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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't really matter what I think in regards to what anyone else is seeking on here.

I do what works for me and anyone I meet.

So that's my perfect balance

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts???? "
it depends whats going on in my life at the time .

Sometimes Im happy with one off meets orher times I want to meet someone regular there has to be an attraction of some kind for me but not really bothered if there is a connection or not depending on circumstances at that time ie if I know its just a one off meet,however if its something more regular obviously its better with chemistry and a connection

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

To many to mention.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Im a bit of a loner and like being alone but sometimes i need male company. Not looking for anything regular but the men i choose to spend my time with are men i feel attracted to or feel i have a connection with.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I prefer to have some sort of connection with the people I meet. I like to be able to enjoy their company as well as have fun. The brain needs to be stimulated too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't really matter what I think in regards to what anyone else is seeking on here.

I do what works for me and anyone I meet.

So that's my perfect balance "

Perhaps it's the perfect reply too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts???? it depends whats going on in my life at the time .

Sometimes Im happy with one off meets orher times I want to meet someone regular there has to be an attraction of some kind for me but not really bothered if there is a connection or not depending on circumstances at that time ie if I know its just a one off meet,however if its something more regular obviously its better with chemistry and a connection "

Perfect flexibility

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To many to mention."

Try lol ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im a bit of a loner and like being alone but sometimes i need male company. Not looking for anything regular but the men i choose to spend my time with are men i feel attracted to or feel i have a connection with."

Yes agree with this a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer to have some sort of connection with the people I meet. I like to be able to enjoy their company as well as have fun. The brain needs to be stimulated too. "

Yep Falcon, the brain is the largest erogenous zone they say (I think THEY are right too )

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts???? "

That’s quite interesting as I felt very much the same when I first joined. On a spectrum of attraction where there was just pure lust without any emotional connection at one end and head lever heels in love at the other, I’d always thought I’d find most playing partners somewhere near the middle.

Enough of a connection that it enhances the sexual experience, so it’s not too impersonal, but not too near to that point where you think you could have feelings for the person.

It’s almost like the often used, cliched ‘friends with benefits’ phrase.

This hit home to me big style at my first trip to CJs. I’d had a great time, being introduced to a number of women by one of the regulars. Near the end of the night I’d gotten changed and was about to leave when a couple arrived late. The female was someone I’d been chatting to online for weeks but not met, and really had the hots for.

However, soon as I set eyes on her, I just froze, realising that I could totally fall for this girl and that’s not what this lifestyle is all about. I made my excuses and went home. That was 10 years ago and I think because of it, I’ve always managed to keep the balance ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts????

That’s quite interesting as I felt very much the same when I first joined. On a spectrum of attraction where there was just pure lust without any emotional connection at one end and head lever heels in love at the other, I’d always thought I’d find most playing partners somewhere near the middle.

Enough of a connection that it enhances the sexual experience, so it’s not too impersonal, but not too near to that point where you think you could have feelings for the person.

It’s almost like the often used, cliched ‘friends with benefits’ phrase.

This hit home to me big style at my first trip to CJs. I’d had a great time, being introduced to a number of women by one of the regulars. Near the end of the night I’d gotten changed and was about to leave when a couple arrived late. The female was someone I’d been chatting to online for weeks but not met, and really had the hots for.

However, soon as I set eyes on her, I just froze, realising that I could totally fall for this girl and that’s not what this lifestyle is all about. I made my excuses and went home. That was 10 years ago and I think because of it, I’ve always managed to keep the balance ok"

Thank you for that very open response, you’re right at many levels. Perhaps “perfect” in all things including balance is the most difficult thing to achieve xxx

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I’m perfectly unbalanced .

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts???? it depends whats going on in my life at the time .

Sometimes Im happy with one off meets orher times I want to meet someone regular there has to be an attraction of some kind for me but not really bothered if there is a connection or not depending on circumstances at that time ie if I know its just a one off meet,however if its something more regular obviously its better with chemistry and a connection

Perfect flexibility "
its called swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *indfkdWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts???? "

NSA and one off hook ups I dont need attraction or a connection its a bonus lol

Regular partner then yes we need to be attracted or have some sort of connection as it might just be sex too but it's on a different level for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts???? it depends whats going on in my life at the time .

Sometimes Im happy with one off meets orher times I want to meet someone regular there has to be an attraction of some kind for me but not really bothered if there is a connection or not depending on circumstances at that time ie if I know its just a one off meet,however if its something more regular obviously its better with chemistry and a connection

Perfect flexibility its called swinging lol "

Yes some do define it that way missus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m perfectly unbalanced . "

#oxymoron

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems to me we all seek the perfect balance when meeting someone. Fab is where we seek a "no strings attached" sexual encounter yet some seek an "attraction" or "connection", others seek a one off hook up, yet others seek a regular FWB, what are the perceived differences for you???

Thoughts????

NSA and one off hook ups I dont need attraction or a connection its a bonus lol

Regular partner then yes we need to be attracted or have some sort of connection as it might just be sex too but it's on a different level for me"

A clear definition there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer some personality,connection and attraction.Maybe some continuity ..who knows..aslong as its all uncomplicated.

Im very spontaneous, although im really not keen on one off quick fucks..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer some personality,connection and attraction.Maybe some continuity ..who knows..aslong as its all uncomplicated.

Im very spontaneous, although im really not keen on one off quick fucks..

"

Who knows, that’s the good thing about spontaneous, it can be very surprising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer some personality,connection and attraction.Maybe some continuity ..who knows..aslong as its all uncomplicated.

Im very spontaneous, although im really not keen on one off quick fucks..

Who knows, that’s the good thing about spontaneous, it can be very surprising "

Oafft ..I need a glass of water ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer some personality,connection and attraction.Maybe some continuity ..who knows..aslong as its all uncomplicated.

Im very spontaneous, although im really not keen on one off quick fucks..

Who knows, that’s the good thing about spontaneous, it can be very surprising

Oafft ..I need a glass of water .. "

Ye canny be trusted with water...

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