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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it weird to go to a nightclub on my own ? Advice and thoughts please ....

I had planned a night out with a mate but he’s cancelled last min playing going out in fife ... and I was well excited so is it weird to go on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a nightclub myself before twice. But to be fair I was too hammered to care. Had a good time though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not weird at all. My mum thinks it's strange that I go to the cinema by myself. I'm a grown woman, why not? There lots of people who do it and it's sheer bliss getting lost in a film having a drink and popcorn all to yourself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am really nervous was either going to go to Glenrothes or Kirkcaldy.... but so nervous of being in a pub my self then in a club also how the hell do u approach a lassie if ur on ur own and she’s with ppl

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"It's not weird at all. My mum thinks it's strange that I go to the cinema by myself. I'm a grown woman, why not? There lots of people who do it and it's sheer bliss getting lost in a film having a drink and popcorn all to yourself x"

I’m the same. I’m on a 2 day thing in Edinburgh for work and just booked a room so I could just stay over. Went out a wander, went for food then came back and relaxed. It’s good sometimes not having to discuss what’s for dinner or which way to go.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Am really nervous was either going to go to Glenrothes or Kirkcaldy.... but so nervous of being in a pub my self then in a club also how the hell do u approach a lassie if ur on ur own and she’s with ppl "

Try and start chatting to them as a group maybe before talking to her on her own

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By *anarkshireguy10885Man
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Anyone abt cumbernauld

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I go out myself all the time.. Usually Glenrothes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go out myself all the time.. Usually Glenrothes"

Why don’t we meet for a drink tomorrow night then Glenrothes or kdy ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not weird at all. My mum thinks it's strange that I go to the cinema by myself. I'm a grown woman, why not? There lots of people who do it and it's sheer bliss getting lost in a film having a drink and popcorn all to yourself x

How is Edinburgh the night for u x

I’m the same. I’m on a 2 day thing in Edinburgh for work and just booked a room so I could just stay over. Went out a wander, went for food then came back and relaxed. It’s good sometimes not having to discuss what’s for dinner or which way to go. "

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"I go out myself all the time.. Usually Glenrothes

Why don’t we meet for a drink tomorrow night then Glenrothes or kdy ? Xx"

Working im afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go out myself all the time.. Usually Glenrothes

Why don’t we meet for a drink tomorrow night then Glenrothes or kdy ? Xx

Working im afraid"

Can u send me a message... it won’t allow me to send u a private one xx

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"I go out myself all the time.. Usually Glenrothes

Why don’t we meet for a drink tomorrow night then Glenrothes or kdy ? Xx

Working im afraid

Can u send me a message... it won’t allow me to send u a private one xx"

Your under my age limit.. Thats why..

Anything you want to know? I dont meet anyone too local

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By *ugyukMan
over a year ago

dundee

Singling and mingling here

Aint it great shopping at 2am in tescos without a care in the world

??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not weird at all. My mum thinks it's strange that I go to the cinema by myself. I'm a grown woman, why not? There lots of people who do it and it's sheer bliss getting lost in a film having a drink and popcorn all to yourself x"

Love going to the cinema alone always good to come out relaxed and less stabby after watching a movie with out the “who’s that” “what did they say” and let’s not get started on the loud eating lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the cinema myself too!!

No big deal I'm there to see the movie not chat.

Out for a drink or a meal helk no I dont even walk into a bar myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not weird at all. My mum thinks it's strange that I go to the cinema by myself. I'm a grown woman, why not? There lots of people who do it and it's sheer bliss getting lost in a film having a drink and popcorn all to yourself x

Love going to the cinema alone always good to come out relaxed and less stabby after watching a movie with out the “who’s that” “what did they say” and let’s not get started on the loud eating lol"

And there's always one who still has their phone on, eiher texting or on Facebook! What's the point in coming to the cinema? They can do that at home ffs lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like going out by myself if I'm away somewhere, although dinner on your own is a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the cinema on my own.

Would be happy to go for a glass of wine on my own with a good book though as a single female you'd most likely get a few odd looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to work, I travel and dine on my own a lot. In the age of the mobile and Kindle it isn't an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (J) used to work away all the time (S still does) and I used to always go for a meal on my own.

I used to make sure there was a bar in the hotel so that I didn’t have to venture far.

It didn’t bother me tbh

And I love going to the cinema on my own.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know about going out clubbing on my own though.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been to gigs on my own, next one is in Glasgow next year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been clubbing alone but I go to gigs and the cinema on my own all the time now, wish I'd done it earlier tbh. Missed out on a lot cause my friends had different interests, nothing wrong with going somewhere on your own I'd say. Just be sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not been clubbing alone but I go to gigs and the cinema on my own all the time now, wish I'd done it earlier tbh. Missed out on a lot cause my friends had different interests, nothing wrong with going somewhere on your own I'd say. Just be sensible "

Your last tip is the hardest part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enjoy the cinema on my own.

Would be happy to go for a glass of wine on my own with a good book though as a single female you'd most likely get a few odd looks."

Go where folk don't know you

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By *0LaM0nTezWoman
over a year ago

Outer Bumblefuck

I would have no hesitation in going to a gig or cinema on my own but definitely not a nightclub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of folk go out in their own, I can easily go out to certain places in my own and guarantee to bump into loads of old friends and folk I know but the choice is do I want to, sometimes it’s nice to just go somewhere new and people watch

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By *atureshywifeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"It's not weird at all. My mum thinks it's strange that I go to the cinema by myself. I'm a grown woman, why not? There lots of people who do it and it's sheer bliss getting lost in a film having a drink and popcorn all to yourself x"

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