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By *atureshywife OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

why is it some guys ect cant take the word no if guy replys to me and its not what iam looking for i reply sorry no thanks hope you find what your looking for bye ... then it starts the reply your a rude female ect ect is it that a no is not a no

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

In fairness a very small percentage are rude when i say "no thank you". Mostly they thank me for the reply which i think is lovely.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Its not a male preserve ive had fems cant believe i turn them down then its hell hath no fury

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Some people are just pricks.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"why is it some guys ect cant take the word no if guy replys to me and its not what iam looking for i reply sorry no thanks hope you find what your looking for bye ... then it starts the reply your a rude female ect ect is it that a no is not a no "

Saw on your profile you're looking for pushy, forward males. Maybe their misinterpreting what you wrote.

Nice pics, btw

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By *atureshywife OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

no they are told a no thank you hope you find what your looking for my first reply then if they reply again they are told a no is a no in any sentance no is no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's very little point getting wound up about it. Ignore them or block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply no thanks if they message again it's a no thanks after that it gets ignored then deleted.

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By *atureshywife OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"In fairness a very small percentage are rude when i say "no thank you". Mostly they thank me for the reply which i think is lovely."
yes this is ture also to my self its just the few but it is not fair on male or female on fab or in the street and its important for every one to remember a no is a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In fairness a very small percentage are rude when i say "no thank you". Mostly they thank me for the reply which i think is lovely. yes this is ture also to my self its just the few but it is not fair on male or female on fab or in the street and its important for every one to remember a no is a no "

In this situation it's within your control to stop them being insistent

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By *atureshywife OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"In fairness a very small percentage are rude when i say "no thank you". Mostly they thank me for the reply which i think is lovely. yes this is ture also to my self its just the few but it is not fair on male or female on fab or in the street and its important for every one to remember a no is a no

In this situation it's within your control to stop them being insistent "
yip i do block them not saying all about me just the point to every one that a no is no and for who ever are replying to any profile or any one that meets on the streets bar ect rant over keep safe / happy enjoy life

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Block them. End of story x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was called an asshole this morning...just laugh it off.

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By *atureshywife OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I was called an asshole this morning...just laugh it off."
not up set nor angry just saying all gen people know the meaning of the words no is no

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Usually they are fine. Last nasty one called me a desperate human. Has a good ole LOL at that one

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By *eviantgent79Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We get plenty of odd and rude messages, in a way it helps filter out the twats early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No always means no.

If they can’t take it that’s their problem. Not yours!

Don’t ignore or delete..... just block.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily only had a few arsey replies.

Delete and block. I'd be more upset if someone spoke to me like that in real life but on here it's not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was called an asshole this morning...just laugh it off. not up set nor angry just saying all gen people know the meaning of the words no is no "

Didn't say you where upset or angry???

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By *outhside42Man
over a year ago

shawlands

I think it is nice to get a no thankyou, rather than just deleted

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I rarely reply to people I'm not interested in now, not that I've had many arsey replies, just that I can't be bothered opening a door to future dialogue with someone I'm not interested in.

I'll usually reply if they've written a decent message rather than a one liner, although the 'thanks for the reply' reply isn't necessary.

I completely ignore the ones that demand a reply back. I'll decide if I reply, thanks. And if they'd bother to read the FAQs then they'd know that not replying isn't rude. But they don't.

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By *hrekfionaCouple
over a year ago

Leven

We have had 2 guys now, have atleast 3 different accounts on here just to try message Fiona, report them all to fab but not much can be done. Dont know how many times we have to say NO!

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By *hickEdinMaleMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I think it is nice to get a no thankyou, rather than just deleted"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t realise women said no. Never happened to me before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not a male preserve ive had fems cant believe i turn them down then its hell hath no fury"

Yup I agree with this. Even got blocked because I was unable to take a cpl up on an offer coz I said sorry I was at work unable to get away

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By *lasgowguy1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Matureshy, I think it's so wrong when guys send abusive replies after rejection.

We, guys, aren't always the choice you lady's would make.

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By *atureshywife OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I was called an asshole this morning...just laugh it off. not up set nor angry just saying all gen people know the meaning of the words no is no

Didn't say you where upset or angry??? "
no sorry it neva ment to come out that way i was just saying i was not angry ect sorry if you thought that by the people who cant take no as no

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If a guy kicks off or wont accept a person's not interested, then it just confirms you're right to turn them down .They certainly wouldn't be someone you'd ever want to meet face to face with those traits! MAJOR red flags in my book.

Fortunately these reactions are in the minority and most of the time the guy couldn't be more polite and just appreciates the fact you've replied.

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By *cothereMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"I think it is nice to get a no thankyou, rather than just deleted"

I have to agree but for guys this does not seem to happen very often.

I also don't see the point of sending nasty replies.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I think it is nice to get a no thankyou, rather than just deleted"

Yup, pushiest I get is probably just a “thanks for the decline” and “just message if you change your mind”.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Sorry hear you suffered any abuse of any kind op there is enough for everyone's taste I'm sure here on fab and if here should expect that will not always be what others want and accept that.

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