as a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal..? Id say if your spending a lot of time together with the same person, then why not... Me personally, nope.. I'm immune to that "l" word

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

If you both feel the same go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it can happen anywhere. me personally would always have a trust thing if I met a boyfriend or girlfriend from here but I'm married so not my worry lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Normal..? Id say if your spending a lot of time together with the same person, then why not... Me personally, nope.. I'm immune to that "l" word "

Yes! I have been spending quality time with the person in question and thanks for the word of advise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you both feel the same go for it.

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She is happily married and I am not a home wrecker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suppose it can happen anywhere. me personally would always have a trust thing if I met a boyfriend or girlfriend from here but I'm married so not my worry lol."

So I felt initially until we realised we have a lot in common. It got to a point that we only meet to catchup and no sex is involved. We seem to enjoy eachothers company a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run a country mile.

Shes married full stop right there .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Run a country mile.

Shes married full stop right there ."

That is exactly why I am confused. But I would like to agree to your point of view to run. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't really be confused as you say shes happily married so your only gonna be the loser in that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shouldn't really be confused as you say shes happily married so your only gonna be the loser in that."

I concur absolutely to that.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"If you both feel the same go for it.

She is happily married and I am not a home wrecker. "

Well only you can decide by your own moral judgement.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Suppose it can happen anywhere. me personally would always have a trust thing if I met a boyfriend or girlfriend from here but I'm married so not my worry lol.

So I felt initially until we realised we have a lot in common. It got to a point that we only meet to catchup and no sex is involved. We seem to enjoy eachothers company a lot."

Sounds more like a friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suppose it can happen anywhere. me personally would always have a trust thing if I met a boyfriend or girlfriend from here but I'm married so not my worry lol.

So I felt initially until we realised we have a lot in common. It got to a point that we only meet to catchup and no sex is involved. We seem to enjoy eachothers company a lot.

Sounds more like a friendship. "

This was my thoughts ..Enjoy the friendship

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Suppose it can happen anywhere. me personally would always have a trust thing if I met a boyfriend or girlfriend from here but I'm married so not my worry lol.

So I felt initially until we realised we have a lot in common. It got to a point that we only meet to catchup and no sex is involved. We seem to enjoy eachothers company a lot.

Sounds more like a friendship.

This was my thoughts ..Enjoy the friendship "

If i were in love i would want to tear his clothes off and have mind blowing sex every time we met.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea


"Suppose it can happen anywhere. me personally would always have a trust thing if I met a boyfriend or girlfriend from here but I'm married so not my worry lol.

So I felt initially until we realised we have a lot in common. It got to a point that we only meet to catchup and no sex is involved. We seem to enjoy eachothers company a lot.

Sounds more like a friendship.

This was my thoughts ..Enjoy the friendship

If i were in love i would want to tear his clothes off and have mind blowing sex every time we met."

Not always real love has many ways you want to express apart from sex

But op not a wise move, don’t wreck a marriage or get hurt

We always want the unobtainable as that is the lure but imagine her splitting with her husband and the knowledge it was down to you and the relationship not lasting very long

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suppose it can happen anywhere. me personally would always have a trust thing if I met a boyfriend or girlfriend from here but I'm married so not my worry lol.

So I felt initially until we realised we have a lot in common. It got to a point that we only meet to catchup and no sex is involved. We seem to enjoy eachothers company a lot.

Sounds more like a friendship.

This was my thoughts ..Enjoy the friendship

If i were in love i would want to tear his clothes off and have mind blowing sex every time we met.

Not always real love has many ways you want to express apart from sex

But op not a wise move, don’t wreck a marriage or get hurt

We always want the unobtainable as that is the lure but imagine her splitting with her husband and the knowledge it was down to you and the relationship not lasting very long "

You are blessed for that truth. I will surely not take things further with her.

Thanks a million.

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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago

Anstruther

There is many polyamorous relationships that are happy but not everyone is open to that u would need to talk about your feelings with both of them I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you can't help who you fall in love with but in the long run, you'll only hurt yourself OP. She's married, end of! Don't put yourself through the torture. I'm sure there's a lovely and very single woman out there for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who has way too much heartache and baggage from being "the other woman" my advice is to run as far as you possibly can . It will end in tears ..yours x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Folk fall in and out of love in all areas of life being a swinger dosnt change it

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"If you both feel the same go for it.

She is happily married and I am not a home wrecker. "
you are though your engaging in deception you can make as many excuses as you want

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