FabSwingers.com forum: Single ladies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So the dynamic of single ladies is understandably different to couples.

What we're struggling to grasp is how exactly do single woman want to interact?

Do you want long chats and social meets or is it more just hook up and go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was going to be a Beyonce thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought this was going to be a Beyonce thread!

That is funny

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Always a social first although i have to admit these on a few occassions have ended up in the bedroom even though it was not my initial intention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the dynamic of single ladies is understandably different to couples.

What we're struggling to grasp is how exactly do single woman want to interact?

Do you want long chats and social meets or is it more just hook up and go?

Not a single female but those I've spoke to prefer some chats and a social meet or two. Nothing too long and drawn out or you're in danger of losing that initial spark. Hook up and go has the effect of leaving some folk feeling like they're basically a plaything for a couple. But then again, that works for some.

So, to answer your question, I don't know

....everyone I've spoke to feels slightly different.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Probably not a straight forward answer to this as everyone has different opinions.

Personally prefer some chat then a social just to make sure we are comfortable with each other then take it from there

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

How would you like it if you were single ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not sure really.

A side issue is we suspect a few single female profiles are fakes in someway, even ones with a picture verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past iv done straight to sex after a few messages...now too many loons about on here so I chat more then always a social meet then only if theres a spark will I meet again for sex.

Social meet to me is a quick coffee and a chat.

Meeting with my hubby tho as a cpl...its chat on here then meet for sex.

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By *eachy400Woman
over a year ago

Muiravonside

For me I like a bit of chat first then a social drink followed by a meet if there’s a mutual attraction

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

I'm rubbish at online chat. If the attraction is there and you're pretty sure after exchanging a few messages that you can hold a conversation in real life I'm up for meeting for a social and just see what happens from there.

I find the chat fizzles out usually, if you don't sort meet soon.

I don't often have first meets anymore though and get to know most people at parties and clubs. If we get on there, we'll organise a meet just between us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don’t stand people up.. I’ve missed out on Pringles after missing her at after8 and regret it still

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By *ltKittyWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally, I prefer to message back and forth then organise a social before having any fun to make sure everyone gets on without any issues.

Everyone's different which makes it hard, though going to events or clubs is another good way to meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the dynamic of single ladies is understandably different to couples.

What we're struggling to grasp is how exactly do single woman want to interact?

Do you want long chats and social meets or is it more just hook up and go?

The females I’ve met want to respected and have fun and not just be used as a fuxk toy and then cast aside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was going to be a Beyonce thread!

That is funny

Ah come on it wasn't that bad.

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By *uffinMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Its a bit funny that women dont want to be used as fuck toys when in actual fact if they actually do want to meet rather than type for hours in chat they actually find a man to use as a dildo replacement fuck toy.

Its always a bit rich that women dont get thats this is a sex hookup site. Few are fit athletes and 6 pack hungs.

Those who do use the site im not getting at you and im sure the bi females on here have the same problems with timewasters and elitests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the dynamic of single ladies is understandably different to couples.

What we're struggling to grasp is how exactly do single woman want to interact?

Do you want long chats and social meets or is it more just hook up and go?

The females I’ve met want to respected and have fun and not just be used as a fuxk toy and then cast aside "

To be fair, I've spoke to single men who feel the same with regards to their dealings with couples.

Know your worth and all that.... Nobody should be left feeling like shite.

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