FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By *eeling hot hot hot OP Couple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us"
you can report them I'm sure..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly it will never stop on here though.... Totally saddos that let people down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us"

The same person?

It would be helpful to have a function like that but I imagine it would be misused with folk bad mouthing for the sake of it.

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By *eeling hot hot hot OP Couple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

"Sadly it will never stop on here though.... Totally saddos that let people down... "

Just really annoying, get hair nails and makeup done. House spotless and they send you a message a hour before they are supposed to arrive saying that they have to work late.

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By *eeling hot hot hot OP Couple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us

The same person?

You're probably right.

Just seems to happen all the time. Think that we will just stick to club meets

It would be helpful to have a function like that but I imagine it would be misused with folk bad mouthing for the sake of it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly it will never stop on here though.... Totally saddos that let people down...

Just really annoying, get hair nails and makeup done. House spotless and they send you a message a hour before they are supposed to arrive saying that they have to work late."
annoying, just sad individuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reason me n hubby stopped meeting cpls...too many fantasist.

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By *r humanMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Think that great idea time some thing done all time waster and fake on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes is better to look for single msles

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By *eeling hot hot hot OP Couple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us

The same person?

Not the same person you do that to us once and you're blocked

It would be helpful to have a function like that but I imagine it would be misused with folk bad mouthing for the sake of it."

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By *eeling hot hot hot OP Couple
over a year ago

Ardrossan

"Sometimes is better to look for single msles

One was a single male!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never nice to be let down when you've made the effort...but maybe it was a genuine excuse.

Also..if someone decides they dont want sex no matter if its an hour before or whatever..they have the right to decline. No meams No.

Move on from it OP and good luck with your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes is better to look for single msles

Single guys let people down too!

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Achhh we have all been there. Fantasist and bottle merchants.

Maybe it was a genuine reason but work late on a Saturday ..mmmm

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I got called a time waster the other night because I told someone who was 300miles away that I didn’t think meeting was going to work. He got huffy Mc huffy face and then when I lol’d at his huffyness got abuse and called a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's never nice to be let down when you've made the effort...but maybe it was a genuine excuse.

Also..if someone decides they dont want sex no matter if its an hour before or whatever..they have the right to decline. No meams No.

Move on from it OP and good luck with your search

This . People are allowed to change their minds too . An hour before isn't lots of time but it's also not as bad as just not showing up .

You still have each other .

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

ahh it happens.. often these fantasists disappear off fab..good riddens!

Hopefully you weren't left stood up at some place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d always have a back up but tell the back up he was the back up if you got me . As a single female or couple it’s not a difficult thing to arrange I’d imagine

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By *ifeslut90Couple
over a year ago

inverkeithing

I'm currently sat all dressed up horny with no place to go. Looks like I've got a now show

Frustrating as fuck and sadly will always be a part of online meets

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"I’d always have a back up but tell the back up he was the back up if you got me . As a single female or couple it’s not a difficult thing to arrange I’d imagine

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Ive started to do this,as long as the person is aware they are a back up and are ok with it ,as 3 times this week we have been let down after 3 months on here this is the worst week ,as its been ok so far ,all since ive dropped my age range to cover under 40s ,might change back ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens far too often and can actually be a total confidence killer. I’ve been dressed in suspenders waiting at the top of my stairs and it was a no show. I’ve had some awful excuses from “sorry I slept in” to “I had to pop into town to get my daughter a hair band” (not joking). As most have said, it will happen from time to time it really sucks! L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be A RATE THE DATE BUTTON, not name and shame lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

My time is too precious to be wasted but sadly many are only here for the chase. People with no balls should stick to facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg. Is 'fantasists' and 'bottler' the words used to berate on here? Haha. Calling someone a bottler is basically bullying and pressuring. Right? Bullying and pressuring someone into sex. Do we all know what that's called? The fucking weird twisted morals on here. No matter who it is. Couple. Male. Female. TV/TS or fucking furry. No matter if you took 12 hours and painted yourself in gold fucking leaf. If your planning or in the middle of sex. If someone changes their mind. Then who the hell are any of us to ever refuse that request. No means no. Stop means stop. Quite sickened by the prevailing attitudes here.

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By *ast RolloMan
over a year ago

glasgow west

i agree that there are alot of fantasists on here but thats like any swing site and the time wasters spoil it for the real folk who do meet when they say they will

i for one will all ways meet when i say i will as i know folk go to some lengths to get ready.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Should there be something opposite to verifications when people arrange meets then let you down last minute. That's 3 time's now it's happened to us"

At least you're compensated by the amount of fun you've had thru your many meets on here.

Joking aside, I'm the complete opposite in that I've had more no shows than actual meets, even users who shamelessly post on forums about no shows.

Love karma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t even get the chance to not turn up. I I did I would definitely show anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the nature of the beast on here I’m afraid.

Although I can’t say we’ve ever been stood up or let down.

And it certainly wouldn’t stop us from having fun if we were.

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By *aledonianDoranMan
over a year ago

fife

"Omg. Is 'fantasists' and 'bottler' the words used to berate on here? Haha. Calling someone a bottler is basically bullying and pressuring. Right? Bullying and pressuring someone into sex. Do we all know what that's called? The fucking weird twisted morals on here. No matter who it is. Couple. Male. Female. TV/TS or fucking furry. No matter if you took 12 hours and painted yourself in gold fucking leaf. If your planning or in the middle of sex. If someone changes their mind. Then who the hell are any of us to ever refuse that request. No means no. Stop means stop. Quite sickened by the prevailing attitudes here.

I've been with quite a few girls that no didn't mean no and stop didn't mean stop!! I'm confused now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to many are fakes or timewasters,say they wanna meet but just chat or disappear when wanna make sure there who they are as in ph call,they diasappear

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Sadly it will never stop on here though.... Totally saddos that let people down... "

Yes i agree

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Some butes of answers here ,All angles covered in a spectrum of opinions

Always good to know if I ever visit the central belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a fairly new guy on here I cant yet comment in my experience but from early on I can tell that yes, some on here like the chat and like to be told how amazing they look but dont want to go any further. I'm talking about the ladies on here.

An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes yes yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a fairly new guy on here I cant yet comment in my experience but from early on I can tell that yes, some on here like the chat and like to be told how amazing they look but dont want to go any further. I'm talking about the ladies on here.

An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!!

You won't get women to do what Simon says with that attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!!

You won't get women to do what Simon says with that attitude "

Just an observation of my time so far.

Now dont get me wrong. I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush. I have spoke to a few genuine girls on here.

I'm only saying it's annoying when you think your getting somewhere and they disappear into the abyss.

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over a year ago

An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!!

You won't get women to do what Simon says with that attitude

Just an observation of my time so far.

Now dont get me wrong. I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush. I have spoke to a few genuine girls on here.

I'm only saying it's annoying when you think your getting somewhere and they disappear into the abyss.

Try to focus less on the goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An Amazon type rating would be good. Was the delivery on time? 1 star!!!

You won't get women to do what Simon says with that attitude

Just an observation of my time so far.

Now dont get me wrong. I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush. I have spoke to a few genuine girls on here.

I'm only saying it's annoying when you think your getting somewhere and they disappear into the abyss.

Try to focus less on the goal "

Well I never, do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has feck all to do with who you meet or dont nor whether they let you down or not.

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

It might be open to abuse but surely a rating system or way of reporting no shows would be better and maybe cut down the problem. I can kinda accept people ghosting me after we’ve chatted, but agreeing to meet and then not showing.....nah

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"It might be open to abuse but surely a rating system or way of reporting no shows would be better and maybe cut down the problem. I can kinda accept people ghosting me after we’ve chatted, but agreeing to meet and then not showing.....nah "

Like Uber ?

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

A fantastic idea as it will separate the wheat from the chaf.

We too have had so many people waste our time and to have some way of black marking them would certainly help X

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By *irigraMan
over a year ago

glenrothes

I’m my couples profile we chatted to a verified couple for over 2mths and they asked for a daytime meet but we were working so took the day off and you guessed it the night before blocked us wtf

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