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By *idingdirty OP   Man
over a year ago

leven area

I treat every woman I message with respect and everyone I message either reads and deletes or read with no reply no idea if I’m doing wrong never really had much luck with women but love sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they find you boring

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By *idingdirty OP   Man
over a year ago

leven area

Thanks

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Put up some public pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I treat every woman I message with respect and everyone I message either reads and deletes or read with no reply no idea if I’m doing wrong never really had much luck with women but love sex "

Maybe they're just not into you. No one on here owes anyone a reply!

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"I treat every woman I message with respect and everyone I message either reads and deletes or read with no reply no idea if I’m doing wrong never really had much luck with women but love sex "

Sometimes it doesnt pay to be a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont waste your time on someone whos not willing to waste their time on you.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I treat every woman I message with respect and everyone I message either reads and deletes or read with no reply no idea if I’m doing wrong never really had much luck with women but love sex

Sometimes it doesnt pay to be a nice guy "

It always pays to be a nice guy

But it doesn't guarantee a fuck

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Thanks "

Don’t take that to heart my friend, she doesn’t have one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

Don’t take that to heart my friend, she doesn’t have one."

Have you not let that grudge go from your heart yet

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

I’ve never replied to anyone without an interesting profile and that includes public photos

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By *outhsider69Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Thanks

Don’t take that to heart my friend, she doesn’t have one.

Have you not let that grudge go from your heart yet "

What grudge? What heart?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put up some public pics."

Public pics

Socials

Chat room.

You need to make more of an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't come here with high expectations. If someone told you it was guaranteed to get some action then they were wrong. This is no different from dating, it's just skipping a couple of steps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I put on loads of filters and hiding some photos I was getting upward of 50 messages a day. It’s not you it’s just overwhelming and often there is no way for people to reply to them all.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Doesn't matter just what your message says. I would take one look at your profile and then ignore

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By *arlosF2019Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Put up some public pics.

Public pics

Socials

Chat room.

You need to make more of an effort."

With respect that doesnt slways work either so if people woukd just tell the truth and stop lying then no one would have any complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put up some public pics.

Public pics

Socials

Chat room.

You need to make more of an effort.

With respect that doesnt slways work either so if people woukd just tell the truth and stop lying then no one would have any complaints "

Okay. So what is the ‘truth’ ?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

You cant handle the truth.

So ya feel lucky punk well do ya

Life is like a box of choclates

Seriously though on fab you want to know if they are lying.....they are typing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before I put on loads of filters and hiding some photos I was getting upward of 50 messages a day. It’s not you it’s just overwhelming and often there is no way for people to reply to them all. "

50 messages a day and only 3 meets in a year. Be as interesting as you like OP, you have no chance! (although your profile is particularly boring).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is letting you down .

There's not anything for anyone to decide if they want to converse or not.

You're not really saying anything about what you can offer a woman, why she should talk to you over the next guy. Ultimately it's your shop window.

You need to either revamp it and add some photos or your message needs to really stand out.

Also, I think your profile name is a bit off putting too.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your profile is letting you down .

There's not anything for anyone to decide if they want to converse or not.

You're not really saying anything about what you can offer a woman, why she should talk to you over the next guy. Ultimately it's your shop window.

You need to either revamp it and add some photos or your message needs to really stand out.

Also, I think your profile name is a bit off putting too.

Good luck

"

Agreed. Though I feel am less subtle in the critique.

Your profile is a typical below average shit male profile in a very large pool of testosterone..

You have to be doing it better than the rest to get any sort of reply or repeat reply regardless of what you write in a message..

So you need to look at other male profiles. Successful ones and see what they are doing that you are not.

But!!! You won't and You will moan and leave like all the rest...

Kind regards...

Mistress Amelia

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Have you ever played a tombola at the stalls pal ,fab is like that and ladies are the prize just keep buying the tickets and and number ending in 5 will come up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put up some public pics.

Public pics

Socials

Chat room.

You need to make more of an effort.

With respect that doesnt slways work either so if people woukd just tell the truth and stop lying then no one would have any complaints "

I didn't say it would definitely work....only thing certain in life is death and taxes as they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put up some public pics.

Public pics

Socials

Chat room.

You need to make more of an effort.

With respect that doesnt slways work either so if people woukd just tell the truth and stop lying then no one would have any complaints

I didn't say it would definitely work....only thing certain in life is death and taxes as they say."

Taxes aren't certain eitger if you have a particularly bright accountant.

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

The *oh yea baby *@ no pics of any kind .is probably why you dont get an answer

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

Even with the perfect profile and good pictures it's hard for single guys to meet people, since there are so many of you. You're probably best getting yourself out there by going to a club or social and speaking to people. Good luck x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Even with the perfect profile and good pictures it's hard for single guys to meet people, since there are so many of you. You're probably best getting yourself out there by going to a club or social and speaking to people. Good luck x"

Definitely change your profile text. "oooh yeah baby" is pretty horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without pics I wouldn't reply either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The *oh yea baby *@ no pics of any kind .is probably why you dont get an answer "

Aye....struck me as a bit Austin Powers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The *oh yea baby *@ no pics of any kind .is probably why you dont get an answer

Aye....struck me as a bit Austin Powers...."
aye doggy your bang on

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