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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was speaking with a cpl tonight about a possible meet, all going well, I saw they were looking for MMF fun and while chatting I asked if it was just MMF fun they were looking for? I was asking this as when I attended a previous meet before like this, the couple told me they were expecting another guy later, so wanted to clarify this, but they replied that I was suggesting something out of order....I never suggested anything! It was just a question to try to make sure it didn't happen again...now 5mins after accepting me as a friend they blocked me?

Some ppl don't give ppl a chance on here, too feckin quick to judge folk!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they thought you were chancing your arm hinting about maybe just you and the fem?

does happen if i had a penny for everytime a single guy asked do you ever play alone?,,,or have you got a fem friend ? or do you do ffm with guys other than your husband?

not sayn you were just sayn maybe they thought you were going down that route?

auds xx

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

People change there minds for all sorts of reasons , dont be despondant , move on and enjoy the experiences that come your way, we cant please all of the people all of the time.

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By *abyblueeyes44Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

ive never bn in this situation so cant make comment ...xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They think i'm a sleeze now for the wrong reasons! I wish someone would have the guts to mail them for me to explain, I don't like ppl thinking the wrong things for the wrong reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone blocks u then they simply aint worth knowing....just pick yourself up n move on .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

wouldn't let it bother you.

I've just had a guy mail me, obviously thinking I'd be impressed by him telling me that he'd met a girl on here who is a friend of mine.

When I replied to tell him that actually I thought it was wrong that he was blabbing and that who she had met was her business and that he had no respect for her privacy .... the reply I got was:

That I needed to grow up and I was being childing ..

Response.... None.. he wasnt worth wasting the time it woulda taken to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lifes tough at the big school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i had a penny for everytime a single guy asked do you ever play alone?,,,or have you got a fem friend ? or do you do ffm with guys other than your husband?"

You'd have 3 pence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems theres a dispute on the abbreviations maybe u shoulda said MFM instead of MMF lol...apparently thats two bi-guys and a girl.

Dont think im attending any MMMMFMMMM anymore...ur kinda getting covered any angle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wouldn't let it bother you.

I've just had a guy mail me, obviously thinking I'd be impressed by him telling me that he'd met a girl on here who is a friend of mine.

When I replied to tell him that actually I thought it was wrong that he was blabbing and that who she had met was her business and that he had no respect for her privacy .... the reply I got was:

That I needed to grow up and I was being childing ..

Response.... None.. he wasnt worth wasting the time it woulda taken to reply "

I just had an old friend on facebook message me to tell me that a workmate of his on the rigs just informed him that he knew me and then proceeded to tell him how he knew me!!!!! The comment "see you've got a name for yourself" was made! FFS!!!!! To say I am a bit pissed off is an understatement. What made it worse is this guy who blabbed, I have never even met! My friend now wants to "chat". Yeah and I don't think!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have bad experiences on here of one kind or another. I think it's best to either keep it to ourselves or talk about it in private messages. Any complaints on profiles, status bars or forums, can come across, at times, as being unattractive or someone could be bitter.

If we are trying to meet someone, I wouldn't suggest to anyone that they bring any previous problems into focus as it MIGHT put people off.

Personally, I am just here for fun, and I'd rather not look at various moans or complaints.

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By *ohn890Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Far too many block to easily,have the conviction to chat and find out first before blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trust you......it more than likely to be a MMMMMMMMMMMMMMM in your case Paddy....cause i aint turning up lol!!!

No honestly if theyve judged and blocked you so readily it seems youve had a narrow escape....move onto better things!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking is a useful and necessary tool within the fab armoury but only to be used sparingly I feel. (You reap what you sow in this life) Willy Nilly blocking folks is nasty and made worse when things seemed to be going well.....yep move on move on move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you just learn to ignore it tbh your right some people dont give you the time of day on here,but if they dont its their loss at end of the day isnt it. they could have at least asked what you meant etc.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

People can block whoever the hell they want...

No loss to them or you...

Get over it and move on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life really is too short. My time on here has been an eye opening experience and one thing I have learned is never to let anything that has happen to me or said about me get to me.

Report if need be, block and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well cheers for all your comments guys.

Think it's time to just enjoy chattin with the normal decent folk on here like you lot

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Daisy i totally agree with u mu sentiments entirely i only block in very rare circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well cheers for all your comments guys.

Think it's time to just enjoy chattin with the normal decent folk on here like you lot "

I'd bock the fucker...shhhhhhhhh ive met him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers paddy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its their loss if you get blocked , dont worry big man im king of getting blocked

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

On the flip side, I wouldn't say being the 'king of being blocked' is something worth boasting about

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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"its their loss if you get blocked , dont worry big man im king of getting blocked "

Ive no blocked ya yet paul...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are there not lyrics to a song that go, "pick yourself up, dust yourself down and then have a wank!"

ive been blocked, dont know why, dont care. time is marchin on and im just gettin older.....

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