FabSwingers.com forum: For you Sioux my friend

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you: whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way which you alway used. Put no difference into your tone: wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effort, without the ghost of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same that it ever was: there is absolutely unbroken continuity. What is this death but a gateway? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near just around the corner. All is well."

This comforted me when I lost my partner Su, I hope in some small way it comforts you also. Here when you need me babe.

Laine xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

laine hun thank youf rom bottom of my little bitty heart hun .xxxxxxxx

i have been so wrapped up making sure my sisters an my kids are all coping that i had forgotten my self i have yet to grieve or cry so this little prayer you have written, has helped me lots just when i needed it most .

thank you my dear friend.

sioux xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

laine , that was lovely was on the phone with sioux 2day , my thoughts are with her and her family at this time as im sure are all the fab family , god bless pal , your wee leprehaun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks sham me little irish hunni mwaaaaaaaaahs xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

laine that was my mums favourite prayer

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Sorry to hear the sad news Sioux xxx

Thinking of you and here anytime you need a chat, etc

xxx Brian xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chin up sioux hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big (((Hugs))) for you Sioux.

Take care...we are all thinking of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear of your loss sioux, you are in our prayers and thoughts.

Hope this will bring comfort

When I must leave you

For a little while

Please do not grieve

And shed wild tears

And hug your sorrow to you

Through the years

But start out bravely

With a gallant smile

And for my sake

And in my name

Live on and do

All the things the same,

Feed not on your loneliness

On empty days,

But fill each waking hour

In useful ways,

Reach out your hand

In comfort and in cheer

And I will in turn will comfort you

And hold you near

And never, never

Be afraid to die

For I am waiting for you in the sky!

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By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

sioux hun, sorry to hear the news hun

both thinking of you at this time

Kev and Amanda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our thoughts are with you at this sad time, take care

Bonny n Steve xx big hug xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from myself and my family i would like to thank you all for your words and prayers for the passing of my dad whom i lost yesterday for those that didnt know .

your words of kindness are greatly appreciated at this time .

lot sof luv sioux xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

((((((((((( Sioux)))))))))))))

hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with tears that slowly trickle

a heart that feels so bare

remember all gd memories

you will always feel him near

hugs n kisses sioux xxxxxx

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By *epburn69Woman
over a year ago

aberdeen

"from myself and my family i would like to thank you all for your words and prayers for the passing of my dad whom i lost yesterday for those that didnt know .

your words of kindness are greatly appreciated at this time .

lot sof luv sioux xxxx"

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By *epburn69Woman
over a year ago

aberdeen

So sorry to hear that you have lost your dad,I lost my dad suddenly, the week b4 christmas in 1998,so know what your going through.Thinking of you at this difficult time,with deepest sympathy.Happy memories can be a great comfort as time goes by.Hepburn69.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending Love and Hugs.

Will light candle for you and yours.

Pixie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sending Love and Hugs.

Will light candle for you and yours.

Pixie xx "

thank you so much pocket huni mwaaaaaaaaaahs xxxxx

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By *egs4uWoman
over a year ago

somewhere around

My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family sioux hunni....sending you all extra special hugs and kisses mwahhhhhhhhhh

you know where i am if your needing anything hunni

luv ya loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our thoughts are with you Siouxx

J&J xxx

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By *ivingston_cplCouple
over a year ago

livingston

sorry to hear about ur loss so our thoughts r with u, and if u want a little something to remember him u know where the shop is xxxxxxxxxx Darren & Kirsty xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *egs4uWoman
over a year ago

somewhere around

my friend sent me this sioux when Natasha passed away, i hope it brings you comfort too hunni xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I felt an angel near today, though one I could not see

I felt an angel oh so close, sent to comfort me

I felt an angel's kiss, soft upon my cheek

And oh, without a single word of caring did it speak

I felt an angel's loving touch, soft upon my heart

And with that touch, I felt the pain and hurt within depart

I felt an angel's tepid tears, fall softly next to mine

And knew that as those tears did dry a new day would be mine

I felt an angel's silken wings enfold me with pure love

And felt a strength within me grow, a strength sent from above

I felt an angel oh so close, though one I could not see

I felt an angel near today, sent to comfort me.

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By *inesawineWoman
over a year ago

fife

Thinking of you

Mines xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Sioux,

Were both thinking of you in these sad times.

When my mum passed last month, the messages I had from friends on here really helped, nice to know so many people are there to support you. I hope all the messages above help you to come to terms with your loss.

It does get easier in time, remember the good times and be strong for the kids. XX

Steve and Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in my thoughts hunni....just lemme know if you need anything xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sioux hun im so sorry to hear the news, please accept my condolences to you and your family, if i can do anything no matter what im here hunni,

take care babe

Sassy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear your news sioux, our thoughts are with you hunni.

All our very best wishes

Greig and Lesley xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi honey xx

our thoughts are with you and your family at this time and always xxx

gill and add xxx

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

sorry to hear about your dad babes. thinking of you and yours hun with a heavy heart. try and think of the good times you all shared together and lock them safe in your hearts forever.

rhona xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sioux your wee adopted mum says she's thinking of you n sends her love ...

you know where I am loadsa love from your wee hunni xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey sioux hun sorry to hear of ur loss, u will be in our thoughts at this very sad time and if u need anything just let me no and am there in a flash.

love trish and darren xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sioux

sorry for your loss and our prayers are with you

J & Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Siouxx xxxx my very best wishes to you and your family at this very difficult time.

you take care and biggest hug xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once agian im am so touched with all the wishes of support from all my friends an fab family at this time.

poems and prayers are helping all of us at this time and i have personally read out each and every poem an words of sympathy to my sisters an our children.

thank you all so much susan & family xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sorry to hear about ur loss so our thoughts r with u, and if u want a little something to remember him u know where the shop is xxxxxxxxxx Darren & Kirsty xxxxxxxxxxxx"

cheers me hunnies an ye daz i will be needin one done for the both of them now hun thanks xxxxxx

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Echoing Laine's OP - this from Bishop Brent.

I am standing on the seashore, a ship sails and spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the ocean.

She is an object of beauty and I stand watching her till at last she fades on the horizon, and someone at my side says “she is gone”.

Gone where?

Gone from my sight that is all. She is just as large in the masts, hull and spurs, as she was when I saw her, and just as able to bear her load of living freight to its destination.

The diminished size, the total loss of sight is in me not in her, and just at the moment when someone at my side says “She is gone”.

There are others who are watching her coming, and other voices take up the glad shout “here she comes.”

And that is dying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as a person is loved and talked about... they will never be forgotten. lots of love to you all sue.. so sorry for your loss xxx allan and avril xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our thoughts are with you Sioux,

the Classys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart goes out to you Sioux. Take care and learn to remember good things always and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aw sioux sorry to here bout your dad

fug hug sent xxxxxxx

the Island club will be waiting for him am sure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all our love to you and yours sioux

thinking of you

hedo's xxxxxx

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By *assie4Couple
over a year ago

highlands

sioux our hearts go out to you xx its a hard time but we all here if u need to chat or cry xtake care hunni.JnW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear whats happened Sioux you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers hunni take care, Malc and Trac xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry about your loss our thoughts are with you hun xxxxxx

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By *ashmira2008Woman
over a year ago

renfrew

sioux ma wee friend I'm so sorry to hear of your bad news - please take care of yourself, love you to bits & know that my thoughts are with you xxxxx

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