FabSwingers.com forum: Backup plan

By *rjaffa33 OP Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you were keen on meeting a person but when you were trying to sort a meet you were told they couldnt do the same night as you because they had said they would meet someone else..... but would you be a backup if the person called off at late notice? (apparently people do this!)

Would you be ok with that?

Whilst it wouldnt be my ideal scenario....I would probably be ok providing she didnt expect me to be sitting around waiting for a call.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No chance.

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Not a hope in hell. Im nobodys back up plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am with bluebell on this one No Chance

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By *rjaffa33 OP Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Even if it was bluebell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get tae.

I'm not a plan B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Although iv had guys say when I tell them I have a social or meet that if anything happens they will be a back up?

But no iv never had a back up or would I ever be a back up to anyone

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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago

inver somewhere

Could they not have spared your feelings and say ...wont know till last min if I can make it... instead of asking you to be back up plan...

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By *rjaffa33 OP Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ooooh.... good point!!!!

A backup without even knowing it......

This question all came about from another thread where people were frustrated by last minute cancellations (or time wasters ha!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or no shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suddenly not be keen at all to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would suddenly not be keen at all to meet them "

Me too .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Loving the nope i wouldnt be a bakup.........when we all know theres plenty thirsty fuckers that would be backup to fucking an armpit

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I was a tad foolish once and may have posted on my profile that yet another useless, time wasting prick didn't turn up. The amount of offers i got to step in were countless.

Comes across really desperate to get in there like that and I'd never ever meet any of the guys thinking I'd be that needy I'll go for whoever because i gpt stood up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would suddenly not be keen at all to meet them "

Yeah, totally rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! I'd rather stay at home and watch Netflix than be someone's second choice

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