FabSwingers.com forum: Young single guy & Cj’s

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cj’s worth going to for a young single guy ? Feel like i need to see what it’s all about

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Always worth a visit. Best way to meet new people and mingle.

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By *eachy400Woman
over a year ago

Muiravonside

Definitely worth a visit for the experience, I’m sure you’ll be pretty popular there & everyone is really friendly

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Until you try you will not know. Hope you are brave enough to go through with it.

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By *bakMan
over a year ago

Cork

Trying to work up the courage to attend myself!!

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The last time I went there was a guy on his own that seemed to be having a good time.

The key things are to relax, be sociable (I can talk), and don't over-drink.

Just think of it as a night out in a normal club.

Mandy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have been trying to build up courage to go for first time

I'm looking to meet and chat and get feel for the place as far as playing that's not something I'm initially looking for.

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By *C1984Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Tbak I was just thinking the same thing , what is the set up and I am keen to go also!!

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By *bakMan
over a year ago

Cork

"Tbak I was just thinking the same thing , what is the set up and I am keen to go also!!"

I know I just wouldn’t want to be the spare wheel!

Are ppl friendly and would they approach u to start a conversation??

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why don't a small group of you all meet up and go together. Surely this would be the best solution

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Pick a night and get booked in. Single guy places always fill up first on fun for all nights. Social areas are on the ground floor and play areas are upstairs. You’ll be given a tour by a member of staff.

It’s helpful to chat to a few people on the forum and see if they are going along the same night as you. It is fairly friendly but single guys do need to make the effort to chat to people. The kitchen is a great way to meet people too as it’s quieter and it’s where the buffet is. People like their food.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Guys,

Please just go and see for yourselves. Everyone that attends clubs has their own personal views which might be different from yours.

Don't be affraid to go. I still giggle when I read profiles of guys saying they are happy to partake in multiple gangbangs and NSA sex with complete strangers yet say they are afraid to walk into a swingers club with like minded people that are looking for gangbangs and NSA sex (not all the time).

Anyway it's a brilliant way to meet others on the scene.

Just go and enjoy. Even if you don't have any naughty fun it could open the door for fun out with the club.

Get yourself along and support your local club.

You won't regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pick a night and get booked in. Single guy places always fill up first on fun for all nights. Social areas are on the ground floor and play areas are upstairs. You’ll be given a tour by a member of staff.

Food !!! Who likes food lol

Yup kitchen is where all the cool folks hang out

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By *bakMan
over a year ago

Cork

Just have to bit the bullet so, few drinks and there’ll be no shutting me up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here just going to go for it and hopefully get a bit chat going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ill be up for that. wen i’m over in scotland. october if day will invite me dublin irish here x hello Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think there are a few of us in the same situation. Good to hear that it is generally friendly. Like others have said, will just need to bite the bullet and go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keen to go also. Up for meeting up and going together to ease the nerves

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over a year ago

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By *C1984Man
over a year ago

glasgow

There will be more of us than anyone else lol

It will be like social dancing at school , I just don’t think I could take KB while in my birthday suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbak I was just thinking the same thing , what is the set up and I am keen to go also!!

I know I just wouldn’t want to be the spare wheel!

Are ppl friendly and would they approach u to start a conversation??"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to start somewhere.

Think a club is best as you can meet so many variations.

Be social with people and find your feet and your kink.

As with any club it can be the luck of the draw who you meet but you will meet some fabulous people and they will make you feel welcome.

Good luck xx

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By *e gentle 100Woman
over a year ago

Bathgate

"The last time I went there was a guy on his own that seemed to be having a good time.

The key things are to relax, be sociable (I can talk), and don't over-drink.

Just think of it as a night out in a normal club.

Mandy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it thats making you nervous? You dont seem like a shy guy to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to go, but getting time away and plucking up the courage is another thing.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’m no hardened club goer (yet) and only been twice so far (in the last 8 months - would have been more under different circumstances).

Yes it can be nerve racking at first but within 30 minutes you’ll soon release what everyone else is saying here is true. Great folk there happy to make you welcome. Relaxed atmosphere. Friendly staff. Far better than a nightclub in my opinion.

Just don’t arrive once things have kicked off and head straight upstairs. That might be a bit intimidating for the unprepared. Lol. Or maybe not.

Penny’s worth.

As suggested by the wise, going as a small group of 2 or 3 is a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m no hardened club goer (yet) and only been twice so far (in the last 8 months - would have been more under different circumstances).

Just don’t arrive once things have kicked off and head straight upstairs. That might be a bit intimidating for the unprepared. Lol. Or maybe not.

Penny’s worth.

As suggested by the wise, going as a small group of 2 or 3 is a good idea. "

Like us 2 jim

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I’m no hardened club goer (yet) and only been twice so far (in the last 8 months - would have been more under different circumstances).

Just don’t arrive once things have kicked off and head straight upstairs. That might be a bit intimidating for the unprepared. Lol. Or maybe not.

Penny’s worth.

As suggested by the wise, going as a small group of 2 or 3 is a good idea.

Like us 2 jim

It’s got awfully hot in here.

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By *iimonMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I was bricking it the first time I went. Sat in the car for about 20 min building up the courage haha.

Been 3 times now as a single guy. Everyone is super friendly and I've not had a bad night yet

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I was bricking it the first time I went. Sat in the car for about 20 min building up the courage haha.

Been 3 times now as a single guy. Everyone is super friendly and I've not had a bad night yet"

Good fo you. Shame so many are not as brave.x

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I was bricking it the first time I went. Sat in the car for about 20 min building up the courage haha.

Been 3 times now as a single guy. Everyone is super friendly and I've not had a bad night yet

Good fo you. Shame so many are not as brave.x"

Can kind of understand nerves getting the better of someone. If only they had the decency to let you know before hand. Quite a few times i booked in with a +1, to stand at the club on my own. Quite embarrassing really, but won't stop me from going in anyway. And any guys looking for a +1, from now on I'm not available. You can sort yourselves out x

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By *uzzyDuck75Man
over a year ago

Glasgow & Yorkshire

Depends what you are expecting. Socialise first....plenty of great people there.

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *andy_FraserTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Depends what you are expecting. Socialise first....plenty of great people there."

Let me try again...

Don't go expecting anything.

Many folk go expecting a shag, but you're paying for entry to the club, not for sex.

Those that go expecting sex, and don't get it, will likely end up slating the club.

Best to just go and take things as they come.

Mandy

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By *ictiiWitchCouple
over a year ago

Helensburgh

Maybe we should start a newbie “buddy” system

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By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Definitely go! I haven’t been for years and not to the new digs but went first as a young single guy a number of times and met some incredible people. Very friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cj’s worth going to for a young single guy ? Feel like i need to see what it’s all about"
I loved my first visit, I didnt join in though

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By *r-shy18Man
over a year ago

close to glasgow

It is worth going, everyone is unsure what to expect the 1st time they go but think of it as going to your local pub, have a few drinks chat to a few folk and have a good night, and if it works out you can always go upstairs for some fun later??

I was not sure the 1st time I went but I went with a few people and if you got shy you always had someone you knew to talk too

It’s a win win, meet new folk and have a good night out

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By *ablito88Man
over a year ago

Near you

Been many times as a single guy and had lots of fun :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found with nerves and being first timers the best thing was to organise a group social meet at a bar with a mix of couples,guys and girls. No pressure just meet for a wee drink then head in a group to cjs. That way you won't feel u are standing about yourself and at least u can chat away to the people you have already met.

And dont go expecting too much. First time put it into your mind your just going to see the place and how things are , check it all out so no pressure , no disappointment and should fun happen then bonus.

A group social meet is a good idea, set up a forum for anyone, coupled female and males wanting to join you in social meet then cjs.

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Being d*unk (more than just dutch courage) is not a good idea

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By *eestar38Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Cj’s worth going to for a young single guy ? Feel like i need to see what it’s all about"

Always worth given it a go. Get chatting don't be sleazy and am sure you wouldn't be short of offers.

What have you got to lose by going you will either enjoy it or not.

Best advice don't go with any expectations take in the atmosphere and take it from there

Plus good looking guy like yourself will attract plenty of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe we should start a newbie “buddy” system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went about two months back on my own for the first time, bit nervous but thoroughly enjoyed

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