FabSwingers.com forum: What You Look at When You View A Profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What You Look at When You View A Profile

I've been away for a few years and came back recently and looked on a few profiles and there is quite a bit of depth to them, which I enjoyed. Few years back I felt a lot of profile just had a sentence or two.

What do you look for when looking at a profile, the pictures, the location, the age range, the main profile text etc...

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I pretty much scrutinise the whole profile

If neither accommodate then why message? If neither match the other's requirements then why message? I also look at how long they have been on the site. Longest I've seen is 10 years with no verifications!

That's just a few things I look for. So much more, but don't want to give all my secrets away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures

Age

Verifications.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Height

Text

Pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height, verifications, location and pictures. Then read the text, if it’s too long or full of demands then don’t go any further

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I look at everything but I confess if there is a lot written and it doesn't keep my attention I just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Countless dick pics make me think....."dick" funnily enough. Occasionally the profile blurb gets me beyond that though and I'm willing to give someone a chance.

Hyperbolic verifications are instant swerve for me too.

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By *ddie_westMan
over a year ago

bellshill

Height what it with woman looking for tall guys lol

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Height, verifications, location and pictures. Then read the text, if it’s too long or full of demands then don’t go any further"

I can't imagine there would be many male profiles with a list of demands.

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By *ittlemissnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Height what it with woman looking for tall guys lol "

Personally I like someone to tower over me, not the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height, verifications, location and pictures. Then read the text, if it’s too long or full of demands then don’t go any further

I can't imagine there would be many male profiles with a list of demands.

Lol it’s mainly couples profiles that have that.

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By *ddie_westMan
over a year ago

bellshill

So the wee guys loss out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Niche market.....start your own site FabWeeFolk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the wee guys loss out lol "
with me...yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

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oofft familiar look no family ffs lol that would be weird

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Any indication of being a twat

Big cocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures

Height

Verifications

Profile text

It’s like the apprentice - each aspect is a hurdle to get over

Too many dick pictures .... fired

Not tall enough ... fired

Verifications - either on for years and none or some that just raise flags ..... fired

Profile text is empty or full of CAPS, txt spk or is ranty / full of entitlement..... fired

It’s a hell of a process lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

oofft familiar look no family ffs lol that would be weird

Aye....pumping your cousin is not a mistake you want to repeat.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually used to go to some socials with my cousin ...but thats another topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually used to go to some socials with my cousin ...but thats another topic

Do you have 6 fingers?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So the wee guys loss out lol "

Not at all as my 5ft 10 female friend was quite happy with her 5ft 5 boyfriend for quite a few years. Just because i like taller guys than myself does not mean everyone feels the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually used to go to some socials with my cousin ...but thats another topic

Do you have 6 fingers?

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erm...maybe

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By *ddie_westMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"Niche market.....start your own site FabWeeFolk...

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the wee yin’s need it too lol

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By *ddie_westMan
over a year ago

bellshill

"So the wee guys loss out lol

Not at all as my 5ft 10 female friend was quite happy with her 5ft 5 boyfriend for quite a few years. Just because i like taller guys than myself does not mean everyone feels the same."
each to there own

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

oofft familiar look no family ffs lol that would be weird

Aye....pumping your cousin is not a mistake you want to repeat....."

Emmmm.... I have two cousins who married each other

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Profile text

Pics

Age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually first thing wld be the content of text ,then see the last time they were verified always chat with people who are verified in person I do ,I look to see if the last time they posted a pic if it's over a year alarm bells ring and I leave but generally I always scrutinize the lot , I'm a slow builder I do like smash n grab meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry! (Backs awkwardly out of the thread.. ...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry! (Backs awkwardly out of the thread.. ...)"
what you done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry! (Backs awkwardly out of the thread.. ...) what you done

I need to learn to reply and quote

...I was referring to the post about 2 cousins marrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry! (Backs awkwardly out of the thread.. ...) what you done

I need to learn to reply and quote

...I was referring to the post about 2 cousins marrying."
. Ahhh I see got you now ,there's alot of it about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry! (Backs awkwardly out of the thread.. ...) what you done

I need to learn to reply and quote

...I was referring to the post about 2 cousins marrying.. Ahhh I see got you now ,there's alot of it about

Shagging cousins or being a dolly cunt and not quoting properly?

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By *xybumWoman
over a year ago

East Kilbride

"What You Look at When You View A Profile

What do you look for when looking at a profile, the pictures, the location, the age range, the main profile text etc..."

You telling porkies Pete?? You have only been away a few months not years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What You Look at When You View A Profile

What do you look for when looking at a profile, the pictures, the location, the age range, the main profile text etc...

You telling porkies Pete?? You have only been away a few months not years...

Neigh way man? Somebody telling fibs on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm galloping over to another thread this 1 is giving me de ja vu

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By *atureshywifeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *atureshywifeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

Class not crass

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By *atureshywifeWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

FULL PROFILE AND VERIFICATIONS ECT ECT AND VERIFICATIONS OF WHO THE PEOPLE HAVE MET ECT .. SORRY ABOUT THE CAP LETTERS KEY BOARD FAULT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FULL PROFILE AND VERIFICATIONS ECT ECT AND VERIFICATIONS OF WHO THE PEOPLE HAVE MET ECT .. SORRY ABOUT THE CAP LETTERS KEY BOARD FAULT"

I AGREE! 400 BOABIE PICS ARE A NON STARTER TOO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Class not crass"

...and a wee bit of crack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FULL PROFILE AND VERIFICATIONS ECT ECT AND VERIFICATIONS OF WHO THE PEOPLE HAVE MET ECT .. SORRY ABOUT THE CAP LETTERS KEY BOARD FAULT

I AGREE! 400 BOABIE PICS ARE A NON STARTER TOO.hahaha yes that's the full on effect ,believe it or no that's all I get ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FULL PROFILE AND VERIFICATIONS ECT ECT AND VERIFICATIONS OF WHO THE PEOPLE HAVE MET ECT .. SORRY ABOUT THE CAP LETTERS KEY BOARD FAULT

I AGREE! 400 BOABIE PICS ARE A NON STARTER TOO.

399 ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FULL PROFILE AND VERIFICATIONS ECT ECT AND VERIFICATIONS OF WHO THE PEOPLE HAVE MET ECT .. SORRY ABOUT THE CAP LETTERS KEY BOARD FAULT

I AGREE! 400 BOABIE PICS ARE A NON STARTER TOO.hahaha yes that's the full on effect ,believe it or no that's all I get ????????

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By *otrock-cplCouple
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Verifications firstly and then we read there profile from start to finish and then yet again and if there like us that there profile is light hearted then that's for us.

We can't stand these portentous profiles that big themselves up.

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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

"Class not crass

...and a wee bit of crack

Yes but not the cocaine type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at everything, if I’m considering meeting someone then vetting (not a nice word but it’ll do

) is important.

Interestingly I find 99% of messages I get have either not read or ignored my profile. For some strange reason volume of messages is in direct proportion to pictures on my public gallery... coincidence???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What You Look at When You View A Profile

What do you look for when looking at a profile, the pictures, the location, the age range, the main profile text etc...

You telling porkies Pete?? You have only been away a few months not years...

Nicely outed Sexy. Don't know how I missed you!

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Sorry! (Backs awkwardly out of the thread.. ...)"

I come from a really large family - 80 full cousins and who knows how many in the next two generations so there are lots of different characters and relationships.

Often thought of writing a novel or soap opera based on them, be more dramatic than Eastenders!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age

Location

Pictures..

I dont care too much about whats written in text or verifications.

I would evaluate in conversation/messages ..IF i was inclined too possibly meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comments from the OP on everyone's answeres to his post?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No comments from the OP on everyone's answeres to his post?."

cos he's been outed as a bit of a fibber!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never stopped him before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never stopped him before

I will always be honest with you Oldie.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Perve over the pics, read the text. Try to see if there's something of a personality to strike a conversation.

If full of do's/don't or a long essay, then I skip the whole profile.

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By *arth_dragon4Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

For me it’s usually blurb, pics then verifications

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I check out the entire profile if I'm just being nosy. If I'm looking at a profile with a possible mind to actually contacting them, I first check if they're a smoker. If not, then I'll look to see if we fit each other's preferences and interests, then read their blurb, and finally look at their pics if nothing in the blurb puts me off. I'm not bothered about stats like height/size/tatts etc. It's good if someone has verifications but I'm not majorly fussed to read them.

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By *illy7239Man
over a year ago

Stenhousemuir

6ft3 #justsaying

lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

You werent away long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You werent away long"

Like the song goes...."How can I miss you, if you won't go away..."

Or my other favourite "I still miss you baby (But my aim's getting better)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phwoaaar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phwoaaar

Phwoaaarrrrrrrr x 100000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who doesn’t list likes/dislikes. I understand the nature of it but it’s a massive turn off for me. I try to avoid negativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phwoaaar

"
play it cool now doggy play it cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phwoaaar

play it cool now doggy play it cool

I humping the arm of the suite when I wrote that.....got it out my system now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phwoaaar

play it cool now doggy play it cool

I humping the arm of the suite when I wrote that.....got it out my system now

Haha liessssss!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phwoaaar

play it cool now doggy play it cool

I humping the arm of the suite when I wrote that.....got it out my system now

Haha liessssss!!!!!

"
it's not..she sent me a pic ...poor sofa is soaking now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it a 3 seater?? I'll sit in the middle of you two

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By *T1980Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

Whats a family look? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it a 3 seater?? I'll sit in the middle of you two

....awwww.....ffs ...you've set me off again.....That's the pouffe getting it now.

I'll need to get the Febreeze out before Mr gets home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

Whats a family look? lol

That wee guy playing the banjo in Deliverance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

Whats a family look? lol

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well according to doggy...having 6 fingers

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By *T1980Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

Whats a family look? lol

well according to doggy...having 6 fingers

lol knowing doggy that extra finger might come in handy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

Whats a family look? lol

well according to doggy...having 6 fingers

lol knowing doggy that extra finger might come in handy lol x"

.....for the banjo playing....

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By *T1980Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oops forgot...

Whether the txt has a family look to it..

Ie.

New profile or returning nuicence

Whats a family look? lol

well according to doggy...having 6 fingers

lol knowing doggy that extra finger might come in handy lol x

.....for the banjo playing....

.... you love a wee fiddl with a banjo lol x

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